67 long community property

Mr. Xue, the owner of a residential area in Qingdao, has encountered a difficult problem. His house was rented to a woman, Ms. Sun, but since July 2065438+2008, he has never received the rent again, and he can't do anything about Ms. Sun.

It turned out that Mr. Xue rented the house to Ms. Sun, who claimed to be a university teacher, on 20 17. Ms. Sun started with a child and gave birth to another girl in this house. Mr. Xue came to collect the rent several times, and Ms. Sun said that she had no money, not only owing the rent, but also owing the utilities of the property. Even after Mr. Xue changed the lock, Ms. Sun herself opened the lock and checked in again. Mr. Xue is in front of his house, but he can only stand and watch and can't get in at all.

Mr. Xue complained to the police several times, to no avail. In fact, Ms. Sun felt very wronged because she could not contact the father of the child and took two children with her. I can only do odd jobs, my parents died young, my grandparents got sick, and now I can't even get my eldest daughter's tuition. Now that the economy can't keep up, I will be homeless when I move out.

For Mr Xue, his house has been vacant for two years, and he has lost a lot of rent. It is understandable to want Ms. Sun to move out quickly. For Ms. Sun, if she moves out, she can only sleep on the street with her two children, and adults will suffer. What about the children? Maybe she knows in her heart that it is wrong for her to occupy other people's houses like this, but in order to have a shelter for her children, she can only live so brazenly.

Mr. Xue did not forcibly expel Ms. Sun. I'm afraid he cares more about the faces of two children. It is not easy for both sides, but it is not easy but it is not an excuse for stalemate. It is ideal to solve this matter reasonably and legally. At present, the staff of the local women's Federation said that the matter has been reported.

If Ms. Sun has money, she can pay the rent or take her children to rent a house in other places. However, as a single woman who needs to raise two children, she can do very little work, earn very little money and live so hard.

And there are many single mothers like Ms. Sun in our country. In 20 19, the number of registered divorces in China was 4 152000. Statistics show that 67% of divorced families have children. At the time of divorce, only 16% of fathers will choose to have children. In other words, single mothers are five times as many as single fathers. There are also some women who have lost their husbands because of various accidents and even become single mothers before they get married. Someone once posted a feeling that among the parents of children, there are three single mothers who take their children alone in a small group of *** 10. On the whole, the number of single mothers is simply terrible.

As single mothers, the first problem before them is the economic problem. According to statistics, nearly 80% of single mothers are under great economic pressure. Without the full support of the man, they are faced with the dilemma of raising children and working alone.

20 19, a single mother who works as a tour guide in Hong Kong, had to scrimp and save with her children because the tourism industry in Hong Kong dropped sharply and her income dropped to zero, so she couldn't even afford meat. Nearly half of single mothers are under great psychological pressure, which comes from the guilt of their children. Because I can't give my child a complete family, I always feel indebted to my child. Some unfriendly attitudes and remarks of people around them in work and marriage will also hurt their psychology and make them care about their single-parent status.

Taking care of single mothers is an urgent problem in our society. This not only requires government departments to take corresponding measures to provide some life help for single mothers. It is also necessary for social institutions to hold special project activities to help single mothers in all directions. Not only financial help, but also psychological counseling, skills training, legal aid, and condemnation of the slander and misunderstanding of single mothers in society.

Whether a family is harmonious or not, and whether a child can develop healthily, the mother plays a vital role. Caring for single mothers is also a manifestation of caring for the future of society.