A 30-year-old man in Henan fell in love with a 56-year-old aunt. What do you think of their love?

We have no right to judge the love of others. In my opinion, there is no age difference in love. True love transcends age, distance, even national boundaries and skin color. The difference between this 30-year-old boy and his 56-year-old aunt is not only reflected in age, but also in distance. The guy is from Henan and the aunt is from Sichuan.

Marriage with a big age gap will always attract criticism from others in life. Such a couple (husband and wife) must go through more hardships if they want to succeed together. For them, the most sad thing is the relatives around them. The opposition of relatives is also the biggest resistance for two people to be together.

The two became attached to each other because of the short video. The aunt is warm-hearted and kind, and often helps the man when he travels to Chengdu to shoot. After being together for a long time, they become lovers and husband and wife. At first, fans speculated that the two were lovers, so they clarified and told fans what they didn't have. But it didn't take long for them to announce their relationship to fans.

After their relationship became lovers and husband and wife, the discussion around their topic on the Internet never stopped. For this marriage with age gap, the author has the following two views.

1. Marriage is like shoes that don't fit. I know that after the announcement of their relationship, many people say ugly things, which will hurt them and affect their emotional direction. In my personal opinion, such behavior is bad and should be put an end to.

Everyone has the right to pursue his own happiness. Who says there is an age gap, who can't be lovers. Many old people have fewer wives and have not lived a happy and harmonious family.

I believe that if two people can be together, there must be something attractive to each other. Just like a young couple, they will be very happy together. This kind of happiness can only be understood and felt by couples. Without affection and love, two people can't get together, cross the secular vision and become a high-profile couple.

As long as lovers like it, it is enough to be kind to themselves. As for other conditions, you can accept them together, but you can't accept them, and you can separate them directly. In my opinion, love and marriage, like shoes on our feet, are only known to ourselves. If others are not parties, they have no right to speak.

If this couple's marriage is not good for us, we can ignore it and there is no need to use harsh words. This will not only destroy the happiness of others, but also appear immoral.

Second, the marriage of peers is more accepted by the world. Regarding marriage and love, the author always thinks that being with peers is the best choice.

A peer is similar in age and has many common interests and languages. After two people are together, these hobbies will bring the relationship between them closer and closer; Even if you quarrel, you can make up quickly.

Second, peers are more easily accepted by the world, which is the right age. There is an age gap between husband and wife, which will attract criticism from others and will become the focus of everyone's attention wherever they go. If the heart is not strong enough, it is likely that people will slowly lose confidence and hope in criticism.

Third, getting married at the same age is easier to grow old together. Two people with very different ages, after the beauty of love, can easily step into a lonely life.

Because of the age gap, the older party can't stay with each other for life. In particular, the old man has fewer wives, and the wife can't give birth again because of physical reasons. Such a situation may also be the source of conflict between the two.

In this couple, the wife is too old to have children. But for the sake of the young husband, the wife wants to fulfill her father's dream, is willing to risk her life and wants to be a test-tube baby. This kind of situation, the author has also seen in another couple who are old and have few wives.

As a husband, you should have responsibility and responsibility, and you should care and love your wife. If you choose an older partner, you should be prepared for no future. Fortunately, two husbands I know have given up the idea of doing IVF for the health of their wives.

Being able to break through the secular vision and be brave together shows that both of them are brave and amazing. No matter what others think, I still hope that such a couple can be loving and happy and spend the rest of their lives together.

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