"The son of Yanju, Shen is also, and so is Yao."

"If a child lives in the bird's nest, he will report here and die here" (the eighty-fourth day of Interpretation of the Analects of Confucius)

Nikkei Article 389 (Article 7)

Classic original: The son's Yanju, Shenshen and Yaoyao are also the same.

When Confucius lived at home, he was well dressed, gentle and carefree.

Shen means straightness, that is to say, when relaxing, you should still be in a straight state physically, mentally and verbally, fresh and natural.

When you die, you will feel soft and approachable, and you will not feel unattainable.

In the Book of Songs, it is said that peach blossoms fly, and their Ye Zhenzhen is also. The girl is getting married, and Comix is in harmony. Actually, it means the same thing.

The saint's magnetic field is very clean and calm, giving people a sense of security and a special personality charm. In other words, as long as they exist, there is nothing to worry about and fear, just like their patron saint, they are unwilling to leave them.

Their hearts are always in this calm, calm and natural state, without any affectation.

Therefore, there is nothing else to learn, that is, you can't afford to think and you can't afford to persist.

I remember watching a documentary about Shaolin Temple monks. Their master mentioned that practicing martial arts is only a means, and meditation is the key to enlightenment.

The disciples of those monks practice secretly at night, so if they meet, they will definitely learn Kung Fu. But if they don't meditate and cultivate their minds, they will start to be chaotic. In their words, they will start with machines, and they will kill others.

So the experts will tell them not to fight after three times. If they don't meditate for a day, they will be severely criticized and reprimanded.

In fact, it is the same now. For example, Huawei started out by cultivating self-cultivation and making money.

For example, in life, cooking is light and salty, and there is no difference and persistence.

So our daily life and behavior reflect our realm. For example, if you don't have to go to work today and then rest at home, are you still clean and tidy or littering? Where can I see Kung Fu? On ordinary little things.

Whether it can be done: the room is clear, the walls are clean, several cases are clean, and the pen and ink stone are correct.

In other words, everything is orderly, orderly and unscrupulous, which is prudence and independence.

You know, the key to practice is to practice yourself. You may not be able to do it at first, so you should deliberately force yourself to do it. When the habit is formed, you will do it naturally, that is, apply at will and die at will.

If you do, people will follow you.

For example, meditation is difficult to settle down at first, and time has the most say. It will tell you what the result is. As long as you get into the habit and don't meditate, you will feel something missing in one day.

At the beginning, I deliberately got rid of my bad habits. After a long time, I have to learn to let go and learn to let nature take its course.

Teacher Zhiyi's hometown, Linyi, and the place where classes began, there is a Xizhi Hotel, followed by Wang Xizhi's former residence.

Wang Xizhi, a man, has achieved the realm of "giving and giving, even if he dies".

At that time, there was a great official named Chi Jian, who liked talents very much. In order to choose a suitable object for her daughter, the boss Xi racked his brains. Later, when he learned that the children of the Wangs were handsome and talented, he wanted to narrow down the scope and choose one of these young people as a son-in-law.

When the news came, the children of the Wangs were excited and nervous. They heard that Miss Xi has a good personality and is very talented. Who doesn't want to marry her?

As a result, they were carefully decorated, sitting in school, seemingly reading books, and their hearts had already flown.

However, on the east side of the case, there is a person who is different. I saw him casually as usual, as if there was no such thing, and he was still writing intently.

On this day, the weather was not hot, but the young man was so hot that he untied his coat and showed his stomach. Maybe he has no time to eat in the morning. As he wrote, he grabbed a mouthful of cold steamed bread and chewed it freely. His eyes were still fixed on the calligraphy in front of him. The right hand holding the brush has not been released for a moment, and sometimes it will be hung up to write. That serious expression makes people laugh.

Chi Jian sent his own representative to the school to observe and understand, and then he went back. In his opinion, the children of the Wangs are very good, polite, young, handsome and talented, and it is almost impossible to say which is the best and which is the worst.

However, to say that the performance is not so satisfactory, there is another one. He bared his chest and abdomen, while writing and eating steamed bread. It seems too casual, as if he didn't care about the boss's choice of son-in-law.

The adult listened to the report and was very interested in this young man with "casual" behavior. He inquired about the situation in detail, folded his hands happily and said, "This is the son-in-law I am looking for."

What's going on here? Boss Xi thinks that this young man doesn't take personal matters to heart, but concentrates on calligraphy, which is a promising performance. With such enthusiasm and infatuation, he is not worried about becoming a talent.

Guess who this young man is? It was none other than Wang Xizhi, and this is the famous allusion: choosing a spouse in the East Bed. Later, he really became an outstanding calligrapher, which shows that Boss Xi has a good eye.

Therefore, we should always let nature take its course, don't be too distorted, live naturally, face life happily and face life with a smile.