There is a kind of kindness called moral kidnapping.

Guess what kind of person is kind?

I think in most people's minds, kindness and gentleness are integrated. Many people define kindness as "getting along makes people feel comfortable."

This is really a subjective answer. People who feel comfortable with each other are not necessarily kind, but are probably liars. Gentle people are not necessarily kind, and kind people are not necessarily gentle.

Mencius Sun Lun Ugliness said: "Goodness is the same as others, self-sacrifice and obedience, and taking people's happiness as goodness." Everyone has his own difficulties in life. It is not easy to get along with others. Only by putting yourself in the shoes can we get along for a long time.

We have an old saying: "It is convenient for others, but also for ourselves." Sometimes, if you don't embarrass others, you are letting yourself go. Life is so strange. Although we can't see the kindness to others and when we can fulfill ourselves, we can always clearly see the malice to others and how to block our way.

A few days ago, something happened in our community. Due to the inaction of the property, the residential environment is dirty and messy. I saw two photos taken by the owners on the first floor. There is a thick layer of garbage under the window, with semi-corroded leaves, plastic bags and beverage bottles, which looks like a small garbage dump.

Although I live on it, I deeply sympathize with the garbage environment faced by the residents on the first floor. Everyone discussed how to argue with the property theory in the group. Since she received the property management fee, she should be responsible for the environment of the community, not to mention being particularly clean and tidy, at least not dirty enough to give birth to mosquitoes.

As a result, when everyone was discussing whether to pay the property fee, a "good man" appeared. His original words were like this: "From the past to the present, we have lived in peace with the property for more than ten years. Everyone is knowledgeable and literate. Don't get into trouble with someone who lives at the bottom of society. If we don't pay the property management fee, she will have no financial resources. I suggest that families with children wait for their children to organize after school or on weekends. Parents bring their children to a general cleaning, which not only exercises their children's hard work, but also harmonizes this big family. "

I have to say that there are really not a few people with brain circuit problems in life. They are very irritating, but they don't know it. When others defend their legitimate rights and interests, they use the moral blame rule.

This reminds me of a joke. When someone catches a mouse, he will kill it because it is one of the four pests, but someone whispers, "The mouse is also a life, let it go, let it go." Do you think this kind of person is kind or wrong?

It is said that many people may still be awake when the rats are released. It is worth mentioning that "releasing rats" has become popular in recent years. There is news that many people buy turtles, bullfrogs, eels, loaches and other small animals from the market and take them to Xuanwu Lake for release.

They think they are doing good deeds, but they don't know that the farmed animals bought in the market can't adapt to the natural environment of Xuanwu Lake. This release led to a large number of fish deaths and caused great pollution to the water quality of Xuanwu Lake.

There is more than one similar thing. One year, on the first day of the Lunar New Year, many people released turtles and snakes on the beach in Haikou and threw them into the sea, feeling that they had done a great good deed. When they saw the tortoise crawling back desperately, they felt tears in their eyes. "The tortoise is spiritual and doesn't want to go. I will thank you later. " He waved his hand and said, "Let's go, you're free, go home."

If those freshwater turtles and snakes can talk, they will curse: "Freedom, you uncle, I was born in fresh water, so you have to throw it into the sea for me, climb back and finally land, and then you throw it back into the sea."

Don't think that kindness has no threshold. If you want to be a kind person, you must first ensure that you are not stupid. Unfortunately, many people can't do it, so they carry out moral kidnapping everywhere with a elm knot in their heart. I don't know how much trouble it has caused to society, but they are also complacent about their boundless merits.

There is no doubt that smug kindness is evil. Some people stand on the moral high ground and accuse others without knowing anything, but they don't know that they are depression.

There is a proverb that says, "The world is never short of kindness. What is lacking is reason and restraint. " There is nothing wrong with kindness, only those who can't carry it.

When kindness becomes a moral kidnapping, it becomes a show.

The most common thing in life is blind kindness. After two people quarrel, there will always be a peacemaker who comes out to make amends: "Oh, don't mind such a trivial matter." Then, the loser is determined, and the advantage is silent. Finally, he pointed the finger at the victim, saying that he was difficult to get along with, unforgiving, unkind and so on. As everyone knows, some people's so-called kindness is to embarrass others and perfect their self-righteousness.

Hayek said: "When good loses its principle, it may be worse than evil." Blind kindness is really terrible. Immoral kidnapping, not embarrassing others, is true kindness.

Kindness is not easy, it needs wisdom, foresight and sobriety.

Chen Wei said: I hope your life will be better after listening to me.