My husband ran away from home 15 years, and now he has nothing in his 50 s. What's the matter?

Hello, everyone, I am from Hunan.

More than 20 years ago, my husband Li Chengyu and I got married in a small town in Hunan. Nathan Scott Lee is tall and handsome, but I didn't know he was a useless embroidered pillow until I got married.

First of all, he is the youngest son in the family and has two sisters in the world. Under the doting of his parents, he can't do housework, carry water or cook at all. No matter how hard I work outside, he is happy at home. When I come back, I will cook for him.

Secondly, not only does he not want to earn money to support his family, but he spends all his time buying some speakers and radios to play with. Besides, she has good skin and hangs out with other women outside.

Our own economic conditions are not good. He also wastes money and often stays out at night. So I am very angry and often quarrel with him. Once in a quarrel, I said he was timid, unlike a man, and he couldn't earn a penny. As a result, I didn't expect that he left home with my children and never came back.

And this walk is 15 years.

Li Chengyu and I had two children. The older one is a son. He was only five years old when he ran away from home. The youngest is a daughter, who just turned 2 at that time.

This year, I just turned 28.

28 years old, supporting the family abandoned by her husband alone. I left my two children at my parents' home and went out to work by myself to earn money for their schooling.

Life is very hard, no culture, and a group of men are pouring cement and moving bricks on the construction site. At first it was 30 yuan a day. My hand was bleeding from the sun and my skin was cracked, but I persisted in order to make money.

Once, in my most difficult and arduous moment, I prayed that my husband would come back and take charge of this family with me, but he never heard from me. Even during the Spring Festival, there was no news of him.

Until a few years later, my mother-in-law fell ill and died. Her sister didn't know where she heard that he worked in a property company in Changsha, so she found him and told him to go home and die for his mother. It's only three or four hours' drive from Changsha to our home, but he doesn't want to come back. His birth mother died, and I haven't seen him.

I just know that there is such a rebellious, unfilial and heartless man in this world. From then on, I thought he was dead.

No matter how hard and tired life is, I survived, sending my children to high school, but my eldest son didn't go to college to learn car repair skills from others. My daughter graduated from high school and went to work in the city.

Although I didn't create good conditions for my two children, I finally raised them myself. Although the child has the ability to make money by himself, I still work very hard, because I have to save money for my son to get married, so I have never stopped.

I haven't lived in my hometown for so many years. The front and back of the house are covered with weeds. Our family rented a farmhouse in the suburbs, and the rent was low, which was convenient for me and my children to go to work.

Just when I thought life would always be so hard but dull, I didn't expect my husband, the man named Li Chengyu, to suddenly appear. He didn't know where to find my place. He came to know his relatives.

It's been 15 years, and a man who left home without his wife and children 15 years appeared in front of me in a suit and tie.

However, there is only infinite indifference in my heart. He looks only over 40 years old, and I have become a little old lady in my 50 s because of hard work.

Li Chengyu suddenly came back, just because she felt that she was too old to make much money outside and wanted to have a home. He apologized to me and said that he should not neglect his family these years. But he said he would treat me well and take care of my family in the future.

I gave him a bawl and asked him if he had any money. He left home 15 and saved 20,000 every year. It's time to save 300,000. I told him that he would give me 300 thousand if he had money, and I would accept him.

However, Li Chengyu said that he was penniless and spent all the money he had earned over the years, without saving any money. I rolled my eyes at him and decided to ignore this cruel and heartless man.

However, I don't know what my son thinks, and whether he is willing to accept him back, and my daughter has no clear statement.

Don't they blame dad all these years? Over the years, from marriage to raising children, Li Chengyu has always given less than 1000 yuan to his family. Over the years, since he ran away from home, he hasn't given me and my children a penny, nor bought them anything to eat. It's all my shit and urine. I raised it hard!

Really, I hate it! I hate this heartless and irresponsible man, and I hate my bad luck! However, I am deeply entangled in the thought that children are still eager to have a complete family.

Later, I had to painfully tell Li Chengyu not to go home for the time being, saying that I would think about it.

Recently, I am still struggling in pain. I think my son is very willing to let his father go home. I don't know whether I should obey his wishes. Or stick to your own ideas? Don't let him go home