There lived a "garbage" man across the hall, with a bad heart, no quality and no culture. What if you meet him?

This is my neighbor. At this time, there is only one car when there are at least cars. When I came back in the afternoon, there were three cars, a stroller and an electric car. If you get out of the elevator and carry too many things, you can't get through. I get angry when I go out and enter the door every day. The most irritating thing is that I once knocked down my door by riding an electric car directly. Oh, forget it. It's all anger. What can we do? We are all neighbors, but we can't look up and see each other. Looking forward to making money, buying a house and moving out now!

It is really hard to meet a bad-tempered neighbor. We can be out of sight and out of mind, and there is no need to haggle with them, which will affect our mood. Saying that they are "ruthless, uneducated and uneducated" also reduces their moral cultivation in disguise.

To tell the truth, I moved back to my present neighborhood the year before last. I felt at first sight that I was back at home. Now I watch it again, and it's really hard.

Now neighbors come from all directions, and the lawn of the community is paved with cement boards; The lawn on the first floor is circled by themselves; The lawn behind the building is planted with grapes and fertilized, and the taste in summer is very smelly; The dog downstairs didn't tie the rope, and the mat bitten by the dog was thrown at the door of the unit; Some people have piles of broken wood and doors at the door; The old man and the old lady are sunbathing downstairs, and there will be 10 more worn-out chairs downstairs. I named the community "garbage new village".

Everyone lives in the community, and it must be shameful to be reasonable. And it involves more than a dozen. Can I understand it? You can't move.

As for me, I took the tactic of hiding. As long as you get home, stay in the house, out of sight and out of mind. They can do whatever they want, which has nothing to do with me.

I will retire in more than five years, and then I will sell my house and choose a suitable place to buy a house for the elderly, away from this new rotten and poorly managed "garbage new village".

It is important to say three times, never buy a house in the relocated community, never buy a house in the relocated community, never buy a house in the relocated community. It's not generally difficult to manage, and any more words are tears.

You can also tell how you are by your evaluation of others.

The subject probably just moved here, and I feel from your words that you may be later than the opposite. To tell the truth, buying a house is not a trivial matter. Meeting a great neighbor can really make people anxious and angry. At present, it is obviously inappropriate to move because of neighbors, and it is uncomfortable to live across the door. How to break this game?

As the saying goes, a distant relative is better than a close neighbor, and the person opposite you doesn't understand the truth and knows this sentence. Your two families didn't know each other before you moved, and there was no old enemy. They were all new enemies. So, let's go. Take the initiative to make an appointment to talk to each other. You must admit your mistake first. You must be wrong. It takes two to tango. And then seek reconciliation.

It is estimated that under your operation, this crisis should be resolved. Go across the hall from the beginning.

I have them around me, too. Some often take dogs to shit at my door, and some take sewage to my house. It's no use telling them. I can only bear it, because I believe that God will punish such people in another way!

There are all kinds of people in the world. Face it calmly when you meet it, and firmly believe that the stone is open when you are sincere!

I might as well tell you two true things.

First of all, I know an old mother whom I respect very much. At that time, the countryside was very poor and there was not enough food at home. I finally expect the vegetables in the garden to grow. One day, the old mother led her daughter-in-law to pick vegetables in the garden and suddenly saw her neighbors stealing their own vegetables. As soon as my daughter-in-law opened her mouth to shout, my mother quickly stopped saying not to make any noise, so I went home and quietly took my daughter-in-law away. My daughter-in-law ignored the explanation. Oh, my God, she stole our food. Why don't you let me make a noise? The old mother said they were all neighbors'. She eats the same as us, and we will eat after she finishes eating.

Second, I moved to a new home, and my neighbors have a common corridor balcony, which neighbors use as a place to store things. One day, I put the pumpkin I bought there, and when I went to get it again, it was gone. I asked my neighbor's aunt, where is my pumpkin? Aunt said I thought it was from someone else, and I didn't say anything. A few days later, I bought a bundle of green onions and put them there. When I was cooking, they disappeared again. I asked my aunt again, and she said I thought you didn't want it. Then say that you should not put things there in the future, just put them in the corridor. I realized that she wanted to monopolize the public balcony!

A few days later, I went out for a walk in the evening. Aunt said she would go back to her hometown tomorrow and walk to the supermarket. She wants to buy some food, but she has no money in her pocket. I said yes, so I went in and spent 100 yuan to buy a bag of food for my aunt. My aunt gave it back to me when I came back. I don't want it. I said it was all my filial piety.

Since then, my aunt has been very enthusiastic about our family, and she helps with everything. My relatives and friends all envy me. You really have a good neighbor.

I remember a saying that "the brave win when they meet in a narrow way". Don't take everything seriously, people are all fleshy, and they are not afraid of the truth for a long time!

How to get along with "garbage" neighbors?

Living in a community, the quality must be different, high and low. I've never met the garbage man's neighbor. How to get along with "garbage" neighbors? I think "on paper":

1, what is a "garbage" neighbor? It is difficult to define. You have a bad heart, so be careful of him. As for the lack of cultural quality, it is not the evaluation of five good families and civilized families. Neighbors should not be too harsh on people, their fingers are uneven.

2, well water does not invade the river, enter the house and close the door to live your own life. As long as you don't invade your home and seriously disturb the people, just turn a blind eye.

3. If the neighbor across the street has illegal and criminal activities such as drug trafficking dens, gambling dens, prostitution dens, pyramid selling dens and fraud dens, you can call the police.

It's important to get along well with neighbors. People with high cultivation quality influence him with their own civilized language and influence him with their own exemplary actions.

I understand your situation very well, because I have had similar experiences before. The family living next door to me locked the door of the public corridor near his home, so that my family could not take out the garbage nearby and had to walk to the other end of the corridor. It's really overbearing At that time, I really felt very breathless. I tried to argue with the family several times, but I finally held back. Because I have analyzed that the reason why this family can be like this shows that this family is selfish and has no sense of public morality. You can't reason with such an unreasonable person. If it is something that seriously interferes with my normal life, I will look for a property. If the property management personnel come forward and it is still invalid, I will ask the other party for the time limit for opening the door lock. If I can't see his action by then, I'll ask the police for help. If it doesn't work again, I have to pry open the lock of his house without permission. But at that time, I weighed it again and again and chose patience. Because my children were very young at that time and I was very busy. I often go out early and come back late. I'm really worried that the old people and children at home will suffer immediate losses while I'm away. Choose to endure for a period of time, and at most take a few more steps every time you take out the garbage, just to exercise. In addition, locking that door in his house also saves the air polluted by garbage in summer. Not long after, the property closed the garbage passages at both ends.

I give this example to show that it is very helpless to meet such a "garbage man". You can't hide, but you can't look up every day. Once you have offended such a villain, you will have no peace of mind. Therefore, in normal times, as long as I hear this family in the corridor, I ask my family not to go out and have as little contact as possible. In this way, after more than ten years, they have been living in peace. Fortunately, now every family can live their own lives behind closed doors. Unlike in the past, they had to use water pipes and public toilets.

When my old man was alive, he once said: a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and a close neighbor is not as good as the opposite. It's a pity that you met such a person across the hall. I am sympathetic to understand that I actually said the above words for your reference.

Out of sight, out of mind, garbage people live across the hall. The more I don't want to see, the more I can see, and I am extremely nervous. This is a very painful thing.

In fact, it is not difficult to solve this problem. There is only one way to go, and that is to move, and leaving is the best policy.

Meng Mu, an ancient man, moved three times in order to choose a good neighbor. Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, which shows the importance of neighbors. Being neighbors with garbage people, due to long-term accumulated contradictions, may break out one day, and the probability of causing big problems is very high. In order to prevent this day from coming suddenly, moving is the best choice and response. I'm not afraid of him, because the larger foe is not worth it.

If you don't care about garbage people, staying away from garbage people means staying away from right and wrong, that is, staying away from troubles. Life without troubles is the happiest.

Today's neighbors, the voices of chickens and dogs are heard, and they don't talk to each other. Garbage neighbors are bad, uneducated and uneducated, which is really annoying! But I have a question. How do you know all this? Are they in your way? In particular, your mind is very bad, and you can find it from little contact. It seems that you either concentrate on your research or have extraordinary telepathic insight!

And do you have an obligation to help them improve their quality and get an education?

You won't choose your neighbors according to the past Meng Mu in the San Zi Jing, will you?

What's the first sentence of the lotus that comes out of the mud and doesn't get stained? ,

If you can't deal, you can't deal. The document is to make a statement and run home every day. Her man came out of it, and l cooperated with her partner to steal food. Don't go near if you don't know the details, and spend money to buy lessons.