The notes of neighborhood harmony. What about the end of the composition?

Newspaper clipping between harmonious neighborhoods is something I like to do in my spare time, and it is also an important way for me to live my extracurricular knowledge. This afternoon, I was clipping a newspaper and suddenly found a cartoon. This painting is not very beautiful, but it caused me to ponder ... The name of this cartoon is Neighborhood. The cartoon shows that a building suddenly loses power, and everyone's home is dark, rummaging through everything to find candles. At this moment, an innocent and lively little girl wearing a red scarf knocked on the door of her new neighbor's house opposite. A man opened the door and stuck his head out. The little girl quickly asked, "Uncle, do you have a candle?" The man rudely interrupted the little girl: "No!" Then he slammed the door. (Actually, he has a candle.) Just as he was about to light the candle, there was another knock at the door. The man opened the door and saw that it was the little girl just now. He shouted impatiently, "I told you, I don't have a candle!" " Don't borrow it from me! "The little girl didn't get angry, but smiled and took out two candles from her back and said," My father knows that you moved here recently, and there are definitely no candles at home, so let me give you two. "He said,' Neighborhood should help each other'." Suddenly, the man's face flushed and he stood there awkwardly, not knowing how to react. The indifference, selfishness and lies of men in cartoons are in sharp contrast with the enthusiasm, generosity and sincerity of the little girl's family, and also reflect the distrust between neighbors in modern cities. In fact, from the structure of the word "person", one left and one right are interdependent and indispensable. This is especially true between neighbors. As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor." When you need help from others, neighbors who are not related to you can often help you more directly and timely than distant relatives who are related to you, and solve your urgent needs. Therefore, unity and harmony between neighbors are very important. However, in real life, discordant neighborhood relations abound. "Chickens and dogs hear each other, and old people don't talk to each other." "Everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, regardless of other people's tiles. "What's more, for the sake of their own interests, do not hesitate to have conflicts with neighbors, and quarrel with neighbors all day for trivial matters. Why are you doing this? I remember reading a fable before: a blind man and a lame man are neighbors. One day, a fire broke out in two people's homes. But they didn't panic. The blind man carries the lame man on his back, and the lame man guides the blind man. With their tacit cooperation, they finally escaped from the fire and survived ... After reading this cartoon and listening to this fable, my friend, do you have a more comprehensive understanding of the relationship between neighbors? The new neighborhood is an important link between family life and social life for us. The old saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor" is enough to illustrate the importance of neighborhood relations. Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. If it works well, it will have a far-reaching impact on people's quality and moral level. With the improvement of housing conditions, we may no longer rush about for aisles, and we don't have to worry about walls having ears, but we are all wrapped in cement barriers. At the same time, the neighborhood relationship has also risen from the previous perceptual stage to the rational stage. Of course you have the right to say that neighbors are not important to me. However, when a society laments the lack of neighborhood relationship and the deterioration of interpersonal relationship, the germination of new neighborhood relationship may mean some change and hope-equal interpersonal relationship has become the soul of a society, and the neighborhood relationship that we have forgotten is an important part of it. According to the survey, the proportion of greeting among neighbors decreased by 25. 18% compared with ten years ago, but the proportion of mutual assistance and reciprocity increased by 65.6438+0%. The new neighborhood relationship greatly embodies "humanization"-people have more room for two-way choice. Now the neighborhood relationship has risen from the perceptual stage to the rational stage, which means there may be less superficial greetings, but the solution to the problem is scientific and effective. The new neighborhood relationship focuses on everyone living in harmony but never interfering in "internal affairs", emphasizing the sense of distance-as we all know, distance often produces beauty. Many noble communities have "residents service centers" and "owners' committees". Neighbors no longer bother each other, but go directly to the residents' service center, which has become a model operation. People always miss the life of the old quadrangle, saying that it fully embodies that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." However, this closeness and excitement is based on the narrow housing dilemma. In the final analysis, it is a kind of helplessness-the crowding of 72 tenants has produced a sense of intimacy, the space is narrow, and people's boldness of vision is also small. Knowing each other too much and being familiar with each other's personality and temper, everything can spread like wildfire, let alone privacy. Social scientists believe that 80% of neighborhood disputes more than ten years ago were related to housing. With the improvement of housing quality, the division between public and private areas is clear, and the disputes arising from the confusion between public and private areas will naturally disappear. The new neighborhood relationship is actually a new interpersonal relationship under the changing living conditions. When conditions change, people's thinking changes. It is obviously unrealistic to emphasize a certain atmosphere blindly. The relationship between people is a profound social philosophy. New Neighborhood Relations If the distance between houses is reasonable, there will be good neighbors. Good neighbors are people who are not far from us. In the 1970s, the most common problem among neighbors was who occupied whose corridor, whose coal pool crossed the border, the land was precious, and wars were raging. Now houses, public areas and private areas have been clearly divided. The emerging problem is how far our home is from other people's homes, and how far we will feel the sense of belonging given by the community, so that we can feel that the hidden fun in life will not be violated. A good house should have a good view, and at the same time, it should be in the eyes of neighbors. The flower wall surrounded by fences makes the border friendly. Even the thorn on the rose is not the flower-picking hand. The distance between a good house and a good house, like the distance between hearts, should be neither far nor near. With the increasingly fierce social mobility and professional mobility, people have a demand for non-profit and non-work interpersonal communication. When colleagues, business partners and competitors are constantly changing, what we expect is a stable relationship outside the family but unrelated to economic interests. So a good house belongs to a good community, and a good community should have a club, so that we can feel that the relationship between the public and the public is smooth, and the neighbors can cooperate well to find the people they want. Clubs give us a strong sense of regional belonging and enrich the connotation of home. Clubhouse is such a place-in addition to our family life and career, it also helps us to know a group of neighbors who have the same living habits as us. Good neighbors should be mutually supportive. For example, play ball together, repair the flower wall together, and nail the swing for the children together. In addition to cooperation in reality, cooperation in the online world also allows neighborhood relations to advance and retreat freely. The cooperative relationship between neighbors is a kind of fun dedication, which reflects the value outside of one's own career. Cooperation and mutual assistance make neighborhood relations the most interesting and relaxed social relations. As a job of the owners' committee, sometimes it is a pleasure to be a member of society. There should be tacit understanding between a good house and a good house, between a good house and a community, between a good house and nature, and between the owners of a good house. Coordination is perfect only when there is tacit understanding. The tacit understanding is that your house is luxurious, but it will not be abrupt, domineering and extravagant. The tacit understanding is that someone else's door is a bamboo fence, and your door is not a Roman pillar. The tacit understanding is that your neighbors won't let your children pick your flowers and turn on the radio loudly in the middle of the night. Because of tacit understanding, your house is more valuable and your life is more interesting. A good house should not only have a large private space, but also have a community environment that respects private space. It's best to have a neighbor who respects your private space with you-no one knocks on your door in the middle of the night, no one takes the newspaper that falls out of your mailbox, and no one asks you if the house is a one-time payment. On weekends, you all open the door to greet each other. Your pumpkin is ripe, so you put it in front of your neighbor's house. Respect means that you and your neighbors abide by the potential rules in life. The excitement and intimacy built up in a small space are gone forever. As Yu Yongqi, director of Rena Garden Resident Service Center, said, serving the owners well is the lifeline of property management. Whether the owners are satisfied or not determines the life and death of the property management company to a certain extent. Therefore, it has become commonplace for business owners to find property. Who will bother the neighbors? What's more, the housekeeping service center will try its best to solve everything from leaking water pipes and losing keys to being responsible for renting houses and transferring ownership. Excellent property management companies have entered the stage of brand creation, and it is a compulsory course for them to keep emotional communication with owners anytime and anywhere. Property management companies let owners know, recognize and support through various communication methods, and also collect and summarize the recent requirements and voices of owners through various channels as an important basis for improving working methods. "Resident Service Center" and "Maintenance Center" provide 24-hour service, and are ready to receive consultation and complaints. The monitoring center of the property management company has a direct network telephone to every household, and there is a "friendly reminder board" at the entrance of every building. In this way, the excitement and intimacy that were once built in a small space are gone forever. Through the adjustment of the "housekeeping service center", the distance between neighbors is moderate day by day, gradually emitting a cordial aesthetic feeling. Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. Whether it works well often has a great influence on the quality and moral level of people in this society. If we live in a luxurious house, but the neighborhood relationship is missing, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the widening of the spatial distance brought about by urban expansion, the relationship between relatives and friends will become more and more alienated. If there are only peripheral public relations such as colleagues and customers in life, life will become boring. I live in a tall building. "I live in a tall building and think back to the good old days ..." These are my own lyrics. Whenever the familiar melody flutters in my ear, my heart will buzz, and the feeling of melancholy, sadness and depression will instantly pervade the empty room. After living in this so-called high-end residential area for several years, the living environment and material life have improved, but the inner loneliness is increasing day by day. I didn't know until recently that there were 12 families living in my building. I was a stranger to them for a long time, and we both knew that going in and out was a doorway. When we met, we just nodded politely, that's all. Modern people seem to be used to making a cold mask on their faces and a thick cocoon to hide their hearts. For years, I don't remember a neighbor knocking on my door. As for me, when I was preparing to decorate my house, I went to study in my neighbor's house. There is an owners' committee in the community. I don't know who they are. I don't know what the owners' committee can do. The property in our community feels more formal, and we often post a notice under the floor and send a notice or something. There is also a supermarket in the community. If you usually want to buy something, a phone call will be delivered to your door. The sewer at home is blocked, the door handle is broken, I have troubled my friends and found a property. The attitude of property service is good, but the price is very expensive. When I first moved here, my son was still young and very naughty. Although we taught him to scold him all day and spanked him with chopsticks and told him not to jump around on the floor, otherwise his uncles and aunts downstairs would have problems, but from time to time it was inevitable that something would happen. Downstairs, the young couple had no children, and the man came up politely and put forward his own opinions. After a long time, people stopped talking. We're really sorry. One day in the middle of the night, our intercom doorbell suddenly rang, and there came a man's voice, saying that he was an upstairs neighbor and forgot to bring his key. The next day, my wife told me that this person is Korean, so I got on the phone. There is a woman living with him. She often goes out for a walk with her puppy at night 10. I don't know if that woman is his wife or Korean. Then the Koreans left. Here comes another person, who is also Korean. Koreans don't understand the customs of China. On Dragon Boat Festival, his wife put several mugwort trees in front of his house, and he felt puzzled. Anyway, my son finally has a small partner. The new residents of the West Unit, which has been vacant for a long time on the first floor, have moved in. There lived an old couple in the West Unit, their daughter, son-in-law and little nephew. I don't know their last names or what they do. My nephew is less than 2 years old and his name is Doudou. Grandpa often plays with his nephew in the yard. We passed by his house every day, and our son became familiar with Doudou. Every time I pass by, Xiao Doudou calls my son "Niu Niu". Niu Niu is willing to play with Yang Yang upstairs next door. Niu Niu and Yang Yang were born on the same day in the same year. They met by setting off fireworks downstairs during the Spring Festival this year. Niu Niu went to Yang Yang's home once and didn't come back after 10 in the evening. He's crazy. Later, his mother wouldn't let him go to other people's houses. Maybe Yang Yang's mother thinks so, too. It's annoying for irrelevant people to play at home until evening 10. I am a fan, and I know there are some good balls near my home. Because I often watch football until midnight on weekends. During the intermission, I smoked on the balcony and could hear my neighbor's TV. Unfortunately, we can't communicate. Alas, it is impossible for people to go back to the past. Living in a big yard, rice is delicious, and the days when chickens and dogs hear each other will never happen again. Society has indeed made progress. Sometimes, hiding on the balcony at night and looking at the distant sea is just like being in a tall building. There should be many people who are as confused as me, right? In the final analysis, people live and pursue spiritual pleasure.