How can we run a good home?

How can we run a good home? This problem may be a problem that puzzles most people. I often think about this question, little D, how can we run a good home and how can we make this home full of warmth and happiness?

In fact, little D grew up in a happy environment. Although our family is not a wealthy family, every family member is happy, because Xiao D has a good mother. It is said that a good woman can influence three generations, which is true, and it is also reflected in my mother.

My parents belong to late marriage and late childbirth. For people born in the 1950s, there are many pressures and restrictions. They have many brothers and sisters, lack material foundation, and sometimes even arrange marriages. Our parents introduced each other through my great-uncle, and then got engaged and married. At that time, there was nothing big to ask for, but life was very happy. Because my mother never quarrels with the other three aunts, and she is more filial to my grandmother than my father, which is famous in our place.

It is precisely because of such a filial, hardworking and simple mother that our three brothers and sisters are growing up happily and healthily. We also know in our hearts that we should be filial, kind and depend on ourselves. Because our family was born in poverty. Of course, when we grow up, we have not failed our mother's education and expectations. In addition to some achievements in our career, we are also very filial, which is also the envy of our neighbors' uncles and aunts.

My mother will also educate the next generation and have a far-reaching impact on the next generation. In fact, it is a family cultural heritage. Therefore, it is true that a woman can influence three generations. Even my nephew knows that people can't be popular for long if they are hardworking, dependent on themselves and others.

I think my mother is a good example of running a family. D, I wish I could be like my mother, but it's still difficult to practice. Imagination is one way, but practice is another. After all, there are many pressures and grievances in life. Can I be patient and tolerant? Not everyone can do it and do it well.

There are many problems between me and my partner and his family that I can't handle well. After all, everyone grew up in different environments, and his parents' education methods are different from mine. Can't say who is good and who is not. But there are some places where I really disagree. This has caused me to be intolerable and unbearable. On the contrary, he becomes grumpy and angry easily in life. This makes it difficult for me to manage my family well, so I am confused and don't know how to do it well.

But then my mother's words woke me up. People will always experience a lot in this life. You can't control all different people and things The only thing you can do well is yourself.

Yes, to run a family well, we must first run ourselves well. How can you have a good family if you are not good enough?