What should I do after being scolded by an alcoholic?

In fact, the situation is not necessarily as bad as you think.

In fact, when this happens, you start to make mistakes, although this mistake can be forgiven.

"... I'm very scared. When his family comes out to help him, I'll go out and tell him not to smash my door. "That's how you handled it at that time. For a layman like him, and when he is drunk, it's hard to find any other choice but to scold you. This is because, firstly, if he is really drunk and doesn't know what he is doing, he accidentally knocks on the wrong door (which is unlikely). So, his family has come out to help him. Go out and tell him "Don't smash my door". Note that you are a single woman. Didn't you deliberately embarrass him? Maybe you didn't expect it at all. You just reminded him. However, in his view, this is unnecessary. Your purpose is to hint to others that he may have done it on purpose. So, he just swore at you in a drunken frenzy to show his innocence. Even if he feels that the more he scolds you, the more worthless he is. Second, he is not too drunk at all. He knows your situation. He deliberately knocked on your door and pretended to be drunk to take advantage of you. ... smashed my door twice, and I live alone. The door didn't open, and his house came out again. He could have pretended not to know, but you came out again at this time, trying to cover up a little fig leaf, so you tore it off, became angry from embarrassment and simply scolded you drunk.

If the analysis makes sense, it shows that he is a vulgar person, but he is also an ordinary person. Therefore, those targeted attacks and sanctions against him, unless you are very strong, will be difficult to work. Those methods of educating him through others are not easy to use because he is vulgar. So far, it is the best policy to narrow the scope of influence as much as possible and pretend that this has never happened. Otherwise, the impact will be too great, and everyone knows it. Even if others know that his motives are impure and his character is wrong, you will have the sequela of catching shadows.

"... I am an office worker and a civil servant, and I don't want to be as knowledgeable as such people ... they are neighbors, and I don't want to be so stiff. "You are the best choice, as long as you are right and don't care, it definitely doesn't mean weakness, and it is impossible for neighbors to say that you are weak. Besides, the more you don't mention it, the less likely he is to do the same thing again. Moreover, in any case, if you don't mess with him, he is unlikely to bully you again. Unless he commits another crime, it is unlikely that the public security will punish him for this matter. If it does happen, your best choice is to call the police immediately. There's no need to reason with him at all, because it's no use talking.

Maybe what I said is uncomfortable for you, but I think it is more practical.