The problem is the gap between ideal state and actual state.

Let me talk about mine first.

Read "Is your light on?" Today. Finding the real problem This book is really interesting.

The author uses very simple cases to express the importance of logical thinking, which is interesting to read and can understand the true meaning the author wants to convey.

My biggest problem at present is how to improve my core competitiveness and achieve the goal of earning more than 10,000 yuan a month through sideline production.

Maybe you will be surprised that the target income is too low. How can it be so small? . .

Now the income is almost six or seven thousand per month, the mortgage is close to four thousand, and the property fee is four or five hundred. Spending about 2000 a day, I dare not buy luxury clothes. It's only a matter of time before you invite your friends to dinner. I also have a little teddy at home, who was broken a while ago. Give me an injection to take medicine, surgery to buy nutrition, a month's salary is almost gone.

And now there are elderly parents to take care of. Although I'm not with them, I still have to cheer to make money and protect them from aging.

No one can predict who will come first tomorrow and the accident, so every moment, every day when I open my eyes, I will be grateful, treat it seriously and piously, and work hard all day.

There is a saying that people's greatest pain is anger at their incompetence.

I know very well that there is a very painful time after the Chinese New Year in 19. Suddenly, there is no hope, and there is only one person left in the world to rely on. I am in a daze every day, and the thoughts of depression and death appear in my mind several times.

In the process of reading, I found my own needs.

It turns out that I just can't change my role between ideal and reality. I want to succeed and try my best to change the status quo. I want to prove that I have the ability, firm confidence and perseverance to realize my dream. I want to open a bookstore, be a storyteller myself, to influence more people who are wandering in the lost way, to help children finish their studies, and to help themselves and their families achieve financial freedom.

Based on my dreams and goals, I have no time to settle down. One night, in the process of realizing the sideline of litchi micro-course, I got an advertisement for fierce cat training camp, because the name attracted me, or the word fierce attracted me.

Isn't this what I've always dreamed of-awesome?

Later, I gradually changed my mind completely. It turns out that I have lived the life of boiling frogs in warm water for decades. It turns out that I have been in a comfortable nest since I went to school. It turns out that my parents gave me the greatest freedom since I was a child, which made me have no fighting spirit.

Since I chewed ten books in 10 days, I have completely changed.

Lurking and escaping.

Procrastination was killed.

Self-pity has disappeared.

Since then, my world has been much clearer.

Too much love

I feel and accept my own needs and realize the gap between ideal and reality.

Understand the meaning of hard work

get up early

Morning reading and writing

Actively participate in the circle of mixed contacts

Learn various skills in many ways.

Now I am very self-disciplined

And it has become a habit in the bones.

I think whether it's you or me.

In a state of helplessness or confusion about the future

Don't give up on yourself

Don't give up trying.

Your temperament is hidden in the road you have walked.

Leave a footprint of your success.