Why do people nowadays become mercenary?

Nowadays, most people's relationships are mercenary.

1, trading chips

The so-called interpersonal relationship is essentially the exchange of values.

Just like the ancient barter, you give me a pear and I give you an apple.

Although everyone wants to ensure fairness and justice as much as possible in the process of trading, we must also be clear that there is no harm in eating more losses when you are still weak.

Since this is an exchange, everyone must want to get more benefits for themselves.

If you are in a weak position and attach great importance to your own interests, then others can replace you at any time and choose traders who are more beneficial to you.

As the saying goes, you can't have your cake and eat it. If you want to get more opportunities, you can't take the interests too seriously.

Let others earn a little more in the early stage, and you will have a chance to get familiar with the rules of the game.

This is a very fair thing.

It is natural to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

It's important to know people when dealing with them.

Of course, when judging others, don't judge by simple right or wrong, it is certainly unreliable.

After all, there is no absolute distinction between good and evil in this world.

More often, it is based on interests.

Li Zhou often gives his friends an example. Some people get wealth by breaking the law. In your eyes, he must be a bad guy.

But he donated his wealth to the children in the mountains. In your eyes, he has become a good man again.

Everyone is multifaceted.

Gray is the truth of this world.

3. Future expectations

If you want to earn more wealth by your own labor ability, there is only one way, that is, to sell food by your own ability.

Many people just don't understand that no matter how strong your working ability is, you can only help you get a raise.

Want to climb to a higher position, and life is inseparable.

Simply put, the reason why a leader promotes a person is not to look at his past performance, but to care whether he can bring greater benefits to himself after being promoted.

In other words, it depends on future expectations.

Leaders are not fools. If you are promoted to a more important position, it is only beneficial to you and has nothing to do with the leader, then why should he waste resources to help you?

Do you think there are really selfless and altruistic people in this world?

4. Know what others really think.

Since ancient times, China people have always been gentle. In fact, they are very upset and will not show it.

So let's get into the habit of being respected, and everyone is performing with a mask.

This phenomenon will not change over time. Otherwise, thousands of years have passed, why can it be passed down from generation to generation?

Can only explain one problem. In this soil, it is necessary to exist.

Stupid people will curse the streets there and want others to change with their own ideas.

And those smart people, after seeing through it, will use this hidden rule to achieve their goals.

Since everyone is performing, if you want to make a deal, you can't just listen to what others say, but also think clearly about the real thoughts behind him.

Just like seeing a doctor, the right medicine can cure the disease.

5. The weakness of human nature

Hidden rules are so popular because there are weaknesses in human nature.

Why is it called weakness?

If it is a shortcoming, it is easy to get rid of it with a little self-discipline.

But weaknesses cannot be changed.

It used to be like this, it is like this now, and it will be like this in the future.

Therefore, some regular things will always exist as long as human nature remains unchanged.

For example, a good face is a major weakness of human nature.

There is an ancient saying that if you have money, you must show it off in front of people who looked down on you before.

There are many such people at present. Even if you work hard to move bricks outside and smoke high-end cigarettes at home for the New Year, it is common for hard-earned money to be lost on mahjong tables.

In the final analysis, it's all about saving face and satisfying your vanity!