To senior three students: be the best you can be

The most important thing in the world is not where we are but where we are going. The following is what I carefully edited for you and wrote to senior three students: Be your best self, welcome to read!

At the Beijing Olympic Games, Li Du lost her first gold medal and shed tears at home. American Emmons missed the target with his last shot, handed the gold medal to Qiu Jian, a native of Huai 'an, and left in tears. Some people say that the shooting game is not good at home, but better away. Li Du lost his first Olympic gold medal at home because of home; Why did emmons, who has the advantage of away from home, once again give us the gold medal from China? There is nothing but mentality!

We who are eager for success will inevitably have such a strong sense of crisis: can we succeed in the end? So many people, what will happen to me in the end Can I go to the school I want to go to? What are my chances of winning? What will my future be like? What will happen?

The so-called examination is the process of using specific basic knowledge to solve quantitative examination questions under specific time and space background and under specific psychological control. We often pay more attention to "specific basic knowledge to solve quantitative questions", so in the usual review process, we try our best to climb mountains and swim in the sea, while ignoring "specific psychology". So, when you are frustrated and hesitant, I remind you: be the best you can be!

First, self-confidence is half the battle.

Nothing is impossible.

The famous Rockefeller family was originally a poor repairman's family that could not even support three meals, but in the end it became one of the famous rich people in the United States with indomitable efforts. Lincoln was an unemployed man with no hope for the future when he was young. The enterprise he founded went bankrupt in less than a year. In the next seventeen years, he had to rush around to repay the debts owed by the closure of enterprises, and experienced setbacks and hardships. After entering politics, he lost nine elections, but he never lost confidence in himself. The success of these people is the affirmation of their own abilities and strong confidence in their bright future. If you have no confidence in yourself, how can you have the courage to face all kinds of difficulties and hardships on your way forward? How can we succeed if we can't overcome these difficulties? Any success is based on self-confidence and recognition. Therefore, never say "I can't" or "I can't", but firmly believe that "nothing is impossible!"

(2) Be kind to yourself

Sometimes, we always feel that we have worked hard and gained a lot, but when we do the problem, if the first one can't be done and the second one can't be done, we will get more and more bored, and the final result can only be that we don't want to do one or even one. Such examples are numerous in the usual study. After the exam, there will always be students coming to see how you did. Have you ever done this topic? Is your method as simple as theirs? It depends on how many points you got in this exam. So you will inevitably ask them how they did it and how they did in the exam. It should be said that this kind of communication itself is good for learning. However, if you are worse than them once, twice and the third time, there will naturally be some shadows in your heart-I am really not as good as him (her).

As a song goes: "Sadness is always inevitable …" You can be sad, sad, negative, hesitant and disheartened, but all this must be short-lived! Smart people will soon cheer up! When licking the wound dry, it is also the time for him to continue to struggle.

Am I really inferior to him (her)? If we think so, we are all wet. Because at this time, our opponent is not him (her), but ourselves. Our goal is to do better and get higher than him (her)? If we think so, then we are wrong again. They are not our goal, our goal is only one, and that is to be the best self in the college entrance examination. He who laughs last laughs best. A football match is 90 minutes, and sometimes, there is overtime. Do we have to lose if we fall behind in the middle of the game?

We should know ourselves and be kind to ourselves. We can comfort ourselves, understand ourselves and support ourselves, just like comforting our friends. We should learn to be friends with our stupid and dull souls.

(3) Be sure of yourself

Confidence also needs to be cultivated. Many people have a habit of not encouraging themselves and always attacking themselves. I always blame myself for not doing it well and doing it unsatisfactory. I weigh and ponder these problems repeatedly in my mind, complaining and disappointing myself, making myself fidgety and at a loss all day.

An exercise, an error correction, a grammar problem, etc. Through my own efforts, I feel carefree and can secretly say to myself, who says I can't? ! Even if I didn't finish it well, I should comfort myself that I actually gained a lot today-after all, I gritted my teeth and survived, which was not bad. The most important thing is mood. Everything is fine when you are in a good mood. We should constantly give ourselves positive psychological hints, and the confidence value will continue to rise, from a little self-confidence to a strong unshakable belief.

Zheng Banqiao's unique skill is to draw bamboo. Do you know what he learned from painting? He said: "for forty years, I painted bamboo branches during the day and wrote thoughts at night;" Redundant and thin, painting is born and familiar. "When we are down and out and feel that our study is not satisfactory, it is actually the time when we need to be kind to ourselves, affirm ourselves, reflect on ourselves, and realize the leap from' raw' to' cooked'.

Second, "being the best self" is the open secret of winning the college entrance examination.

(A) to be an open-minded person

A broad-minded person must be good at arranging his own plans and handling the immediate gains and losses and long-term interests; Must be a person who can tolerate temporary setbacks and setbacks and treat them indifferently; It must be someone who can afford it, put it down, know the priorities and know the right choice.

1967, Hong Kong experienced a "movement". At that time, many rich households sold their land and real estate, and he took the opportunity to absorb ultra-low reserves. Subsequently, the soaring real estate industry made his income calculated at 1 100 million yuan. During the period of 1982, Sino-British negotiations on the future began, a crisis of confidence broke out in Hong Kong, and real estate and shares suffered setbacks. Jardine Matheson, a British-funded consortium, even announced its relocation, expressing no confidence in the future of Hong Kong. However, his development of large residential areas not only made huge profits, but also improved the living environment in Hong Kong. With the imminent return of Hong Kong, other rich people have emigrated. He stayed firmly and made a large investment in the mainland. Facts have proved once again that his choice is correct. He is Li Ka-shing!

Some people may think that these have nothing to do with the college entrance examination at all, and everyone knows to broaden their horizons. Yes, everyone knows to broaden their horizons, but not everyone can really do this in their own study and life. Two people with the same level of knowledge took the college entrance examination together, and I'm sure it must be the one with broad vision who did well in the exam! A broad-minded person must also be a smarter person. Because he is open-minded and doesn't have so many ideological burdens, he can go into battle lightly, instead of being timid and hesitant.

(2) Be a leisurely person.

Time is really tight. Yue Yue is like this, the easier it is to produce a very nervous and impatient mood. Moreover, this kind of atmosphere is more easily reflected as the college entrance examination approaches. Each of us will be affected by this emotion to some extent.

In fact, the more at this time, the more we need to be calm and calm. We can even separate ourselves from others in their own will and look at it from a bystander's point of view. Are they doing the right thing? What should I do if it were me? Will I be like them? Once you encounter setbacks in your study, your mood becomes impatient. Can you temporarily stop studying, think quietly and adjust your mentality? Keep telling yourself-"I would rather not fight than disturb the war."

(3) Be an understanding and tolerant person.

White clouds laugh outside, and bosom friends are three or five. A good environment and good interpersonal relationships are also crucial. People often complain about their bad environment. There are always people who like to talk big, people who don't make progress, and people who like to compete with you and deliberately make you unhappy. In fact, everyone has many shortcomings, which none of us can avoid. We have many shortcomings ourselves. In this case, we should try to understand others and learn to tolerate others. Only in this way can we benefit others and ourselves. If you always look for their strengths rather than their weaknesses, you will find that everyone has something worth learning. When you stop criticizing everyone and want to be friends with everyone, your interpersonal relationship will be greatly improved.

It is wrong to care about everything with your heart, but it is wider to think about everything in turn. Everyone wants to get the care and love of others and get their understanding and sympathy. Therefore, in our daily study and life, we should all strive to learn to understand and tolerate.

But there is no need to do this deliberately, just naturally. "The article is the best, nothing strange, just right; Excellent personality, no difference, but very natural. " When you can understand and tolerate others naturally, you will be excited by having such a heart. Study with a good mood, and the effect will naturally be different.

Trying to be the best of yourself is a process, and it is a virtue that we cultivate in the most critical and tense job training, especially in the college entrance examination.

Third, a good mood is the lubricant for the efficient operation of the brain.

(a) Nothing matters. Keeping a good mood is the most important thing.

Our mood is the most important, nothing is more important than our mood; We can't let anything affect our mood, and nothing can affect our mood. When the mood is calm and happy, the learning efficiency is the highest and the effect is the best. At this time, you are the most optimistic. You can overcome all the bad things and understand all the unpleasant things. Try it if you don't believe me. Maybe you did a problem that you haven't done n times at this time, and now you have done it. See, this is the value of keeping a good mood.

(2) The key to emotional regulation lies in oneself.

Good mood Good mood comes from many details and many things. For example, get up in the morning and take the first breath of fresh air; After the rain cleared, all the dark clouds dispersed, and I saw the long-lost sunshine; Inadvertently read a touching poem; Efforts finally solved a math problem; When discussing with my classmates, I found a new method ... which will make our mood suddenly better.

The key to emotional adjustment lies in oneself. In his later years, Chen Yi fell ill, and his old department went down to visit him. Seeing him lying on his deathbed, full of medical tubes, all the people who visited him were sad and didn't know what to say at the moment. Chen Yi said cheerfully, Look, I have realized modernization! In a word, it enlivened the atmosphere in the ward. A positive attitude and mood can not only keep you in a good study state, but also infect people around you and create a good atmosphere for yourself. There are at least two ways to do this. One is to understand and accept what we can't accept with an open mind; The second is to try to avoid things that may affect your mood. Out of sight, out of mind; If you don't smell it, your heart will not be confused. Don't do things you shouldn't do, say things you shouldn't say, and don't think about things you shouldn't think about.

Everything is to keep yourself in a good mood. A good mood is the lubricant for the efficient operation of the brain.

Fourth, treat the exam dialectically.

Every time we do our homework, we make mistakes. It seems that we haven't done it right several times, and sometimes we even make more than half of the mistakes. And there are exams and homework almost every day. If we worry about it every day, how can we be in the mood to do other things? We should smile, there is nothing depressing or shameful. If I can do it, am I still a student preparing for the college entrance examination? Doing wrong questions may be a blow to others, but it should be a rare asset to us who have studied dialectics. Otherwise, why get the problem set wrong? !

Many people pay special attention to the usual exams. If you do well in the exam, you will be proud for several days. If you don't do well in the exam, you will be particularly unhappy. Once you encounter a big exam, especially the joint exam with a prestigious school, it will have a greater impact on these people. Admittedly, exams are an important means of simulation and exercise, and exam results can really explain some problems. But after the exam, what we care about is not the results, but how well we did in the exam, what are the unsatisfactory places, what good advantages we didn't give play to, what questions we did wrong, and whether it was a new type of question. The usual grades don't explain anything. We only care about being the best we can be.

(1) test

Examination, examination, examination is a magic weapon for teachers. Treat a dime a dozen quizzes, some people are as practical as old Niu Gengdi, taking one test after another, without half a sentence of complaint and emotion; Some people are annoyed at the sight of the exam and feel uncomfortable; Some people are perfunctory, do the test paper when it is handed out, and forget it when it is finished; Others are too lazy to do it, so they just throw it in the drawer. There is no doubt that the old cow has the least problems. Don't underestimate the usual exams. Like pre-war training, they are necessary preparations for you to enter the examination room. It's hard to imagine what it would be like to go to war without any training. Looking back at those students who were called "dark horses" in the college entrance examination, you will find that they usually take quizzes again and again very seriously.

We have a lot of things to do in the usual quiz. First, find out your own problems in exams and studies. In management science, there are two popular sentences: "Look for the problem behind the problem"; I am the root of everything. The second is to overcome the problems in each quiz.

Some students are too careless in making multiple-choice questions and always make mistakes. Sometimes even one mistake leads to several mistakes, which is absolutely not allowed. Some students are too nervous to get effective grades. All these, we should try our best to overcome these problems in every exam. So it can be said that quizzes provide us with many opportunities for exercise and revision.

If you have laid a good foundation through the quiz, especially if you have found your own problems and found ways to overcome them, then you have laid a solid foundation for future success.

(2) Final examination

When chatting with me, many students always say that I usually do well in the exam, but I always fail in the big exam. I think there are two possibilities: one possibility is that the exam is not strict at all, and the time can be postponed for discussion. If you take the exam like this, your grades will have no reference value at all. This kind of exam is not only bad for everyone's study, but will make many students develop bad exam habits. If you face the quiz like this, your whole test experience and skills will be greatly reduced. Another possibility is that the pressure of the big exam is too great, which leads to related psychological problems and leads to a sharp decline in grades.

Treat every big exam as a college entrance examination. In this way, I will have many opportunities to fail, so I can go all out and do it boldly, so as to do my best to do well in every big exam. Since I regard it as the college entrance examination, I will certainly do it in full accordance with the requirements of the college entrance examination. At the same time, you should repeatedly hint to yourself that there is no need to care too much about these results. I just want to succeed one last time.

(3) College entrance examination

Many students began to tremble when they walked to the examination room. The more this time, the more time to test our mentality. What is there to be afraid of? I think it's time for you to really try. What do you mean, don't worry about anything, don't think about anything. There is only one thought in my heart, and that is to be admitted!

1. Calm down: I am difficult, so I can change! Don't panic when you are killed, but be more careful when you see Yi. The more difficult it is, the more calm it is. The simpler, the more cautious!

All roads lead to Rome, but this road cannot be changed. Once you find that this method cannot be solved, you must try another method. If you still can't do it, you must put it aside as if you have never seen it before. It's not too late to deal with it when everything else is solved. Make full use of every second in the college entrance examination.

3. Speculate the intention of the proposer. If you really can't do multiple-choice questions, I don't think it is necessary to affect your mood a little. It's normal that I can't do one problem-I don't want to go to Tsinghua Peking University anyway-we can put it aside and do other problems first. If you don't have time or really can't do it at that time, you should give full play to your imagination and intelligence to try to figure out the intention of the proposer.

4. do everything well Many people will come out to ask each other for advice after learning a course. People who succeed in the college entrance examination every year basically ignore others, and they won't believe others' comments. After the math exam, many people ask each other: How do you feel? have you finished? There are often students who think the topic is very simple and have finished it. He also deliberately said in a very relaxed tone: "I think it's so simple, it will be over in one minute!" There is nothing to do for a long time. "You have to keep this in mind, your college entrance examination will be a dead end!

It is also important to enter the examination room with disciplinary thinking. In the past, many people wanted candidates to relax before entering the examination room, so let students enjoy themselves a few days ago and don't miss the exam. As a result, students' test scores are not ideal. What is popular now is to let students do some not too difficult questions before the exam, so-called "warm-up". Otherwise, there will always be students coming down from the examination room and saying, "How long did it take them to find out that they were making a test paper?" .

We should think like this: first, the past is over, and it's no use regretting it! Secondly, I have never envied those who have done their work well and feel good, because they are often two kinds of people. One kind is people who do badly and deliberately disturb others' mood; The other is a person who doesn't do well but feels good. As you can see, people who do well in the exam are never people who feel good about themselves and flaunt themselves.

"Do everything you can do right", you have reached the requirement of "being your best self", and you will win the college entrance examination! Trust me, yes!