What do you mean, appearance is close to spirit?

Meaning: On the surface, they are closely related, but in fact they are two hearts.

From: Su Shu Zunyi of Huang Shigong

Original: Those who look away from each other are lonely, and those who respect each other as guests die.

Interpretation: people who pretend to be harmonious in appearance but separated in heart are lonely; Destined to be close to those villains who speak ill of others and alienate those good people who do their best.

Extended data:

Su Shu is the concrete embodiment of the author Huang Shigong's outlook on life. The book has six chapters and five topics.

Zunyi Zhang expounded his way of life. The politics of China people is the politics of people's rule. Whether we can handle interpersonal relationships well is the key to the success of our career. ?

Zunyi chapter is divided into five sections.

The first section says that if you want to make meritorious service, you must first observe your own shortcomings and trace back to the source. There has always been a truth that I don't know, I don't answer, I complain with words, there are different decrees, and I can't be angry. It is the deviation that blinds the truth, confuses the truth, and evil will be destroyed. We can't be careless about this. For another example, directly insulting others, being slow to respect others, being slow to get close to each other, being slow to be loyal to others, and being slow to get close to others are also the reasons for disaster, peril, fiasco, loneliness, death and gloom.

The second section is about the disadvantages of employing people in acting. Female public servants, private officials, bullying, reputation, a little self-blame and self-pity are the reasons for the chaos. Soon after being superficial, the next person will invade, and the subject will dissipate, and the chaos will not be cured, but it will be abandoned.

The third section is about the benefits of dealing with social affairs and rewarding and punishing rulings. For example, too much dislike of work, not being appointed, stingy, generous and generous, being welcomed and rejected, having high hopes, forgetting old evils, abandoning new achievements, employing people incorrectly, and being forced to employ people. It is precisely loss, drowning, evacuation, prevention, resentment, deviation, failure to report, quickness, danger, ignorance and confusion.

The fourth quarter is said to be the strategy of seeking things. If a person loses his own strengths, makes a ruthless decision, reveals a conspiracy, is generous and ignores generosity, militancy, travel, and the good, it is also the cause of inferiority, danger, failure, withering, decline, ignorance and cruelty.

The fifth section explains the truth of distinguishing right from wrong and rewarding and punishing fairly. Use it for saints, not for saints. Moral education, not specialized in criminal law, forgive small grievances, reward and punishment should be reasonable, knowing beauty and repaying kindness will lead to danger. Culpable of punishment, and avoid the cruelty of greedy people.