How to be a wise and good mother?

1, companionship is the best. Children who love themselves seem to be more disobedient and anxious when they grow up. Maybe many times, at this time, the less we can count on others to help our children grow up better. As parents, the most important thing is that children can successfully become a child with excellent personality. The more a child grows up, the more rebellious he becomes, perhaps because the less company we have, the more he feels that he can do when he grows up. This is actually a mistake. Children always want company. Companionship is not holding him to play, but more invisible. Sitting next to him watching him play childish games, he does his homework, you read books, and occasionally corrects her homework. He looks up and sees you with peace of mind. Any adult who is not busy with work, is under great pressure and has no time should not be an excuse for being lazy. I believe that mom has a way, and dad has a way. Because educating children, parents are always the first responsible person, and educating children is the first task of parents. In 2023, put down the mobile phone and prejudice-children don't need company, pay attention to the little things of their growth, observe him in homework and games, record him, support him and appreciate him.

2. Create a reading atmosphere for children. Mr Zhang Yuanji said: "The best thing in the world is reading! This sentence is simple and clear. If we can cultivate a lifelong love of reading, everyone will benefit a lot. It is more important for parents to educate their children to love reading, take the initiative to read, draw nutrition from books and increase their wisdom. Cultivating children to read is to have an atmosphere of reading. First of all, parents should love reading. If parents don't like reading, it is very unlikely that children will like reading. I prefer reading, which is very helpful for children's guidance. I am full of joy when I see my child begging me to read to her every day, but it is not easy to keep this habit. Reading also needs a quiet environment. The father of the child doesn't like reading. For the sake of the child's father, he tries not to brush his mobile phone, watch TV, have audio and other entertainment programs during the study time of his children's reading and homework to attract their eyes and ears and affect the cultivation of their concentration. Now, we have spent a lot of money to transform the living room into a study room, customized floor-standing bookshelves and bought large desks for 4 to 6 people. Every day when the children are doing their homework, we are reading, practicing calligraphy and drawing. 3. Speaking well is the beginning of education. In the book "Parents' Language", what parents say is very important for the reconstruction of children's brains. Many parents speak conservatively and often use "that, this, that, this" instead of specific objects and directions. When my children were very young, they showed more language talents than their peers. Thanks to our relatively complete long sentences, I didn't know at that time that children had a unique language style because of the way we spoke, but later they didn't pay attention to training and their language ability declined. Now that we know this truth, we should tell our children well. When talking to children, try to make the subject, predicate and object complete. For example, children ask: Will it snow? Don't use a phrase "I don't think" to perfunctory. Instead, he said, "I don't think it will snow. I listened to the weather forecast this morning. Forecasters say it won't snow, but it will be very cold. Look at the sky, the clouds are not so thick and it won't snow yet. "Don't say' son, go to the swimming pool after lunch', say' son, after lunch in the canteen at noon, let's go swimming in the swimming pool'." Give children more patience, talk to them well and cultivate them. 4. Keep a diary every day and share my experience. Keeping a diary and sharing my experience is my recent surprise. After sharing the work and experience of the day with my child, the child felt very curious and interested. Now I have to share something with her before going to bed every day. Content is not important, what matters is sharing. She can understand what I say, she will ask a lot of questions, which will increase her interest in reading and exploring the world. Our sharing is becoming more and more ritualized. Every day, like the host, "solemnly invite Ms. Thunderbird to share today." At first, she simply said: Please share! Slowly, there will be more and more languages. After I share it, she will conclude, "Thank you very much for sharing it with us. See you tomorrow." This invisibly means that the child will have a certain understanding of my work, and she will feel that I don't treat her as a child, and she has a sense of accomplishment. This also enhanced her ability to talk with the host. She also has plans to learn to keep a diary now. Parents believe in their children's understanding ability, keep their children's curiosity, cultivate their language ability, and keep a diary is a good learning method. 5, happy exercise, transforming children's brains Many people love exercise, and they all know that exercise can decompress and make people feel happy after exercise, but they still don't know that the real reason why we feel happy is that exercise makes the brain in the best state. This conclusion has a solid theoretical basis of neuroscience. Research shows that exercise provides a unique stimulus for the body, which creates an environment for the brain to be prepared, willing and able to learn. Now many big coffees and education experts are calling on children to take part in sports more. Three years after the epidemic, many people were infected quickly after being released and could not recover for a long time, which also made many people realize the importance of health.