Exposing Wu Qili's wrong view of love as a low-level courtier will ruin his life.

According to Hong Kong media reports, in 20 1 1 year, Wu Qili resolutely returned to Hong Kong with her daughter Wu Zhuolin and joined TVB as the host. Later, I started working in a commercial station, and finally broke up in discord. The relationship between the host and the guest also ended with wireless TV. Wu Qili, who didn't work for a long time and lost his investment, met Shi Liqian, a well-funded current legislator, at a friend's dinner. Wu Qili, regardless of the other party's girlfriend Lisa who has been in love for many years, took the initiative and even pointed out that she came uninvited in an attempt to kill each other's mid-levels residence overnight. Jackie Chan turned a blind eye to him, and 40-year-old Wu Qili worked hard for the rest of his life.

Raw once and cooked twice.

Three years ago, Wu Qili returned to Hong Kong with Jackie Chan-like Zhuo Lin, and her friend Lin Jianming actively arranged a dinner to let her make new friends and reintegrate into life in Hong Kong.

20 12, at a friend's dinner party, Wu Qili met legislator Shi Liqian through Ma's introduction. At that time, someone suggested to her: "He (Shi Liqian) is a member of the Legislative Council. Elaine (Wu Qili's English name) can ask him to show you around the Legislative Council when she has time."

There is no shelf to see each other, and they chatted very well the first time they met. Wu Qili and Shi Liqian met several times more, and then let each other take their mother and daughter classmates around the Legislative Council.

I was born twice at a time. Since then, Wu Qili, big or small, has disturbed each other. Every time Shi Liqian has dinner or a party, Wu Qili has to make an appearance.

"Elaine used to be a don't go out for a long time. She only appeared once or twice when she ate ten times, but since she met Shi Liqian, Elaine had to show her face as long as she knew that the other person would come out. " A friend who attended the dinner said.

Active attack

What is Wu Qili's positive intention? Everyone around him can see that his friends are coaxing him, pointing out that the other party has a stable girlfriend Lisa, and should not be a third party after getting involved in Jackie Chan and Feng-Chiao Lin's marriage. However, Wu Qili completely turned a deaf ear and even escalated his actions. Telephone calls and text messages are uninterrupted every day; The targeted Shi Liqian also began to realize that Wu Qili was "wrong". In order to avoid further misunderstanding, he began to skip the dinner and refused to call and text back to Wu Qili.

Although estranged from the man, Wu Qili, who wanted to find a backer, didn't give up because he offended wireless, was fired from the commercial station, lost money in investment, and was cheated by his uncle's predecessor. She even said that she tried to touch Shi Liqian's residence in Chaohuitai in the Mid-Levels overnight and asked for a "heart-to-heart talk", but she was invited by the other party to eat behind closed doors.

Her boyfriend was chased, which finally shocked Shi Liqian's real girlfriend Lisa, but it is understood that Wu Qili, who has taken a fancy to the target, has not completely stopped.

Different confessions

As the weekly host of dbc digital radio station, Wu Qili's income is limited. He had to pay for the construction and Zhuo Lin's attendance at an international school to learn riding. If he can save on weekdays, he can save.

On Monday (14), after recording the radio program, Wu Qili drove back to Tai Po from Cyberport. On a hot day, he didn't turn on the air conditioner to save fuel. He went to the supermarket to buy red wine and picked two bargains from 88 yuan.

Wu Qili kept his mouth shut about Shi Liqian. "I already know each other very well (I wanted to say it for a long time, but I changed my mouth). Many friends know. What should I do? Have you known each other for a long time? ) No, why not? Just a few times! Stop playing! "

On the same day, Shi Liqian, who attended the meeting on the last two days of the Legislative Council session, took time out to go to Starbucks nearby with his rich friend Guo Bingxiang in the evening. When he left, the reporter asked him about his relationship with him, and Mr. Shi generously replied: "(Do you know? ) Yes, about two years. It is said that he chased you? ) who can catch up with people in their twenties? I am looking for a young man! Does she want to go to your house? ) home? I invited many people to my home. I have a girlfriend. How should I develop? "

rich and powerful

Shi Liqian, 68, was born in Macau. He used to be the president of the Land Development Corporation and the consultant of Dashun Policy Research Center. In 2000, he entered the Legislative Council by virtue of the real estate and construction functional constituency. Now he is a member of the Legislative Council, the chairman of the accounting committee, and a member of the pro-establishment party Economic and People's Alliance. Shi Liqian is very rich, privately holding shares in nine companies and several properties. In addition, he also serves as the director of 65,438+05 listed companies, including Hong Kong Mortgage Corporation, MTR Corporation, Macau Gaming Holdings Limited, Country Garden and Taishan Petrochemical. He dabbled in politics and had many businesses, including hotels, real estate, aviation and construction. In 20 13, he was awarded the honor of gold bauhinia star by the SAR government, and he was rich and powerful.

Working trajectory

1 1 year, Wu Qili returned to Hong Kong with her little dragon daughter Wu Zhuolin to make money before the curtain. She made a play on the radio and hosted it on the commercial stage, but she was accused of poor performance and stagnant career.

Bad review of the first shot

After returning to Hong Kong, he signed a contract with wireless company for two years. The talk show "Women have something to say" hosted by the first shot was badly reviewed, and there were not enough guests. In addition, the performance is blunt and the ratings are bleak. Later, he switched to drama. In the blockbuster "Thunder Sweeps Drugs", because of his bad attitude and not remembering the script, NG frequently offended the director, which made Wu Qili fall out of favor and didn't renew his contract with Wireless.

Later, I had the opportunity to host the program "One Circle" in Shangtai, but because of poor performance, the boss Yu _ refused to receive the goods and did not renew the contract after a three-month probation period.

Last year, I switched to dbc to host the talk show "Cross-border Love" on digital radio, with one episode per week, and my income and listening rate were also limited.

Although we say that there is no right or wrong in the world of love, different views on love have different influences on ourselves. A correct view of love can guide us to find true love and get love. However, if we hold the wrong view of love, it will have different effects on ourselves, making us hurt and desperate. The following are several wrong views on love, and the bad psychological effects caused by each wrong view on love.

1, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Whenever we encounter emotional crisis, many people who persuade people to break up will say something similar, such as "three-legged toads are hard to find, and men/women with two legs are all over the street" and "expecting everything".

Psychological implication: I can find something better, so I don't care about my feelings now. This will make a person lose his mind, thus giving up the objective analysis of the status quo and giving up the efforts to save the emotional crisis. However, the reality is not what you think. If you give up this relationship, you may not find a better one or even a similar one. You know, the more feelings you experience, the less you feel at first.

2. Revitalize your feelings with your career.

When some friends are frustrated, they often turn grief into strength and turn their energy to their careers. Even many elders think that they can have feelings if they succeed in their careers, or they can save their original feelings, or they can find a better one. Some people simply regard their careers as their emotional chips.

Cause bad psychological suggestion: think that career determines feelings. But this is not the case. Because some people are very pure, they only value their feelings but not their careers, at least they won't look for their feelings based on their careers. In this case, the career you have worked hard for is like dirt to him/her; Some people may be impure, and he/she will recognize your career, but do you think such feelings are pure? Is he/she looking for you or your career?

There is no best, only better.

Some people think this idea is clever. It can make you constantly "improve yourself" and play with your feelings in the palm of your hand, which is very fulfilling.

Harmful psychological suggestion: this view seems to be "mature", but it is actually naive. It makes you lose your judgment on feelings. You always look at feelings with a critical eye, and always feel that there is a good side, which often makes you lose watermelon and pick up sesame seeds. Furthermore, some people hold this view just to play with their feelings, which will make you indifferent to your responsibilities, and finally you will regret it when you want to be serious.

The older a person is, the more valuable he is.

When men encounter emotional difficulties, they are often kindly advised to be "bachelor of diamonds". When you are rich, there are many good girls.

Causing bad psychological suggestion: this situation is similar to the second situation, so I won't go into details here. Tell me something you haven't mentioned, whether you can be a bachelor, whether you can find a girl you like, and most importantly, time waits for no one. Don't you regret not enjoying love when you were young? Therefore, it is still necessary to "seize the day."