Does he still love me? The confusion of a young woman

I have been married for more than four years and have a two-year-old child. My husband is the general manager of a property company. I don't work long and take care of them at home. In the eyes of others, we are a happy family. But what they don't know is that my marriage is not happy. Life is not as beautiful as I thought. Maybe I should give up this marriage.

Before we got married, my husband and I also had a certain emotional foundation. We have been in love for two years, and those two years are the happiest time. He gave me everything I wanted, even better than anyone else. I have a great sense of security for him and feel that I can go on with him in my life. But after marriage, everything changed. I don't know if it's my mentality or the sense of gap. I feel that I can't find a sense of belonging in this marriage. He is a careless person, and sometimes the way he speaks does not represent what he thinks. To put it simply, although he speaks badly, his heart is towards me. At that time, I didn't understand. I quarrel with him every day, and I am often dissatisfied with his bad words to me. For example, I can't eat Chili after pregnancy, but he doesn't seem to believe it. He occasionally buys spicy food and then forgets it. For another example, he likes to refute what I say. Whether what I say is right or not, whether it has anything to do with him or not, he will say that what you say is wrong, and then refute you with a lot of reasons, so that I don't want to talk. I can't be serious yet. If I am serious, I will be laughed at by narrow-minded people.