Learning Lan Qiongying is worth hundreds of millions!

There is a hot question in Zhihu: How smart are the smartest girls you have ever seen?

Among them, a highly praised answer is: Lan Qiongying, the second wife of the gambling king, is a really smart woman, doing everything in her power and working step by step.

The gambling king has four beautiful wives and concubines, 17 children. Over the years, he fought with each other for the sake of love and production, and he was simply a concubine in the palace.

And Lan Qiongying is equal to Zhen Xuan Benyuan.

Among the four wives in the casino, Lan Qiongying is the most worthy of women's study. Learning from her wisdom is worth 100 million yuan!

First, experience the storm and temper yourself in the harshest battlefield of life.

Lan Qiongying was born in a military family, and her ancestral home was in dapu county, Guangdong. Her grandfather Lan Yin Nan is a major general officer. My father, Lan Jianyi, graduated from Chinese Department of Lingnan University and was admitted to the seventh phase of Huangpu Military Academy. He is a cavalry battalion chief and participated in War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression. Grandpa chose to settle in Hong Kong after retirement. His family owns a five-story property in Hong Kong. His mother runs a silk shop, and the money is rolling in. Her family is well-off, with a special car and servants to serve her daily life.

Lan Qiongying is one of the nine children in the family, ranking fifth. She grew up studying in Hong Kong, and she came and went without ostentation and extravagance. Families attach importance to children's character cultivation and elite education, and etiquette and socialization are compulsory courses. At that time, dancing was the most popular way in high society, and Miss Lan Jiawu was the best dancer.

However, the good times did not last long. My father's business failed and his family came down. This year, Miss Lan 14 years old, from a rich girl to a pauper. She can only go out to work to support her family. Even so, she insisted on dancing every night. First, I like it, and second, I want to change my destiny and make friends with successful people in the upper class.

Lan Qiong-ying has experienced a decline in family fortune and has a sense of urgency. She lives a rich life and a poor life. It is this experience that makes Lan Qiongying not only have the dancing skills and excellent quality to cope with the upper class, but also have a strong desire to return to a rich life.

Many women are psychologically fragile because of too little experience.

Moreover, parents are not cruel, and children are like little sheep, with poor fighting capacity and can't stand the wind and rain.

If you don't plant the right seeds, you won't reap the right fruits, unless you practice the day after tomorrow and hone yourself in the harshest battlefield of life. That's how cattle people come.

Second, I have a good knowledge of people and the art of controlling people.

Lan Qiongying not only knows people's wisdom, but also has the ability to control people. She has a lot of troubles in her chest and her means are thunderous.

1957, Lan Qiongying, 14 years old, met the gambling king Stanley Ho at the dance. Lan Qiongying, 14 years old, has a beautiful figure and is young and beautiful. She is the youngest, but she is the most outstanding dancer. She has successfully attracted Stanley Ho and made a love dance. Lan Qiongying is good at dancing, educated by elites, and knows your manners. She is very popular with gambling kings. But the gambling king already has an original wife, so he can only wait for the opportunity silently.

As luck would have it, Li Wanhua (65438-0957), Mr. Ho's original wife, suddenly suffered from colitis and was seriously ill. She sought medical treatment in many places, but none of them could be cured. She almost cut off her whole stomach and had to eat liquid food. After the operation, Li Wanhua had to stay in bed. From a once peerless social butterfly known as the first beauty in Macao to a scrawny sick woman, Lan Qiongying knew her chance had come.

She stepped up contact with Mr. Stanley Ho. In the end, regardless of the opposition of the original Li Wanhua family, the gambling king married Lan Qiongying, who was only 14 years old, into any family on the grounds that the Qing Dynasty law had not been lifted, and became the second gambling king. Since then, Lan Qiongying has opened her own road to giants.

Lan Qiongying began to lay out for herself early. The first thing she did was to promote her own brother Lan Huaying to the core industry of Mr. He, an Australian entertainment company, and start with the lucrative job of finance. Lan Huaying has always been the administrative member of SJM and the deputy general manager of Australian Entertainment. At the same time, she also manages the jewelry and fashion business for her sister, and firmly monitors the property of the gambling king.

Lan Qiongying knows the importance of children's success in the "palace fight". She put her brother in the Australian entertainment circle to spy on the company, but also paid close attention to the education of her children.

Among Lan Qiong's five daughters, the eldest daughter is He Chaoqiong. In order to let her daughter concentrate on her career, Lan Qiongying cut off the hazy love affair between He Chaoqiong and Danny Chan in time, arranged for her daughter to marry Xu Jinheng, and strengthened her strength and position at home. He Chaoqiong lived up to her mother's expectations. At the age of 33, he joined Shun Tak Group as a director and was the favorite child of the gambling king.

The second daughter, He Chaofeng, is the current chairman and executive director of SJM Holdings.

The third daughter, He Chaokun, is a schoolmaster. She got two bachelor's degrees and is now engaged in public service.

The fourth female, He Chaoyi, a famous movie star, won the Golden Award for Best Supporting Actress.

The youngest son, He Youlong, is a veritable "overbearing president". After graduating from Toronto Business School, he entered Citibank as an intern, starting as a small assistant, and then turned Melco International, which was on the verge of bankruptcy, into a profit increase of 39%.

He Youlong works hard, makes steady progress, is faithful to his childhood sweetheart's wife, and has no bad habits of the children of the giants, which is a clean stream of the giants. He Youlong can't be mentioned in the same breath as playboy He Youjun and Xu Jinheng.

Lan Qiongying knows that women need awesome men, lots of cash and awesome children.

Therefore, she attaches great importance to children's education and is strict with children. From an early age, she warned them to abide by "six false words", and not to say "I don't remember, I don't know, I don't care, I don't like it …" and other six sentences with "no".

In the strong Lan Qiongying's view, behind "no" is irresponsibility to oneself. She teaches children to be responsible and have real skills. No matter what difficulties they encounter, they should try bravely Even if they fail, they will gain valuable experience. They should never shirk their responsibilities and do nothing.

She rewards and punishments her children clearly. If she behaves well, she will have a star. If she saves 50 stars, she will be rewarded.

If you do something wrong, you will be punished. Gamblers are sometimes soft-hearted, and Lan Qiongying even scolds her husband.

He Chaoqiong said, "My family is extremely strict with me. I don't do my homework or I'm lazy. What comes directly is all kinds of punishments. "

Parents' knowledge and pattern are the starting point of children's life. It is under the strict tutor of Lan Qiongying that her children are neither arrogant nor impetuous, and they work hard to stand out among the descendants of the giants.

In addition to her younger brother and children, Lan Qiongying found another God teammate in the production struggle-Santai Chen Wanzhen.

With Mr. He getting older and having more and more four rooms, Lan Qiongying immediately accepted Chen Wanzhen, who is good at forbearance and concealment, as his subordinate. In the battle for production, Santai stepped forward; As a result, Lan Qiongying strategized, Fannie and Freddie relaxed and took the lead.

The key to seeing whether a woman is awesome is to look at your vision and wisdom, and see if you can choose the right person and cultivate to be your "God teammate".

In reality, many women don't understand the importance of "God teammates". All they know is that going it alone always hurts.

Why are many women surrounded by "pig teammates"?

Because they have no wisdom, they can't know people, let alone make wise people obey their own orders.

And awesome women will find reliable teammates for themselves, which will not only save worry and effort, but also get twice the result with half the effort.

"God teammates" can be husbands, children, relatives and partners. In short, try your best to achieve your goal.

Third, in strategizing, winning a thousand miles.

Lan Qiongying meets people very well and doesn't care about people who can't threaten her status.

1986, Lan Qiongying, a pet for nearly 30 years, met Nina Li Chi. Nina Li Chi is young and beautiful, and she is her greatest enemy. She asked her brother to come forward and threatened her with malicious words, forcing her to leave.

Then the gambling king settled for the second best and pocketed Chen Wanzhen, the former nurse in Li Wanhua. But because Chen Wanzhen can't dance. A year later, 29-year-old Liang Anqi became the fourth wife of the gambling king. At this point, the gambling king's harem has begun to smell of war.

Lan Qiongying, who is in her forties, simply moved to Canada to take care of her father and take care of foreign business for the gambling king while watching the fire from the other side.

In recent years, Lan Qiong-ying has been watching every move of the gambling king business kingdom through her brother and children.

Lan Qiongying was born in a military family and is the descendant of an officer. She knows the art of war and is good at fighting protracted wars and guerrilla warfare. She applied the sixteen-character tactics of guerrilla warfare to perfection: "The enemy advances and I retreat; The enemy is stationed, and I am disturbing; The enemy is tired and I fight; The enemy retreated and chased me. "

When the original match was strong, she chose to keep a low profile; When the original match was weak, she seized the opportunity, made a decisive move and took the lead in one fell swoop.

When the fourth wife, Liang Anqi, was arrogant and fierce, she did not act rashly, but chose to retreat and save her strength.

Lan Qiongying really did it: instead of hiding the dragon, he saw the dragon in the field and worked all day, or jumped into Yu Yuan and flew into the sky, and Kang Long regretted it.

A woman without wisdom ignores the overall situation and cries, makes trouble and hangs herself when she encounters problems. She is as fierce as a tiger in operation. It's easy to turn yourself into a free nanny, a tool for venting, and a machine for giving birth to children.

Lan Qiongying is an expert in this game. She doesn't need to confront her opponent in person, but drives her "God teammates" to take the lead, while she strategizes and wins thousands of miles away under the fire of the other side.

In the end, Lan Qiongying got property worth 654.38+92 million yuan, far exceeding that of Chen Wanzhen and Liang Anqi. He Chaoqiong, the eldest daughter, officially took over Shun Tak Group, and He Chaofeng, the second daughter, became the chairman of SJM Holding Company, and Fannie and Freddie became the biggest winners.

In a sense, Mr. Stanley Ho is also her tool, and Lan Qiongying is the biggest winner.