What kind of person are you that is not easy to talk to?

I search in my memory, sort out those who are not good to me one by one, and then sum up their sexual orientation. I found that the people who are bad for me are basically people who look down on me, with a tough attitude and a great sense of negation. For example, my boss once told me that this is your life. Although this sentence is very simple, it exploded in my heart like a thunder, which made me feel great inferiority. There is even a feeling of wanting to resign. Without the boss's approval, all my efforts are meaningless. I persisted for that little salary, but I was depressed for a long time under such an attitude.

Come to think of it, it seems to be true. People who don't talk to you well are basically people who don't respect you. They don't respect your personality and deny it. Everyone desperately wants to be recognized by others. We cherish others' comments on ourselves like birds that cherish feathers, and try our best to dress ourselves perfectly to cater to everyone's likes. But things are always unsatisfactory. The more we try to show it, the more self-defeating. We are really miserable. Sometimes we all want to slap ourselves when we look in the mirror. How can you live like this in your thirties?

I can't settle down when I get home. When I go downstairs, I usually sit in the car and smoke two cigarettes before going upstairs. What's the state at home? I use a metaphor to describe it. Just like the Monkey King did something wrong, the Tang Priest was punishing him with a hoop curse. The Monkey King was miserable. He really wanted to kill Tang Priest with a golden cudgel, but he couldn't look at Tang Priest's innocent expression. My wife is such a person. She keeps bothering me with negative energy, which makes me unable to sleep well.

To sum up, most people who can't talk well with you look down on you. They don't respect you. If you are comfortable, he is uncomfortable.