How did you deal with long-distance love during the epidemic?

During the epidemic, because my girlfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship and the epidemic situation in our city was ser

How did you deal with long-distance love during the epidemic?

During the epidemic, because my girlfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship and the epidemic situation in our city was serious, we communicated our feelings through online videos and letters.

Little friends, my relationship with my girlfriend is complicated. My girlfriend and I are high school classmates. I was a member of the class physical education Committee at that time. The deskmate is a girl with excellent academic performance, who was transferred from the second year of high school last semester. She just doesn't want to get in touch with her classmates, and there is always a faint sadness. Having been in contact with my deskmate for a long time, I gradually realized that her grandmother often used verbal violence to hurt her and her family at home. My family cares about face very much, and they never argue with my grandmother, but her grandmother has intensified and yelled at her parents and deskmates. It turned out that when her grandmother was young, her mother-in-law looked down on her and made many rules for her. After the death of her mother-in-law, grandma felt that she was the absolute authority in the family and began to swear at her family. After years of language violence, my deskmate has developed an introverted, timid and stubborn character. In my opinion, although my deskmate's academic performance ranks in the top three in the class, it can be said that her academic performance is excellent and she never disputes with others, but she is introverted and rarely participates in the group activities organized in the class. Every day after school, she carries her schoolbag and crosses her legs, as if all our other classmates are radish and cabbage.

After the deskmate learned the situation, she felt that she should be helped out of the shadow of domestic violence. While studying, communicate her learning experience openly with my deskmate, let other students communicate with her deskmate more, increase the communication opportunities between her deskmate and classmates, and support her to participate in volleyball competitions organized by the school. After winning the prize, she was encouraged to participate in the volleyball competition of middle school students in the city; And with the help of my deskmate, I began to study actively and my grades rose rapidly.

Later, our care and love for our deskmate gradually paid off. Gradually, she began to become cheerful and helpful, gradually integrated into everyone's life, and the relationship with grandma and parents became very harmonious; At the same time, we all helped her build up her self-confidence, so that she gradually got out of the misunderstanding of being abused by domestic violence and her personality became cheerful. My relationship with my deskmate feels much closer. After the college entrance examination, we were admitted to universities in different cities.

During my college years, we were also in close contact, which produced the feeling of lovers in ignorance and friendship between some buddies. During the holiday, we also attended the reunion of high school classmates, and our impressions of each other were still so good. After graduation, we worked in different cities, but the distance left the seeds of love between us. One year after graduation, we naturally came together.

During that time, it was the happiest moment for both of us. Young students became lovers, which made many students envy them. Distance can't stop our feelings. We get together every holiday. In those two years, we didn't save any money, and our wages were given to railways and civil aviation.

Since the epidemic, we have no chance to visit each other because of the serious epidemic in our city. We communicate our feelings through online videos, phone calls and letters.

Some time ago, the epidemic situation in our city was aggravated, and the unit implemented home office. In the days at home, we share our life through the internet and telephone every day, and my girlfriend also teaches me how to cook Northeast sauerkraut and braised pork through online video. As we are both sports lovers, we often meet online to watch sports events, and I also broadcast live scenes of my work as a volunteer for my girlfriend.

? ? As the saying goes, paper is ephemeral. Although the online video looks like a face-to-face scene, we kept in touch with each other during the epidemic. We believe that the feelings reflected between the lines in the letter are beyond the reach of online video and telephone. What flows in the letter is the mourning and attachment of both sides to each other. The feelings revealed between the lines are still as simple and sweet as when they were at the same table in high school, adding to the baptism and precipitation of the years.

In short, during the epidemic, my girlfriend and I communicated our feelings through online videos and letters, which is precious in our life experience. As the saying goes, you can't see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. I hope our friends are as safe as we are and have pure feelings for each other.