Have the treasure moms ever sat in the Moon Center? How do you feel?

I've never been in a confinement center. But my classmate is sitting in the center of the moon.

It was a few years ago, when the Yuezi Center was just emerging. It looked very tall and the staff was very professional, so she spent 30 thousand to live there for a month. The final conclusion is: "I ate badly and almost had no milk."

Some time ago, it was revealed that pregnant women cried and complained that the service in the center was too poor and the service attitude was too poor. She spent more than 40 thousand a month, but she didn't get intimate care. Her milk rose in the middle of the night, and no one rang the doorbell, so she had to get up with her weak body to find someone. She finally met the nurse in the corridor, but the nurse told her that she was busy at the moment and the nursing time for breastfeeding had run out. If she wants to do it again, the service charge will be several hundred yuan. The moon center is simply a money center. More than 40 thousand yuan is almost a year's income of civil servants in small towns, but it can't completely guarantee your breastfeeding. It's the best in the world.

Say professional. In fact, the tradition of confinement in China is mostly passed down from mouth to mouth. People from all walks of life invited by Yuezi Center, who knows what they used to do, may not be as experienced as your mother-in-law. Maybe he will say that they hired a professional obstetrician and gynecologist. Let me talk about my personal experience, and you will understand that obstetricians and gynecologists don't know much more about confinement than we do.

My favorite cousin is a senior nurse in obstetrics and gynecology, with first-class professional ability. After I gave birth to Dabao, my cousin told me that our traditional method of giving children herbal tea in the second month was wrong. Because herbal tea will damage the delicate intestines of young children.

Of course I believe her, so I ignored the old man's advice and resolutely refused to give the children herbal tea. Later, in the middle of the second month, the child was constipated and did not stink for many days. I saw a doctor, but I didn't get better after taking the medicine. I cried.

Until the end, grandma said weakly, "it won't be getting angry." Give her some herbal tea. " The next day after drinking herbal tea, the child pulled it out stinky.

The reason is that we all get angry by eating dried longan with yellow rice wine. When the baby drinks his mother's milk, it will naturally get a little angry. Drinking herbal tea to get rid of the fire just neutralizes it. Western medicine can ignore these things and blindly follow the so-called science, but it will cause harm.

Having said that, I just want to tell you that instead of spending tens of thousands of dollars a month to go to the moon center, it is better to ask someone to take care of it every month, so that my mother-in-law or her mother can take care of it and buy whatever she wants. Why do you have to go to Yuezi Center to spend money and suffer?

Let me say something. My Dabao is sitting at home, and Bauer is in the center of Confucius.

Do you want to go to the Confucius Center after giving birth?

To tell the truth, if there is a caring old man at home who can take care of your baby from morning till night and stew a pot of chicken soup you like, then don't go.

A group of little girls and big sisters in nurses' uniforms in Confucius Center look professional, but they are not.

I went to a large-scale month center with nearly 100 rooms and about 60 staff.

First of all, the food, God, is not delicious. It's a nutritious meal, but it's similar to Chinese fast food such as steaming kung fu.

As soon as you drink the soup, you will know that there is monosodium glutamate in it, which is far worse than the original chicken soup stewed at home.

Most vegetables are cooked, which sounds healthy, but eating them twice really doesn't taste good.

Although you can choose dishes, this is the taste.

I really feel that I haven't had enough to eat all month.

They don't let their families bring food.

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Super-bitter theory

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Let's talk about children.

In this respect, they are bolder than the old people at home.

Bathing, massage, massage, there is nothing they dare not do.

Just say that the baby swims every other day, using a neck-covered swimming ring.

I remember Cui Yutao clearly saying that this thing is not safe.

We communicated with Confucius Center for a long time, but they couldn't cancel or change the swimming style. Later, we had to give up this right, but we didn't reduce this money, hehe.

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About motherhood

They will have massage to help drain lochia or something, and they will also come to open milk and teach breastfeeding. This is really unnecessary. If there is no physiological reason, every treasure mother will do it naturally, and there is no need.

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Generally speaking, it is the first sentence. If there are reliable old people at home to help, don't go. It's really not as professional and scientific as they advertised.

Thank you for your invitation.

Twice in my own house, my husband waited on me. I really haven't been to the Confucius Center. I'm sorry I'm inexperienced

There is nothing wrong with Confucius Center except spending money.

I sat in the center of the month, and in a word: life is like a queen, "it's worth it."

1. Golden Moon one-on-one service. The new moon is randomly equipped and you can't choose it yourself. However, you can rest assured that the new moon inside is super experienced, and Ma Bao can rest assured that she can take care of the baby. Yue Yue takes care of the doll 24 hours a day, and only gives it to me when nursing. After feeding, she will immediately burp the child and take it away. Give your child a bath and touch every morning. When there is sunshine, you will take it to the sun room to bask in the sun. In the evening, Yue Yue sleeps on the sofa outside the living room, and the children sleep in the stroller equipped in the middle. The stroller is next to the sofa. She will give me the most scientific parenting method. Thanks to the new moon, my child's rash and jaundice soon recovered.

2. Seven-to-one obstetric service. Every parturient will be equipped with a nurse, an obstetrician, a pediatrician, a Chinese medicine practitioner, a psychologist, a chef and a nutritionist. Of course, these resources are enjoyed by pregnant women, unlike Yue Yue, which only serves one newborn, but even so, I think it is enough. The nurse station is manned 24 hours a day. If necessary, ring the bell beside the bed and the nurse will come at once. Doctors, nutritionists and chefs check up every week. If you have any questions, you can ask them. They will also make different diets and teas according to the physique and nursing needs of pregnant women in different periods. These doctors are all attending doctors in big hospitals and are absolutely capable. After the daughter was born, her right eye could not be opened. The pediatrician asked Bao Dad to buy some eye drops and just drop two or three drops. There was a fever in the second trimester, and the nurse dropped the temperature without taking medicine for more than ten minutes.

3. There are many postpartum repair projects. When signing the contract, the project of postpartum repair has been clearly defined, avoiding subsequent wrangling. From the third week, the teacher of postpartum repair and I exchanged the experience of postpartum repair and chose the right time. I can't remember what I have done now, but there are many projects, such as steaming, acupuncture and so on, and those people have a good attitude and will take the initiative to help me get dressed and take slippers.

4. Safety is guaranteed. Migrant workers need to change their shoe covers before entering the Confucius Center to visit pregnant women, and then register at the front desk and do a good job of disinfection. The Confucius Center has an access control system, and the front desk will help relatives swipe their cards before they can enter. Only the front desk staff can hold the access card, which largely avoids the occurrence of incidents such as stealing children. The places where newborns bathe and swim are all surrounded by glass, so parents can watch them outside and give their opinions at will. Every time my daughter takes a bath and swims, her husband will look through the glass wall.

5. Teach parenting skills. In the last week, Yue Yue and the nurse will teach the parents of newborns parenting skills, such as exhaust exercises, the operation of airplane hugs, how to care for baby girls and so on. I can connect seamlessly after I finish my confinement, so I won't worry.

6. Moon meal is nutritious and reduces fat. On the first day I moved into the Confucius Center, nutritionists and Chinese medicine practitioners came. The nutritionist asked me about my dietary preferences, and the Chinese doctor took my pulse. The nutritionist has made a catering plan, and the Chinese medicine has made a special tea for nourishing skin and invigorating qi. However, the moon meal tastes terrible. I eat a lot. The moon meal is too light. The chef came to explain it to me. Three meals a day at three o'clock, three main meals in the morning, noon and evening, and three refreshments in the morning, noon and evening. There are fruits, milkshakes, bread and so on. I can't remember many kinds. Moon meal and refreshments are put on the trolley by the chef and pushed upstairs by the staff. Ma Bao's name will be marked on the plate, and Moon will find the corresponding moon meal according to the name and bring it to the room. Moon meal won't make people fat. I have no idea how it works. After eating for a week, I began to lose weight. The key is to eat enough and have enough milk for every meal.

7. Life is full and there are many courses. I'm too busy at the Confucius Center. I have postpartum yoga, flower arrangement, photo teaching, pastry making and so on. I am very happy and relaxed every day. After class, a group of treasure moms chattered about their parenting experiences and spat at each other, and all the postpartum depression disappeared.

I have only given birth to one child now, and it depends on whether there will be any chance in the future. Personally, Confucius Center is not as good as home, because my mother-in-law is better than her own mother. Is it because I gave her a grandson?

If you can, go to the Confucius Center. The service of Confucius Center is better, and the postpartum recovery is faster. My sister-in-law had a month in the Confucius Center and sat in the Confucius Center in Nanchong. The service is quite good. Are accompanied by professional medical staff, careful care, no negligence. The moon meal is delicious.

Dear baby:

I am both happy and uneasy when I think of you. When I first heard your heartbeat passing through my stomach, it felt great! In three months, you will be born and meet us. Your appearance is my surprise, but we have been expecting you to come to this world as soon as possible and experience everything beautiful.

Baby, my heart is uneasy, because a big boy becomes a father for the first time and is completely responsible for another life. To tell the truth, before you came, I was playful and loved freedom, and I didn't like being bound. I'm afraid of change, and I don't know if I can support the heavy life. However, your mother has always trusted me, encouraged me and gave me great confidence. I must make you and your mother happy.

I am about to welcome you to this world, and I can't express my excitement in words. I'm going to be a father! I'm excited to think about it. You are an angel given to me by God. Growing up with you is the mission of your mother and me. From the moment you die, I want you to get the most professional and meticulous care.

Good boy, whether you are a boy or a girl, you are my baby. Dad loves you. As the saying goes, "my daughter was my father's lover in a previous life", I still prefer girls, who are clever and sensible, and are my parents' intimate little cotton-padded jackets; Boys are lively and noisy, and when they grow up, they will stumble and lose their flesh. I'm afraid your mother will worry, just like when I was a child. What will you look like after you are born and how much do you weigh? Is it really not as big as dad's hand in the movie? I am full of expectation and a little uneasy. Is there enough milk to eat? What should I do in the shower? The most terrible thing is that I have never held a baby!

Although there is still some time before you were born, I am more and more worried. In order to welcome your arrival, your mother and I should make the best preparations. In my spare time, I began to search online for brands such as cribs, strollers, bottles, diapers and toys suitable for babies. I pay attention to some official accounts of parenting WeChat, read parenting knowledge every day, and look forward to various problems that may arise in the future. Massive information is bizarre, and there are many different opinions. As a father for the first time, I was at a loss.

Fortunately, at this time, a friend recommended Shi Anyue and the International Maternal and Child Club to me. This club has complete facilities, spacious rooms and excellent lighting. Moreover, it provides a two-day free trial activity, which is very intimate. The medicated diet provided is nutritious and healthy, and the air and water in the whole indoor environment are doubly purified. After testing by special equipment, your mother and I found that the negative oxygen content in the room actually reached 6000, which is completely forest level. The happiest thing is that you don't have to buy anything. All clubs provide you with a package. During the experience, an experienced head nurse taught us how to take care of your knowledge, so we no longer have to scratch our heads with a computer.

Although I can foresee that family responsibilities and pressures will increase after becoming a father, your arrival is a gift from heaven. With the services of professional clubs, our family of three can easily spend a happy time. As long as the thought of going to the clubhouse after work, seeing your immature face, making you happy and making you laugh, and our family of three are happy, I feel that my work is full of motivation!

I look forward to your birth, listen to you call me "dad" and take you and your mother's family on a trip. We have a lot of scenery to see together. I want to record the happy moments of our family until you grow up, until your mother and I are old and gray-haired and slowly rocking in a rocking chair, which is also memorable.

When I was with your mother, I wanted to give her a happy and beautiful life. Now that I have you, I want to not only provide you with material security economically, but also pay more emotionally. As a husband and father, I feel lucky to choose poetry for myself, so that you and your mother can get warm care. Every day, you and your mother have many useful activities to play. I hope you will grow up in the warmth of love and become a good boy who knows how to love, tolerate and give. The role of father not only gave me more sense of responsibility, but also made me understand the heart of being a parent. Regarding the future, I know I still have a lot to learn and do, but I feel happy, which is a "sweet burden"!

Thank you for everything. My best gift is that your mother brought me a you. I hope you can thrive in Shi Anyue, your mother can restore health and beauty happily, and the family of three will live happily forever.

From: Love, Aries Dad.

Off-topic: How about it? After reading Aries' father's letter, did you feel his deep love for his children? In late autumn, pregnant mothers, remember to encourage their husbands to write a letter to their baby sons/daughters. When they grow up, tell them: Your father loves you the most in the world!

First of all, no one in my family has ever been to the Moon Center. But let me tell you about family confinement. What to eat every day, whether the milk of adults is good or not, why children cry, why they don't like sleeping, how to defecate, and what to do if their buttocks are red … There are many reasons. I know that I will have a headache when I wait next month, and I need to find someone to treat the adult's milk blockage, and I need someone to ask how to heal the wound quickly. It's quite troublesome. You don't have to worry that there will be professionals at the Confucius Center to serve you. The family also spent a lot of money. It depends on the conditions or confinement center.

Sorry, I can't answer that.