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In order to ease the relationship with his wife, comet Shen, Sheng Jiangchuan bought her favorite cherry when she came back from a business trip. When she got home, she saw that her wife had not come back, so she deliberately put the cherry gift box at the door so that she could see it as soon as she opened the door.

He imagined his wife's surprise when she came back to see the cherry, and her mouth rose slightly, thinking that her wife would definitely forget the unpleasantness between them the other day.

However, this is just his idea, but I don't know what decision his wife has made these days.

He waited from afternoon until evening, when the door finally opened and his daughter saw him as soon as she came in. She flew over like a happy butterfly and asked in surprise, "Dad, when did you come back?"

Sheng Jiangchuan picked up his daughter, but his eyes were on his wife, saying that I would come back in the afternoon. At this time, comet Shen also saw the cherry on the ground. She just said, "Why buy so many cherries? Don't you know that it's easy to go bad if you can't finish eating them? "

Sheng Jiangchuan said in a flattering tone, "You love it, so I bought it for you." Seeing that his wife didn't respond, he asked his daughter where you came back so late. Daughter said we went to grandpa's house for dinner. I wanted to play for a while, but my mother said I would go to preschool tomorrow and have to come back early.

He was surprised to learn that his daughter would go to school so soon, saying that you would go to school tomorrow? My daughter nodded and said yes, because my mother has to work tomorrow.

Sheng Jiangchuan couldn't believe that he had only been out for a few days. His wife not only sent her daughter to preschool in advance, but also found a job so quickly. As a husband and a member of this family, he doesn't know.

He was very unhappy, so he asked his daughter to play puzzles in his room, ready to wait for his wife to explain to him. And comet Shen, with a pale face and without looking up, continued to do his own thing.

He had to ask her if she really found a job. Comet Shen said yes, but that's what my daughter said. He asked him what kind of job he had found. Comet Shen said that he works in finance like you, and works in evergreen spruce, Dong Sijia's assistant.

Hearing this, Sheng Jiangchuan stood up "ooh" and said why didn't you discuss such a big thing with me?

Comet Shen looked up at him and asked, "Is it about your daughter going to school?" ? You've never cared about her in these years, so it's the same as not telling you. "

Sheng Jiangchuan held his breath and said, "You know what I mean is that you are looking for a job, and you are still looking for my competitors. Is this intended to embarrass me? " ?

Comet Shen said, "This is my own business. There is no need to tell you." With that, he went to wash, leaving Shengjiangchuan hanging aside.

Seeing this, I also think that comet Shen has gone too far. Husband and wife should have discussed something. Besides, a stay-at-home mother who has worked for six years suddenly has to go out to work. Who will take care of the children after school? How to arrange housework, including washing and cooking? What should I do if there is an emergency?

At first, I couldn't understand what she did, and even thought she was a little "doing". The husband works smoothly, takes care of the children at home and everything at home, which gives him a solid backing. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't know why she came out like this and suddenly disrupted the rhythm of family life.

So I went back and watched it again, only to understand that what comet Shen did was not sudden, but had long been traceable.

Seemingly perfect "good guys" actually do superficial work.

Comet Shen used to be high flyers of the Finance Department. Her talent and ability are not inferior to that of her husband Sheng Jiangchuan. However, as soon as she graduated, she chose to get married and have children and became a full-time mother, just to give her children a healthy and good growth environment. Her courage to give up is beyond the reach of ordinary people, but she really did it.

In the past six years, in order to let her husband work with peace of mind, she never let him worry about anything at home, including moving twice, from house inspection to decoration to moving in. You can imagine how complicated things are. It is often said that it is not as difficult to move as it is troublesome. But Sheng Jiangchuan was never involved. She just needs to inform him: "Just tell you, don't go to the wrong place when you go home." It's as simple as checking into a hotel.

It is precisely because he has not participated that he can't understand the hardships here. Instead, he felt that it was through his own efforts that his wife and daughter followed him into a white-collar apartment in a prime location. He is a model of good people.

What her husband said after drinking reflected his real thoughts.

On the first day of living in a new house, Sheng Jiangchuan didn't come back until the evening, and he could hardly find his home. He got carried away and said in front of his wife, "Look, our home faces the Financial Street and backs to the Central Business District. People will know your position as long as they ask where you live. Commute for two hours and you will know at a glance that you are a newly graduated college student; Driving for 40 minutes, even if you drive a good car, it is also a monthly salary; If you say that it takes only five minutes to walk to work, this is the real cow and this is happiness. "

Shen comet laughed at his words and said how much wine you drank, and you couldn't find the north.

Sheng Jiangchuan said, "Why should I look for North? I want a guide. I am the standard of a good man. I realized the consumption upgrade with my family on my own. You've never been to work, and I don't understand what I told you. Do you know how hard it is for me to get this far? "

Hearing this, the comet Shen froze. She wanted to find Sheng Jiangchuan's theory, but he was fast asleep.

However, comet Shen spent the whole night worrying about his words. The next day, he explained to his wife that he was talking nonsense after drinking, but Shen Comet thought it was the truth after drinking. Since he can say so, that's exactly what he thinks. Although comet Shen no longer cares about him, what he said still stung her.

In the past six years, although she has not gone out to work, she has done a lot for this family. Two people just have different division of labor. If she goes out to work, she may be able to live in a house bigger than these two rooms, but her husband completely ignores her efforts and takes all the credit to himself, thinking that she is only attached to him, which makes her feel unfair.

She wants to make it clear to her husband that she has paid as much as him, but he always perfunctory: "I know you have paid a lot for this family, and I have never denied it, wife, you have worked hard!"

She knew what her husband said was insincere, but she couldn't continue to argue with him, so she had to take this unhappiness to heart.

In fact, a family is supported by both husband and wife. Whether it is working hard outside or taking care of the baby at home, this family pays the same to each other, and there is no need to divide it into three or six.

There is a small room in their new house. Shen Huixing loves music, because she has a musical dream and plans to use it as a music room. Sheng Jiangchuan, on the other hand, said that he was under great pressure at work every day, so he wanted to use this room as a game room. When he comes back from work, he can play games to relieve stress.

He said to his wife, "You haven't been to work for so many years, so you haven't forgotten your musical dream. Besides, if you want to play music, where can you go and have to play at home? " You see, I have so much pressure at work every day, so you can't give me this small room? "

This surprised comet Shen. She thought that although she didn't go to work, it didn't mean that she couldn't realize her dream. Not to be outdone, she said, when did you see me give up my dream easily? Besides, we are all the same. Why do you have to let me give you my room?

Seeing that his wife refused to give him his small room, he never cared about his children before, and even wanted to give them Lego classes. On the surface, it was to develop their brains and release their nature. In fact, he wants to own a game room in the name of their children.

Comet Shen suddenly understood his real intention, saying that the child just wanted to spread a blanket on the floor. I play the piano and she doesn't delay playing puzzles, so that she is influenced by the music and you are influenced by the way. Then she went to tell stories to the children.

Sheng Jiangchuan didn't stop until he knew that he had lost to his wife again.

That night, comet Shen played the piano in the small room, and Sheng Jiangchuan had a plan. He pretended that the residents downstairs called the property and said that there was an 80-year-old man in our family. The old man has a bad heart. Someone is playing the piano upstairs. Let's have a rest. You should take care of it.

The property came to the floor where they lived. I haven't heard anyone play the piano after looking for it for a long time. I put my ear to the door of Shen Comet's house before I heard the piano. He knocked on the door and comet Shen opened it. Did the property say that someone was playing the piano at your house?

Comet Shen admitted that he was playing the piano. The property said you should keep your voice down and make noise to the residents downstairs. As soon as the words were finished, Sheng Jiangchuan ran out and quarreled with the property, saying that an 80-year-old man's ears were not very good. Besides, we are playing the piano in our own house, and no one cares.

His importunate, can make the property staff angry, turned to print a notice, residents are not allowed to play the piano at home, but also specially posted on their doorstep.

Sheng Jiangchuan knew that his wife couldn't play the piano at all. He felt smug about the move. As soon as he thought that the game room was his, he was happy to compare with "Yeah" and felt that he was really tall.

However, cleverness was deceived by cleverness. Who knows that comet Shen accidentally learned from the courier brother that they lived downstairs with a pair of young foreigners who often got together at home. There is no 80-year-old man. She understood that all this was a play directed and performed by Sheng Jiangchuan, so she quietly removed the network cable of the small room and sealed all the socket panels. Sheng Jiangchuan couldn't even plug in the game, so he was dumbfounded and had to eat one.

In this battle of wits between husband and wife, it seems that comet Shen won. In fact, she is not happy because she sees the selfish side of Sheng Jiangchuan. He thinks that he has paid much more than his wife and should give priority to everything. His wife's needs are not important. Although I didn't tell my wife clearly, these small hands made Shen Comet even more disappointed, feeling that I didn't pay attention to her at all and completely ignored her feelings.

On the day of moving, Sheng Jiangchuan was busy attending the new project launch conference. After that, he didn't go back to help move, but went to dinner with the staff of the cooperative company.

At the dinner table, a manager of the other company received a phone call from his wife. Just after flattery, he suddenly lost his temper and shouted at his wife on the other end of the phone: "The child is sick. What do you want with me?" I am not a doctor. You should take the child to the hospital as soon as possible. I am busy outside for your own good. "

Hearing this, everyone at the table was embarrassed. Sheng Jiangchuan is busy with his chin, saying that it is not easy for people to reach middle age, and it is common for the elderly to be hospitalized when their children are sick. Got it.

When this was said, it instantly resolved the embarrassment on the wine table.

Just then, his phone rang, and it was his wife. Someone asked him if he wanted to answer the phone. He waved and said no, and then connected the phone, in a gentle tone: "Honey, what's the matter?"

Comet Shen said on the phone that his family had moved, and called him to tell him that he just wanted to make sure he didn't go to the wrong place when he went back and remember to go back to his new home.

As soon as he heard that he had moved home, he woke up and said, how did you move so fast? I just finished my work here and am on my way home to move things.

At this time, his assistant Xiao Bai said loudly that Mr. Sheng had just returned. Several bosses are still waiting for you downstairs. The party is all set. How can I explain it to others? Is this related to our future orders?

Sheng Jiangchuan said, if you help me talk to them, I won't go. I have to go back and help clean up the house. I can't leave all these jobs to your sister-in-law, can I?

After hearing this, comet Shen said on the other end of the phone, let's go, don't worry about things at home, don't keep people waiting, and remember to drink less.

As soon as this phone call fell, the whole table was amazed. They boasted that Sheng Jiangchuan would come to work, which not only relaxed him, but also coaxed his wife. This is an enviable typical good man.

Sheng Jiangchuan was very proud of these praises, but forgot that his wife bought his laughter and dignity with grievances and sweat.

Sheng Jiangchuan has the opportunity to participate in the venture capital forum and bring his family. He proudly told his wife that such an opportunity can only be attended by the big names in the investment field, and she can follow suit.

When she was at school, comet Shen longed for the opportunity to participate in such a forum, so she couldn't miss this opportunity. In order to attend this grand ceremony, she bought a professional dress specially.

However, I didn't know that I was a family member until I got to the place, so I couldn't enter the venue. She can only go sightseeing with a bunch of wives and pick peppers. Not convinced, she took the opportunity to sneak into the meeting, but there was no seat for her. She had to find an empty seat at the meeting, and was called by the host to express her opinion.

She had to take the microphone awkwardly in front of everyone. Several bosses on the stage discussed whether to invest in racetracks or racers, but she talked about her ideals and visions, which made everyone embarrassed. Sheng Jiangchuan felt that she had humiliated herself and quickly pulled her out of the meeting.

Comet Shen asked him what he had just said.

He was very angry and said that your ideas were six years ago, and now they are all out of date. Several bosses please each other on the stage, but you throw cold water on people.

Comet Shen felt that he had said nothing wrong, but he still wanted to continue to argue with him. Sheng Jiangchuan blurted out angrily: "Don't think you are so talented. That was six years ago. You have long been out of touch with this society. "

Hearing this, comet Shen realized that in her husband's eyes, she was just a housewife divorced from society, so she left without looking back.

It was from her husband's words that she finally realized that she could no longer stay at home, so she decided to find a job. She knows that it is not easy for her to find a job as a full-time mother after six years of no work experience, but she must also strive for it, realize her life goals and gain her husband's heartfelt respect.

And she also found a job through her own efforts. Although the road ahead will be difficult, she always has a belief in her heart. She wants to tell her husband that she is not only a qualified full-time mother, but also a strong woman who can work hard in the workplace.

Seeing the situation of comet Shen, I understand her mood very well. I worked hard in the workplace for many years, and then I went home to be a full-time mother for my children. I am also afraid that my husband will look down on me and that he will not give me money. I want to tell him to go home and take care of the children, because my working ability will not be worse than his and I will not earn less money than his. But I dare not say. Maybe my family and I think men go out to earn money.

After I didn't go to work, most of my family's income disappeared at once, and the economic pressure was particularly great. I spent some money, and he will ask where the flowers have gone and whether they have been squandered. I also feel very wronged and feel that I can't get his respect.

In a chat, I told him, "Every woman wants to take care of her family, earn money and support her husband's career to the top, but we are not omnipotent. If you choose to take care of your children at home now, you can't go out to work. There is no difference between you and me, just a different division of labor. "

After listening to my words, he was silent for a long time. From then on, we seldom quarrel and understand each other in our work and life. We face the difficulties together and our feelings are getting better and better.

Therefore, in marriage, husband and wife should learn to communicate, speak their true thoughts openly, and don't pretend to be themselves. Only through constant running-in, can a happy marriage go through to the end.