Can you accept living with your in-laws after marriage?

I can't accept living with my in-laws after marriage. But in fact, some friends expressed their willingness to live with their parents-in-law, which reduced the pressure a lot. Moreover, the house price is so expensive now, they may not have a second suite for a while. A friend said that we must live separately. Many concepts of old people and young people may be different. Without an independent wedding room and relatively private space, they would rather not get married. ......

On the other hand, the parents of the older generation also seem willing to live with their children, so that the family will be more lively, and it will be more convenient to take care of their children in all aspects. A few elders are unwilling to live with their children.

Summed up everyone's ideas and reached the following conclusions:

Advantages of living with parents-in-law: it's convenient to eat, and you don't have to cook and wash clothes yourself. Old people at home will also bear a large part of the housework, and they will help with the children. For office workers and people who just have children, it relieves a lot of pressure.

Disadvantages of living with parents-in-law: there may be a generation gap between young people and old people, and different ways of doing things are prone to contradictions. Young people need their own private space, and living with their elders may not be so free.