Why do many young men in China want to buy a house now?

Now many young people get married, and their mother-in-law asks to buy a house, mainly for her daughter's future life.

In the village, I have several partners who grew up together. They have men and women, but most of them didn't go to college, so they went out to work early to earn money.

Every time I go home for the New Year, I will see their parents arrange blind dates for them. Parents of girls usually ask boys about their families. If they are satisfied, they will ask for marriage. It is more common to have a house and buy a house in the county.

According to their idea, if you don't buy a house, your daughter's life will be insecure in the past, let alone happy.

Therefore, the boys who come to the village for blind date usually drive (to show their faces) and then say that they are ready to buy a house or have already bought a house. If you can't do this, blind date will generally be ruined.

All my friends are like this. They are boys, and one of them is called Xiao Kui. He has been in love with the other half for several years, and both parents are satisfied and ready to get married.

When it comes to marriage, Xiao Kui's girlfriend has nothing to hide. She directly told Xiaokui to buy a house in the county, because she was worried that living with Xiaokui's parents in her hometown would lead to conflicts due to different living habits and personalities. For this idea, Xiao Kui's girlfriend's parents also agree very much.

Her parents said that since they are going to get married, they should have a home of their own, so that they can live together without the concerns of both parents and have a good educational condition after having children.

After listening to her mother-in-law's thoughts, Xiao Kui had no choice. Although his family rebuilt the building, neither his wife nor his mother-in-law agreed to live in his hometown. He can only resist the pressure and buy another house in the county.

In this way, after buying a house, Cai Kui Jr. and his girlfriend held a wedding as they wished and got a marriage certificate.

In my opinion, my mother-in-law usually lets her future son-in-law buy a house for three main reasons.

The first is the daughter's life security, because her mother-in-law also knows that buying a house is stressful. If the man doesn't buy a good house, the daughter will have a hard time in the future. There is nothing she can do for her future happiness.

The second is to avoid conflicts with the man's parents, mainly because young people and their parents have different lifestyles and personalities, which are prone to conflicts. In order to avoid this, buying a house is also a good choice.

The third is for future children. After all, after buying a house in the county, the surrounding educational resources will be better. If you are in your hometown and have children in the future, it is also a problem for children to go to school and register.

So now that young people get married, the mother-in-law wants a house.