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How do women with high emotional intelligence get along with their mother-in-law? The affection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like watering flowers, but there are always many ways. Just like Johnny has a plant, you put it in the sun. Although you really want this plant to grow healthily, it is wrong to have the wrong strength. Although it is the wrong force, it is impossible to achieve the expected results. So is my mother-in-law. If the daughter-in-law doesn't know what her mother-in-law really wants and her mother-in-law doesn't understand her daughter-in-law's thoughts, there will be no way for two people to communicate and it will be difficult to sing spiritually. It's hard to establish true feelings. My feelings for my mother-in-law need to be managed and the contradictions between them need to be solved with wisdom. Among them, there are many ways to solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, usually starting from a good time.

Of course, in addition to talking, when you have a good impression, you must have the principle of expressing the bottom line. Learn to express yourself, and you will be accepted by the other party. When a woman is in her mother-in-law, she must pay attention to these two points: hard things and soft things. Gao Yong's daughter-in-law is in place, hard and soft. In the long years, it actually chose to compromise in order to please her mother-in-law, or summer is not conducive to marriage. Without the principle of doing things, it is too difficult to speak, and often a wrong person gets it in a lot of bread. I still remember seeing a particularly interesting little product, mediation, which is reflected in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the sketch, the daughter-in-law was aggressive and went to the neighborhood Committee to ask for mediation. The young couple should not only divide their mother-in-law, but also not for themselves rather than their eldest sister.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been quarrelling fiercely. When sweating, take a shower and make two people dissatisfied with each other. However, when the two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met, life was a little difficult and water and fire were incompatible. Even my mother-in-law said, "Who knows why it's noisy?" Although this story is absurd, it also illustrates the truth. Justice with mother-in-law will only get a bad influence. The old man is sad and the daughter-in-law is uncomfortable, which will make the old man become the true image of the daughter-in-law. If you do this, in real life, the daughter-in-law always quarrels with her mother-in-law for her own benefit, and it is too difficult to talk. The old man's ending is really cold, which is not conducive to family harmony and marriage management. So when you take advantage of a woman's feelings, it is appropriate for her to say something soft. Communicate with her mother-in-law slowly and understand her difficulties, and many contradictions will be solved.

In fact, when you have something, you have your own goodwill and try to change her. It's not just a quarrel, it can solve practical problems. Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, no one wins when they quarrel repeatedly. I had no feelings, even quarreled with this family slowly, and finally hurt all the members of this family. Gao Yong's daughter-in-law is in place, hard and soft. A woman is taller than her mother-in-law, so don't always encounter hardships. She must be principled, able to solve contradictions, gentle and friendly. I still remember watching the golden wedding. At the beginning, Wen Li and her mother-in-law in Sichuan were in constant conflict. Two people often make a quarrel, a little, speechless.

However, later, Qizhi was not at home, and the two of them spent a long time in their mother-in-law's house, slowly honing the true meaning of their getting along. Both of them stopped arguing and tried to change each other with their own ideas. On the contrary, with a room full of laughter, Wen Li knew that she was in pain and that her mother-in-law was a huge biological woman. Wen Li no longer adopts her mother-in-law Although she still follows her own principles, she uses words and interesting ways, and your mother-in-law. Just like Wen Li, he fell out of bed to her safety. When her mother-in-law thought that Wen Li regarded her as a child, she was very resistant to this matter, but Wen Li was like a child and put her on the fence.

When Qizhi came back, his mother whispered. My mother-in-law says these are all very good. One is that Wen Li is really good. I changed the way I get along with my mother-in-law. The language of the two people did not attack, and gradually showed their intentions to each other. Like two hedgehogs, leaving thorns on each other, there is no way to hold the organization. Just to show your softness, you can hug each other. Some principles must be adhered to, and some things cannot be returned. But if the attitude is soft, the possible results will be completely different. Speaking is soft, which is the best way to open a soft heart. The principle is difficult, so don't compromise casually. Learn to express your position and learn to speak softly. In fact, this is the key point of our relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The way of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to change people and return to their roots. If the daughter-in-law is kind to my mother-in-law, the mother-in-law will also have a great affection for her. Of course, a woman must win a skill at home. On the one hand, she can prove herself through her own ability, and on the other hand, she can maintain the relationship with other family members through her own wisdom. In marriage, women can only be respected by others if they take good care of themselves and manage their own lives. When a woman has her own principles, she has the ability to make money and the cultivation of being good at improvement, which not only attracts her husband's appreciation, but also gets her husband's approval. In daily life, you only need to do eight words to get along with your mother-in-law: combine rigidity with softness.

Do things with principles. When communicating, learn to communicate with warm words, let the other party express themselves, and find a balance point through communication. It is not difficult to get along with my mother-in-law. They all have thorns. I don't want anything from each other, but I want to give it to each other. If such a virtuous circle is formed, we will get along the same, and it should be easier and easier. Live and don't express your love in the wrong way. Learn to empathize and let love flow in understanding.