I just joined a new property management company, and my colleague's mother was ill. My colleague discussed collecting money to visit me, but I refused. Is this ok?

This is something that everyone in the workplace will encounter. If you meet a colleague and get married just after joining the company, you must follow the team. Are you involved or not? Our suggestion is that guests can help themselves and raise money to visit with colleagues. But it is not correct for you to reject your colleague's suggestion. When you first join the company, you must want to blend in with the crowd as soon as possible. My friend's mother is ill, so it's a good time for everyone to raise money to visit, and you to participate. But if you don't attend, obviously not with everyone. This is inappropriate.

Just because you refused to get together with your colleagues, you may have put a lonely mark on your colleagues' hearts. This makes you and us * * *, mixed with a different mood, so that you and everyone are not harmonious and harmonious. I don't think you have solved this matter well enough. Your mother is ill, and it is a very good thing for colleagues to raise money in advance to visit. On the one hand, it shows that your colleagues are kind and care about you. On the other hand, it also shows that you have a good personality in the company.

Your refusal will definitely hurt your colleagues' hearts and endanger your relationship with them. Even if there is nothing on the surface, there will definitely be some small bumps in my heart. I understand you very well. It's not that I hate their visit, but that I don't want to cause trouble to my colleagues and owe this worldly wisdom. But in return for participation, sometimes you have to learn to blend in. Naturally, if it is a matter of principle, you must refuse. For example, some friends prepare illegal financing to engage in pyramid schemes in advance, which is definitely not acceptable. You should not only refuse, but also report him. But if colleagues regard this kind of thing as a visit to your home, you must never refuse. If you don't want any more, you need to agree.

Don't want to owe people, just wait for other friends to have something at home, follow the crowd and be worldly. It depends on your own situation. If you think you have to raise money, if you don't know each other very well, you don't need to raise money! People should live with their hearts, not be guided and bound by others! If you plan to develop in this enterprise for a long time, you can participate if you feel it necessary. Your ability to work is more valuable than dealing with others. Finally, if a friend's mother has a chronic illness, everyone must help her, no matter whether the new colleague is an ordinary person or not, she will lend a helping hand when she sees it. When we think like this, it may not be easy to entangle. Doing good deeds and accumulating virtues is only beneficial to oneself.