The "parasite" nanny hid her husband in her master's house for four years, and finally understood why she didn't trust to hire people. Why?

Survival is a problem that every adult must face. Some people strive for a better life for themselves, while others want to use others effortlessly like parasites. The film Parasites, which won four Oscars, is about such a group of people. Why do some people with poor family environment or poor family love to take advantage of others?

How to "parasitize" my wife's house? The film revolves around the story of the protagonist Yu Ji, who can't afford to go to college because of her poor family. Her sister didn't study at home like she did. Her father used to be a driver and her mother was a housewife.

From the beginning, the film tells the story of the protagonist Yu Ji's family taking advantage of others like a textbook. The family lived in the basement, and the aunt upstairs set a password to chase after the toilet to search for other things. When spraying disinfectant outside, in order to get free disinfectant, the window was specially opened, and then the family was smoked with disinfectant. When doing odd jobs and folding pizza delivery boxes, the family also lazy to install some unqualified products and threatened to harvest employees with small handles. Their family never misses the opportunity to take advantage of small things in life, but this is not the most important thing. The powerful and interesting plot of this family is yet to come.

Yu Ji's good friend Min asked Yu Ji to help her take over the tutor work of a wealthy family. Because she was studying abroad, Min also showed that she liked the daughter of this wealthy family. However, because Yu Ji's family was poor and had no college education and diploma, Yu Ji asked her sister to draw one for him with her unique painting function. So, Yu Ji took this diploma and cheated his rich wife, and then started a family "parasitic" trip at her home.

First of all, it was a long trip for Yu Ji to his wife's house. His own house is underground, while others' houses are tall villas with lawns and sprinklers. Then I do some ambiguous actions with my wife's daughter when I am tutoring, stirring the hearts of ignorant girls. Then his wife's naughty little son appeared. Kiyu found that his youngest son was naughty and eccentric but loved painting, so he kowtowed to his wife and called her son "Picasso", saying that he knew an art teacher Jessica who came back from abroad, but pretended to be embarrassed, saying that Jessica was difficult to make an appointment, but she would teach a unique child to be obedient, which aroused her curiosity about Jessica and got rid of Kiyu to contact this teacher. Jessica will come for an interview soon.

Unexpectedly, this so-called smart teacher "Jessica" is his sister who has never been to college and is as lazy as a gangster. They echoed each other and pretended not to know each other. My sister also took the cold route, did not listen to the hostess in class, and resolutely refused to let the nanny and housekeeper be around when talking to the hostess. First of all, they won in momentum. Then I made up a seemingly professional statement and told my wife that analyzing her son's paintings found that her son might be schizophrenic. A burst of nonsense scared the hostess to cry. After all, every mother loves her children very much.

The talented teacher said that his son had psychological problems, and he would definitely treat his son anyway, so he hired a teacher named Jessica. My brother and sister came to tutor, and the offer was high enough to get their family out of the poor life in the basement before. But this is not enough. Brother and sister have made greater efforts.

They took a fancy to the position of wife's driver. When my sister took the driver's car home for the first time, she put something in the car because she knew that her wife's husband hated people from different classes crossing the border. For example, they must respect him because they are masters and servants. When my wife and husband found what my sister left behind, they thought that the driver had crossed the line by driving his car to a private party, so they quarreled with the driver.

My sister began to introduce her uncle who used to drive for rich people, and also introduced my father. In order to understand the usage of luxury cars, my father went to a luxury car shop for a long time and wrote an interview with his host's family. But this is far from enough for the family to rub, and I also took a fancy to the position of housekeeper and nanny.

But the housekeeper and nanny stay longer and it is more difficult to get out. When the protagonist Yu Ji was in love with his wife's little sister, she found that the nanny was allergic to peaches, so they scraped the hair off the peaches and inadvertently sprinkled it on the nanny, making her allergic to cough. The family cooperated to tell his wife that the nanny might have tuberculosis, and sprinkled ketchup on the paper towels used by the nanny as blood, thus successfully driving away the nanny and arranging for her mother to come in. Of course, mom came in as a senior nanny company. In this way, the family entered the husband's house in an all-round way and pretended not to know each other. However, their purpose was not just to work, but to "occupy" this family, so there was a tragedy later.

Why do poor families love to take advantage? First of all, the main problem is that they have a deviation of life values because of the small limitations of life and the lack of good education. They feel that they want to live a good life not necessarily through hard work, but by taking advantage of those who live a carefree life.

Guijia, the protagonist in the film, is such a concept. Mom and dad don't have any culture to pass on to their children. They just go to places where there is no WiFi and try their best to take advantage of others. Moreover, because Yu Ji and his sister didn't have the money to go to college, they didn't receive a better concept education, and they didn't want to make a living through their own skills. Instead, like mom and dad, they rub the benefits of others. This reflects the importance of education's influence on a person. Parental education plays a great role in children's life, and so does school education. If both Yu Ji and his sister can receive higher education, they may not have such a deviation in values and want to deceive others. No wonder many educational ideas now put forward that "education cannot be poor".

Another problem is that some wealthy families in this society hold a "discriminatory" attitude towards some poor families. For example, the wife and husband in the movie are nouveau riche and have experienced poverty before. However, after starting their own business, they had an inferiority complex towards the Kiyu family who came from the same background as themselves. I always feel that Yuji's father smells bad and shows his contempt. At the same time, servants should not get along with him like friends, but should be the kind of relationship between superiors and subordinates.

This will actually create a sense of imbalance in the hearts of those servants. This kind of psychological imbalance may lead to a slight psychological distortion, which will make them feel disgusted with their masters, and then produce a "revenge" mentality, taking advantage of the absence of their masters, taking advantage of the situation and taking home as their own. This tells us that no matter what, we should respect everyone, respect every profession and treat everyone sincerely.

Cheating is a common thing in today's society If you need to survive at that time, it is not a long-term solution. The man and the nanny are a particularly good example. They tried their best to live by their master's house, but they couldn't live in the end, which led to tragedy. All this tells us that there is nothing for nothing. To live the life you want, you must rely on your own efforts.

The conclusion is that God is fair. Even if you say that someone else was born with a golden key, it was his older generation who made more and greater efforts to get it. If you want a better life, you must work harder. If you only think about how to rub the benefits of others every day, you may end up with an empty flood. After all, you can rub it for a while, but not for life.

Another feeling that this film gives people is to remind people to know the truth when recruiting nannies. Don't pass out because of two words of deception. You'd better install a camera at home. Just like in the movie, the former nanny hid in the basement for five years and couldn't find it. If the wife has a camera at home, it will be discovered soon. Therefore, when hiring people at home, it is best to install a camera and take care of the home when you leave home.

In any case, it is wrong to love a lifestyle that takes advantage of others. I don't know what you think.