Xiong Haizi urinated in the elevator and was posted with monitoring screenshots for education. Parents: Whose fault is it to cause psychological shadow to children?

After Xiong Haizi's mistake, some parents still hope that others will put themselves in their children's shoes and don't make things public. In fact, I hope everyone will turn a blind eye to Xiong Haizi's mistakes, which is another kind of cover-up and protection. In the future, children simply have no courage and consciousness to admit their mistakes generously.

Xiong Haizi urinated in the elevator and was posted with a surveillance screenshot. Parents are not satisfied.

A case of Xiong Haizi's "doing things" once again attracted the discussion of netizens.

It happened in a residential area in Yulin, Guangxi. Some residents smelled an odor when using the elevator, so they complained to the property. After property inquiry and monitoring, I found a Xiong Haizi urinating in the elevator.

Because there are too many children in the community, it is difficult to determine which one, so the property has to post a "warm reminder" in the elevator of the community 12 unit.

The text of "Warm Tips" is mainly to remind parents to "strengthen the education of their children" and not to do uncivilized behavior in the community. The picture below shows the monitoring screenshot of Xiong Haizi urinating in the elevator. Considering privacy issues, the property deliberately did not put a positive photo of Xiong Haizi, and made a professional mosaic treatment of the picture.

This incident was also photographed by netizens and uploaded to the Internet. Xiong Haizi's parents were very unconvinced when they saw this "warm reminder" posted online, saying that they had taken their children to clean the elevator after knowing it. Now the operation of the property "has caused a psychological shadow to the children". After communication, the residential property was also removed from the "warm reminder".

Other residents in the community are biased against their parents and feel that "the whole community knows that this will be very shameful" and the property should be handled better. However, netizens hold the opposite view: "The child is not young, and I am worried that posting it will have a psychological shadow. How can they not be ashamed of doing bad things! "

In fact, we can often see Xiong Haizi's uncivilized behavior in public places now, and many such "scandals" will be criticized and spread on the Internet, but it has not stopped more Xiong Haizi from appearing, which really makes people feel helpless.

What are the reasons for the uncivilized behavior of children?

(1) Influenced by others

Children's uncivilized behavior may be influenced by the surrounding environment, such as imitating the words and deeds of parents, friends and animated characters. Children have a strong ability to imitate. Maybe they are unconscious when they do uncivilized behavior.

② Education is not in place.

The child's uncivilized behavior may be because his parents' education is not in place, that is, he has not been popularized with what is the correct behavior in public, so he is completely free from his own emotions when doing things.

What should parents do after Xiong Haizi makes a mistake?

(1) Tell children right and wrong.

After a child makes a mistake, his parents first understand why he did it, then tell him his behavior, point out his mistakes, and then tell him what is right and wrong. With the concept of right and wrong, it will be too much for him to act in the future.

(2) Encourage children to admit their mistakes.

After a child makes a mistake, it is most taboo for parents to hide it. Children should be encouraged to apologize generously to the injured party, and the attitude of apology must be sincere, and then guide the children to take the initiative to take responsibility for making up the mistakes.

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After a child makes a mistake, parents' attitudes and actions are very important. It is not advisable to ignore and cover up their own mistakes, which will only push the child to the road of "Xiong Haizi". Parents should understand that Xiong Haizi's education may leave a psychological shadow, but without education, children may not realize the seriousness of the matter and will be more arrogant in the future.