What about the property in Lane 284, Jiangsu Road?

1In the early morning of September 3, 966, at No.5 Andingfang, Lane 284, Jiangsu Road, Shanghai, Mr. Fu Lei and his wife Zhu Meifu both committed suicide. Since then, there has been no such father and no such letter from home.

Letter from Fu Lei is regarded as the painstaking work of Loongson. Since the publication of 198 1, it has had a far-reaching impact on people's ideological and moral and cultural literacy, and won the first prize of the first national excellent youth reading book with a cumulative circulation of one million copies. Although this book was not written for publication, it is from the heart, which fully shows the spiritual communication between Fu Lei and his son Fu Cong, reproduces the family education background of Fu Cong and shows Fu Lei's family style.

Why is Fu Lei's letter enduring? The reason is that it contains rich positive energy of life. "Personality education" runs through the book. Fu Lei repeatedly emphasized how to be a capitalized "person" and warned his son to be modest and polite. In his view, being a man comes first, then an artist, then a musician and finally a pianist.

Fu Lei's contribution to the development of China's music industry not only lies in cultivating Fu Cong, the first world-class piano player in China, but also puts forward valuable views and suggestions on music education.

Fu Lei suffered historical misunderstanding and was wrongly classified as "Rightist". The melody of fate turned sharply, and both father and son suffered bad luck. Fu Cong went to England, cut off contact with China, and returned to China after a national disaster. He lives in London and plays the piano for a living. Later, due to the concern of Premier Zhou Enlai and Foreign Minister Chen Yi, we were able to continue to correspond with my father.

It is precisely because of Fu Lei's noble quality that he does not bow to the powerful even if his life is full of difficulties. Therefore, when Fu Cong is not running for the powerful to make a living, this practice has safeguarded the dignity and loftiness of the artist and won great appreciation from his father. His heart can be said to be gratified and proud of his son.

Fu Lei doesn't want his son to become a miser who pursues material things excessively, nor does he want him to become a slave to money because he doesn't pay attention to it.

Money has also been mentioned many times in family letters. It is not that Fu Lei takes money seriously, but that he always reminds his son that he can neither be greedy for money nor lose money for no reason. He warned his children to live simply. Fu Lei was a master in his early years. Because his family is not rich, he has to be careful in life. Therefore, when educating children, Fu Lei also hopes that children can face up to the whereabouts of money.

The sentence left by Lu You has been circulated in Qian Qian for thousands of times: things in the world often become frugal and lose to luxury.

Looking back today, we seem to value money but not money. We value it because everything adjacent to money is often the most likely to cause contradictions, but we don't value it because we are not clear about the concept of money, and often covet temporary pleasure and fail to use money in the right place.

Fu Lei also put forward his own views on the concept of money to his son, asking him to establish a correct concept of money, not to spend money indiscriminately, but also to make clear the flow of each sum of money and spend it on the right road.

With the improvement of material life, people's pursuit of money is also constantly improving. We are often addicted to the temporary happiness brought by material things, which will actually bring us the pain of material greed. With a correct view of money, we will reduce our greed for money and be content.

Parents often give their children more than they take, which is human nature and the normal state of most families in life. Parents always tell us that we don't need it. Even if we do, the exit becomes unnecessary, just to not add any burden to our children. Parents' love for their children is immeasurable and unspeakable.

No matter what difficulties our children encounter, the first one standing behind us must be wrinkled parents, who will always be duty-bound to help us tide over the difficulties and become our most solid backing.

Fu Lei's care and sympathy for children not only makes us bitter but also makes us admire. Even though he has been reduced to poverty and illness, he is still unwilling to ask his son for help for fear of increasing his financial burden.

Fu Lei treats his son as delicately as his mother and loves him in every possible way. Even if the work is very busy, I am considerate everywhere when writing letters, worrying about my son everywhere, and giving him the most pertinent advice in all aspects.

I have been touched by his delicacy, and he seldom observes everything related to his son. The letter mentioned Fu Cong's signature on music and musicians, while Zi Cong's last sentence was not standardized. When Fu Lei found the problem, he also marked the letter in different ways, which showed his concern for his son and his meticulous attitude.

Although he is a proud father, his heart is always soft in affection, and he will be happy to receive letters from his children. His happiness is that simple.

As the old saying goes, everyone loves his son and his body.

It is human nature to "love his son" and "love his body". Fu Lei and his wife raised their son with their deep and open-minded feelings, giving him meticulous love, asking for nothing in return, and never taking family as a burden. It's rare to have such a profound understanding of the great righteousness.

Fu Lei loved music under the influence of Roman Roland in his early years and had his own unique views on music.

I actually read a trace of bitterness from it. Except for his son, he can't find anyone to exchange music knowledge. For Fu Lei, who loves music, this is undoubtedly a kind of loneliness, a kind of spiritual loneliness and a kind of spiritual emptiness. So for him, talking about music and art with his son is his only comfort in a lonely world.

In Fu Lei's view, the highest state of power is to have a pure heart, which is the highest peak of artistic creation, and this purity of mind coincides with the good wishes of mankind. But the pool is lonely. He lives in his own world, longing for the collision between souls.

Fu Lei also showed his son in the letter. We guided you when you were a child. Now that you have grown up, you are old. At this time, he can't sit back and watch himself fall behind in some aspects of art. He hopes that his son can often exchange some career opinions with himself.

Of course, spiritual satisfaction is not limited to art, but can also be satisfied when communicating with children in all trivial matters, because we can keep in touch with children, understand his current situation, know his thoughts and participate in his life.

After reading this book, I have been immersed in it for a long time, immersed in Fu Lei's heavy care for children, and realized my father's love for me. This is a powerful force and has become my most solid backing.

In the book "Family Portrait", we can find that Fu Lei seldom talks about the great truth, but educates children through the great truth implied in trivial matters of life. There is no commanding tone, just put forward your own views, and the final decision is still in the hands of the children.

He has always respected children and let them make their own decisions, which is a manifestation, and this practice has set a good example for parents all over the world.