How to treat the baby playing ball upstairs and fighting with the whole family?

It is wrong for both sides to have physical conflicts when contradictions are irreconcilable. I want to talk about my knowledge and understanding of this issue from the following aspects.

First, when there are contradictions and disputes between neighbors, they should be resolved through consultation. Fighting is illegal. When disputes and contradictions occur between neighbors, both sides should calm down and seek solutions to the contradictions. If both sides are not satisfied with the handling of the problem, they can also seek other ways to solve the contradiction. In short, neither side can fight.

Fighting is an illegal act, which is not conducive to the solution of problems and contradictions, but will make the handling and solution of problems and contradictions more complicated.

Second, if the two sides can't solve it through consultation, they can seek the owners' Committee to solve it. All roads lead to Rome. Children upstairs make too much noise when playing ball, which affects their normal life. They should tell each other calmly that they want their children to play quietly. If we can be rational and reasonable in the negotiations, perhaps the contradiction will not intensify, and there will be no struggle if the contradiction does not intensify. Because as a normal person, I think everyone is reasonable and reasonable.

To say the least, if you tell your request to the upstairs calmly, they will turn a deaf ear to your request. You can also go to the owners' Committee to help you solve it. The solution is always more difficult than the reality. Why do the two sides have such a fight?

Third, if the owners' committee can't solve it, then both parties can call the police, and neither party can break the law. If the two sides can't solve it through consultation, the owners' committee can't help them solve it in the mediation process. The parties downstairs can call 1 10 to call the police and seek the solution and handling of the police.

Fighting between the two sides is illegal in itself, and fighting has certain social harm.

Fourth, what I want to say is the result of the fight. Either side wins and goes to jail, and loses and goes to the ward. Both sides lost. The two sides have physical conflicts and fight each other, and the final result is to win jail, accept legal punishment, suffer both physical and mental blows, and bear a certain economic burden for their illegal acts.

If you are defeated in the battle, your body will suffer from illness in the hospital bed. Even if the other party pays your medical expenses, your body and spirit will be hit hard, which will affect your normal study, work or life. I think this result may not be what both sides want to see.

Fifth, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and he who tied the bell must untie it. Neighborhood conflicts are only noisy, so what's wrong with letting him score three points? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. In ancient China, the story of Sanchi Lane in Tongcheng, Anhui Province was widely circulated among the people, which became a model for solving disputes and contradictions in the neighborhood and set an example for contemporary people.

In today's harmonious society, can't our contemporary wisdom catch up with the ancients? Take a step back and let the three points calm down. Impulse is the devil, which will only make problems and contradictions more and more complicated and sharp, which is not conducive to the solution of problems and contradictions! Harmony is precious!

The above is just a personal opinion. Welcome to pay attention to the dancers who like and forward @ walking on the nib, and exchange and discuss related issues. This is a bloody case caused by a ball. The neighbors downstairs thought that the 3-year-old children upstairs were playing ball too loudly, so they pushed the door and hit the man's family. In order to protect the children and the elderly, the man resisted, but was detained 10 days.

-Both sides hold their own words. Who is right and who is wrong? Let's see what both sides say.

Upstairs landscape:

Mr. Yang, the younger brother of the upstairs resident, said that the 3-year-old child played a ball downstairs that night and said it once downstairs. But then the ball accidentally fell to the ground. Downstairs, Mrs. Zheng came to see you with two sons in their twenties.

The 8-year-old injured girl said that Mr. Yang was going to the toilet at that time and there was a loud knock on the door. Mr. Yang opened the door with his trousers, and the door opened and the opponent punched him on the ground. Because she was afraid, she called her grandmother and was beaten to the ground when she came. Then I took out my mobile phone to shoot and was chased by Ms. Zheng with high heels. She knelt on the ground and kowtowed and said she wouldn't record it, begging them not to play too much. My 3-year-old sister was so scared that she hid in the corner of the refrigerator and cried.

Xiao Fang, the hostess upstairs, said that her family has two babies, who have always been very concerned. A thick cushion was specially laid in the bedroom to prevent the sound from affecting others. Most of the children's toys have been removed, and the slippers at home have been replaced with soft soles. But even so, the other party often comes to the door, saying that the sound of bath water and toilet flushing has affected his home. She believes that her husband did this because he was protecting the elderly and children, which was self-defense and should not be detained.

Downstairs landscape:

Mr. Zheng downstairs said that there were frequent noises upstairs, and the two families had long complained. Their home usually sleeps after 10, but sometimes it makes noise in the early morning upstairs. On the night of the incident, the family was eating, and the sound of the ball kept coming from upstairs, which made the family very unhappy. I was warned for the first time. I started playing the second time I went up. That night, he happened to be away from home on business.

In addition, he also relayed Mrs. Zheng's words, saying that Niang San was locked in the upstairs room that day and was not allowed to go out. When asked that the old man and his master were knocked down by the "mother" and the old man was desperate to call for help, Mr. Zheng said that something was wrong now.

Injury report:

Only Mrs. Zheng was slightly injured downstairs! The injured are all upstairs residents.

A 3-year-old girl suffered from convulsions and other local epilepsy after being frightened. The old man who was beaten had just finished tumor surgery, and he was beaten, kicked, twisted, bitten and scratched all over. An 8-year-old girl's hand was injured and cracked with local congestion and swelling. The man was injured in many places, such as abdomen, head and arm.

The author's point of view:

I think the cause of this matter, who is right and who is wrong, has always been unclear, and both sides have their own words. Xiao Fang said that the sound of washing in the toilet at home was regarded as noise downstairs. Downstairs, they said they had been troubled by the noise upstairs for a long time. Because both families are suspected of lying, it is not good to comment on right or wrong!

However, one thing is certain: if it is true to make noise upstairs for a long time, then it is definitely wrong to make noise. It should not affect the rest of other people's homes. Relevant departments can visit the community to understand the views of neighbors and whether this long-term noise really exists.

But whether there is noise or not, hitting people is definitely wrong. Mrs. Zheng downstairs and her two adult sons, even the old lady and children, are cruel and absolutely extreme in their thoughts. It is not excluded that she regards the noise of the neighbor's bath and toilet flushing as the noise that has plagued them for a long time. If you hit someone, you should be punished by law. I don't think this matter should be as simple as detention. Sentencing should be based on the injury.

Say it again! Mrs. Zheng said that her mother was locked in the upstairs room, which was obviously a lie. Those who were injured were all others. How can you keep these three people upstairs? And afterwards, one of Mrs. Zheng's sons deliberately disappeared and evaded responsibility, which should be severely punished.

As for Mr. Yang who was beaten upstairs but detained, I think the verdict is wrong. When the other party comes to the door, it is cruel to the elderly and children at home. It is impossible for the head of a family to protect the elderly and children without fighting back. It is reasonable to fight back. The little girl was frightened into epilepsy, and the scene at that time could be supplemented by her brain. If she doesn't fight back, this situation won't make sense.

As for civil compensation, both parties should compensate each other separately.

I want to say well played, well played! Hit my anger! Hit the resentment in my heart! No longer broke out in silence, but perished in silence! Recently, in Zhengzhou City, Henan Province, because the 3-year-old girl upstairs played ball too loudly, the neighbors downstairs couldn't bear it and beat up the whole family upstairs! The 3-year-old girl was scared out of epilepsy and others were injured to varying degrees! The upstairs man retaliated and detained 10 day, and the downstairs resident detained 15 day.

Upstairs and downstairs, these two families have been feuding for a long time, and they won't fight for a trivial matter without talking! As the saying goes, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. Every day, we look up and see each other. Everyone is willing to live in harmony with their neighbors. If it is not unbearable, no one wants to make excessive behavior!

This kind of thing happens every day in life, and most people take forbearance! I understand the hitter very much, and I also understand the person who was beaten!

My neighbors are three children. I haven't been quiet for a day since they moved here last year, and I am very patient every day! Because of the epidemic this year, I was trapped at home for more than 40 days. This noise is driving me crazy! Every morning, from the beginning to the evening, their children start running at home or shooting balls for hours at home! I didn't sleep in the middle of the night, laughing! I told her at home and reminded her in the unit group that I was still going my own way!

Everyone has children, and mutual understanding is the main thing! Now the pressure of life is increasing, and I want to be quiet at home. If your neighbors are noisy from morning till night! Would you like to use your home as a playground?

I believe this neighbor has also communicated in many ways, and finally there is no reasonable solution! From silence to final outbreak! I believe that the hitter is also a kind person!

Fighting violence with violence is not the fundamental solution to the problem, and it is easy to cause both sides to lose! We don't want to see the scene of injury! Finally, we have to return to education! Start with family education and social education, start with children's education, and start with parents setting an example! Respect others and respect yourself! These two days are hot topics for people after dinner, because of the noise of the house, such a thing should not happen, there is no winner!

On July 3, 2020, around 18 in a residential area in Zhengzhou, children downstairs were suspected of playing loudly. The old lady downstairs pushed the door and went in with her two sons. The 8-year-old girl upstairs was beaten by the neighbors downstairs, along with the brother and 60-year-old mother of the owner upstairs. The fight lasted for about an hour, and the three-year-old child was scared out of epilepsy. It was identified that two people were slightly injured upstairs, and only Mrs. Zheng was slightly injured downstairs.

On August 23rd, the police mediation failed, and Mrs Zheng and a son downstairs were detained 15 days. Another son disappeared, and Yang who fought back upstairs was also detained 10 day. The family upstairs refused to accept this and thought that it was natural for Yang to fight back to protect his family. Some lawyers believe that in the face of illegal infringement, fighting back and causing the other party to be injured is a legitimate defense and does not bear legal responsibility. Whether it belongs to self-defense requires police certification, and the case is being further processed!

This violent incident caused by house noise has greatly affected the normal life upstairs and downstairs. Two adults upstairs were slightly injured and needed hospitalization. The child was scared into epilepsy, which brought great mental trauma to the child and his family. Poor kid! I was injured downstairs, I have to pay for it myself, but I also have to bear the corresponding civil liability, and I am doomed to pay for my impulse!

Neighborhood, you respect me one foot, I respect you three feet, everything should be discussed well, put yourself in your own shoes, find reasons from yourself, avoid the escalation of contradictions, value harmony, in order to enjoy the happiness brought by harmonious life!

Event review: Because the children upstairs were playing ball too loudly, the aunt downstairs took her two sons upstairs and beat her neighbors upstairs. There is a man in his thirties, an 8-year-old girl, a 3-year-old girl and a 60-year-old grandmother upstairs. After playing for almost an hour, the man had high heels on his stomach, and the three-year-old child was scared out of epilepsy. The man was detained for self-defense 10 day. The hitter was detained 15 days!

There is a child at home who is always fidgeting. I believe that the contradiction between the two families is not caused by a quarrel and running upstairs to hit people, but it is wrong to hit people at home. I think both companies are at fault! Neighbors are noisy, so it is necessary to communicate in time, restrain children, and try to reduce contradictions and hit people. If you come into the house and hit people, you know the law and break the law! It's a little noisy, but it sells well. If something goes wrong and you go to prison, it will affect two families and cause physical harm. Even if you spend money to see a doctor, people will suffer!

The old man's hand was directly buckled, which was really vicious. The 8-year-old girl said at the time, please don't hit my grandmother!

It takes a long time to make up for the psychological trauma caused to children. Adults are uncomfortable watching their families get beaten, let alone children!

This hit people, can you still do it? Ask him if he has bought a floor vibrator. People who claim to be high-quality don't know about it!

Both families were detained, but the male owner was also detained for self-defense. I think this is unreasonable. In this way, there will be no sense of security when living at home in the future!

Neighbors, neighbors, family! Be tolerant of each other, and residents living upstairs should not clamor for their neighbors downstairs to pay the bill. If they really can't communicate, call the police and let the police mediate. Don't cause irreparable trauma to both sides because of impulse, and let the contradiction cool down in time.

The contradiction between the two families is only because the upstairs residents are noisy when eating, which leads to the unhappy mood of the downstairs residents, so they rushed upstairs and beat up the upstairs residents. So there was a physical conflict when the two families went upstairs and downstairs. It stands to reason that the reason for this contradiction is that the children upstairs make too much noise and some disturb the people. But anyway, I went upstairs to hit people because I was too noisy. Obviously a bit of a fuss, too grumpy.

It is worth mentioning that there are contradictions among the residents on these two floors. It is supposed to be the fault of the residents downstairs. The residents downstairs moved first and the residents upstairs fought back. But the unexpected reversal is that the residents who fought back upstairs were also detained. The explanation given by the local police is that because the residents upstairs also hit each other, they have to be detained.

This explanation and handling by the local police can be judged from the current known situation. I think it was mishandled because the residents downstairs came to make trouble. It was also the downstairs residents who hit people first. He hit people only because he couldn't stand the noise of the upstairs residents. That man came to you and was beaten at home. How could he not fight back? I think the residents upstairs are in self-defense and should not be detained. Of course, I just think so based on what I know so far. How the follow-up events develop depends on what new details the local police can give.

The neighbors downstairs think it's too noisy upstairs. The old lady downstairs with her two sons beat the whole family upstairs, and the children upstairs were scared out of epilepsy.

In Zhengzhou, Henan Province, an 8-year-old girl was beaten by an upstairs neighbor for playing ball. The man tried to protect his family, and the attacker was finally detained 15 days, and the person who was beaten was detained 10 days.

Neighbor oral surgery downstairs:

1, I heard the ball banging upstairs while eating, and I have appealed twice.

2. downstairs reflected the noise. upstairs locked the downstairs in his house and upstairs locked the three of us in the house.

3. I haven't slept at one or two in the morning upstairs, and it's noisy.

The neighbor upstairs dictated:

1, as soon as I opened the door, the other party punched my uncle and pinned him to the ground.

2. I recorded the video of beating people, and the old man downstairs came to grab my mobile phone.

There are two children in my family, one of whom is three years old. She listened to the downstairs and asked us to put a crawling mat behind the foot of the bedroom.

4. Downstairs often reflect the sound of bath water and toilet flushing upstairs in the morning, which can be heard downstairs.

5. The neighbors downstairs bought a rocking device for "revenge", often deliberately rocking the building, and the property also intervened.

"The old woman said that the old woman was right, and the public said that it was right." Now the question downstairs is, "I broke into the house and beat my whole family. Why am I detained? "

The downstairs broke into the upstairs without authorization, and the upstairs male owner fought back in self-defense, and the 3-year-old girl upstairs was scared into epilepsy; An 8-year-old child has an irregular fissure on the lateral side of his left arm, accompanied by obvious local congestion and swelling; A 56-year-old man was beaten, kicked, twisted and scratched downstairs after undergoing malignant tumor surgery.

We are all neighbors. Now that we have bought a permanent house, no one will fight because of the noise. It must be a long-standing grudge, and quarreling will make people angry. It's useless to say nice things to upstairs, so I can't bear it and fight.

Although it is really wrong to break into the upstairs and hit people as follows, there is room for review upstairs, and we should also think about the pain of bearing noise for others. Who wants to do such a radical thing if it is not unbearable?

Generally speaking, it is ineffective to communicate between yourself downstairs and upstairs, and you should find the property police to persuade you. Rationally speaking, it is really wrong to clap the ball upstairs. Anyone who breaks in and beats others illegally shall bear legal responsibility. I think it's right to defend yourself and protect your family upstairs.

Let's start with the relationship between the upper and lower neighbors. It's wrong to rush over and hit others. The neighbors downstairs have repeatedly reported that the neighbors upstairs have not changed the noise problem. However, everyone has children and understands each other. If it is true that the upstairs neighbor said that the downstairs can't stand the sound of taking a shower and flushing the toilet, then the downstairs neighbor has gone too far.

After reading this report, to be honest, this result is caused by both sides, and everyone is responsible for what he did wrong.

The cause of this incident began with the noise generated by children playing ball upstairs, which affected the lives of neighbors downstairs and led to conflicts between the two sides.

The contradiction is caused by both sides, and the fault upstairs is great. After the incident, the neighbors downstairs went upstairs to discuss the matter several times, but judging from the outbreak of this incident, the upstairs did not do a good job of making noise when the children played ball, which still had a great impact on the lives of the neighbors downstairs. Upstairs is too selfish. They only play for children, but they don't know the bad influence on life downstairs. It may be unfriendly to go downstairs to discuss the argument upstairs during the period. The combination of the two will lead to the escalation of contradictions and lead to tragedy!

Breaking into houses and hitting people downstairs is a big mistake and requires legal responsibility. Upstairs is messy and unreliable. You can't hit people, especially children and children. Such behavior is too bad. You can solve the behavior upstairs by negotiation or legal means. It is wrong to hit people, and it is illegal to hurt people.

In short, the inaction upstairs and the impulse downstairs caused the tragedy. The root cause is that neighbors don't know how to deal with contradictions. There are actually some reasonable ways to deal with this kind of thing.

1, find the root of the contradiction

The root cause of this incident is the noise generated by children playing ball upstairs, so we should solve this problem.

2. Communicate and negotiate to resolve conflicts

After the noise downstairs is affected by the noise upstairs, you should tell upstairs at the first time, don't just endure it; Secondly, after the upstairs knows this, we should take corresponding measures to ensure that the lives of the neighbors downstairs will no longer be affected. There are many ways, such as staggering the time for children to play ball with the rest time downstairs, reducing the time for children to play ball, or simply taking children to play under the community, in order not to affect the lives of people downstairs because of themselves.

3. If negotiation fails, you can call the police and deal with it through legal channels.

In the case of fruitless communication and negotiation, you can call the police. Under the adjustment of the police uncle, I believe that the upstairs will definitely converge. Never use violence to solve things, it will do no good to anyone, it will only harm others and yourself!

On the evening of July 3, because the three-year-old children upstairs were playing ball too loudly, which affected the downstairs neighbors to eat dinner, so the downstairs neighbors heard the sound of the ball for the second time after the first door-to-door warning, and the mother and son went to the door to beat the upstairs family.

In this matter, I feel that there is something wrong with both families, that is, they do not understand and tolerate each other.

In fact, for these two families, there is not much contradiction. However, it is precisely because of the dissatisfaction caused by some voices that if we take a step back and be more tolerant, there will be no such thing.

First of all, the upstairs residents are at fault first. It is understood that we know that it is not a day or two since the residents downstairs are dissatisfied with the residents upstairs. They have told them many times not to speak too loudly. Although the upstairs residents added a thick mat to the room, it may not have much effect in fact.

After the neighbors downstairs have reacted many times, we should pay more attention to let the children not play ball at home, especially after everyone has a rest at night.

Secondly, the behavior of the residents downstairs is excessive. In fact, we can understand the feeling of downstairs residents being noisy by upstairs neighbors, but in a society ruled by law, whoever hits people first is wrong!

Since they are so dissatisfied with the upstairs residents and feel that communication can not get good results, they can choose to complain and let the property come forward to solve this matter.

Moreover, as a neighbor, you can't look up at what you see almost every day. Even if you don't like it or are dissatisfied, there is no need to be angry enough to hit people. Fists can't solve things, they will only make things more and more chaotic.

In the conclusion, it is said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. If neighbors can understand each other and treat each other friendly, it is really a wonderful thing.

However, if we are not tolerant enough to understand each other, it is also very easy to tear our faces because of some trivial matters, leading to the situation of old age and death.

Therefore, people still have to learn to understand, learn to tolerate, don't get too excited when encountering things, and learn to deal with them calmly so as not to make things worse!

The hitter is not necessarily indefensible, and the one who is beaten is not necessarily right, but one thing is certain, that is, hitting people is a wrong way to deal with it, and this incident can only be defined as fighting.

Never listen to one-sided words. It takes two hands to applaud. Since there are contradictions between the two families and they have already started to do it, both sides have the responsibility to specify that moral kidnapping cannot be used. This case is judged according to the strength of both sides.

Many people, including myself, have experienced disturbing people upstairs and downstairs. At that time, I was reminded upstairs because there were children mopping tables and chairs upstairs, considering that there were children and old people at home, but I completely ignored them after I went, and my attitude was very tough. As a result, I almost moved my hand. So specific things need specific analysis. Facts are facts, and morality belongs to morality. These are two different things and cannot be confused.

On the one hand, it is right to have children at home, but it is the responsibility of parents to manage and supervise. "Children can disturb people at will" is not the right reason. To say the least, even if it interferes with neighbors, then children should not be bargaining chips. Can parents have a better attitude? Will it be better to handle this matter and cherish the feelings of neighbors? After all, nobody owes anyone, so you can do everything.

In addition, as the disturbed party, most of them will not go upstairs to solve the noise problem if the noise is not big. After all, children are active, but if they exceed a certain tolerance limit and affect their daily rest and work, then it is not a trivial matter. Equality for all is not just lip service. This has a legal basis. However, it is the right and obligation of every citizen to act according to law, and it is also the code of conduct. If you violate it, you need to bear corresponding legal responsibilities. Breaking the law is absolutely unacceptable, not to mention scaring a 3-year-old girl. This is irrational behavior.

For example, in this case, I read a report that the upstairs locked the neighbors downstairs in the house, so they did it. If it is true, it can be said that both sides were more excited and impulsive at that time. Then, in this case, we can't just divide the responsibility by who starts first. The responsibilities of both parties are basically the same, and both parties are at fault. The final result should be that both parties should bear the medical expenses for each other and pay for their own actions. The specific results are subject to the police disclosure, and the harmonious coexistence between neighbors requires the joint efforts of both sides.