A letter from home that made dad cry-to tell the truth

I just went through the silent period of the epidemic and saw my father's irritability at home early in the morning, so I decided to write a letter to my father who was troubled by the name "good man"! )

Dad, it's not easy for our family to come all the way, but we are still very happy. Had difficulties and hardships, and raised us step by step. Although my brother and I usually don't talk much in front of you, we often discuss it in private. He said to me, "Sister, why do I earn more money now than before, but my happiness index doesn't necessarily improve?" . How glamorous life is outside, but the essence is to return to the family. For a better home life, each of us is working hard. I used to be in the company, just like you. This side is also good, and there is also a promise. Although I sometimes embarrass myself and don't want to do it, I finally accepted the job. I have never committed a crime for the so-called "good reputation", but I have always wronged myself. I was very tired! Later, I read some books, which said that "human life is limited. You can't please everyone. You have to make a choice, know how to refuse, and spend your time and energy where you should use it. " I began to try to say "no" to people who asked me. It was difficult to say it for the first time, but I managed to do it. Later, I gradually realized that it was not that difficult. I finished my work well, and I don't need to take responsibility for anyone's fault. People have become much easier. I have more time to deal with other jobs and take care of my family. We are not saviors, there is no need to care about what people think of us, just do what you should do. Neither you nor your mother is easy, but I think your old age should be better than the average person, because you have your own hobbies. You can play the flute and erhu when you are alone, and you can draw when everyone is at home (your drawing level is excellent). I've been thinking that you may find the value of life in painting, find more fun, and get a picture to sketch in the park (of course, this is just my idea). What an elegant one. Don't let too many trivial things take up too much of your time and energy and reduce your quality of life. You can try it for a while and see how it works! Mom, working alone there (in another city) is very hard, without rest, and I have to endure the loneliness of one person. No one likes working day and night, but they want to earn more freedom and reduce the burden on their children. Life is only a few decades, how long can we be together? Mom, don't do this again this year. In the days to come, the whole family will be round and round and go on happily! As a child, don't take it to heart if there is something you can't do. Just point it out to us. Of course, everyone should be kind. Your children don't need to be reserved, let alone guess halfway. Yesterday, my brother and I privately discussed, "Dad's birthday is coming, I'll arrange it. 59 this year. " I said there is still one month. Becoming a family is the fate of a previous life. We should understand each other, put ourselves in other's shoes, do our job, accommodate each other and have fun!