Some experiences of the rich getting rich.

Life is a process of constantly updating cognition. In the past, rich people on the Internet could easily enjoy cars, BMWs, beautiful women and wine without worrying about their livelihood. They just feel that their life is relaxed and comfortable, so they take the absolutely relaxed mode.

When you step into society, you will have a chance to get in touch with them.

1 Regal said that the capital turnover of the new project was difficult, so even the bank loan had to be borrowed from his brother;

Regal 2 said that although the company is a quasi-unicorn in the industry, investors want performance, time is tight, pressure is too great, they can't sleep all night, and their hair has lost a lot.

On the 3rd, the rich man said that government departments are always critical of their own projects.

Rich man No.4 said that it is difficult to tell the purpose of close people, so it is very defensive and lonely;

The rich man said on the 5th that he had to declare bankruptcy due to natural and man-made disasters.

Rich man No.6 said that competitors are eyeing up and all kinds of plagiarism emerge one after another. The moat of the enterprise has not yet been established and is in danger of being replaced at any time.

Seeing their anxiety, I had to comfort myself that all beings are suffering and don't envy anyone;

Later, when I saw the office area at 1, the real estate at No.2, and the diet of the rich at No.3, I began to realize that even the life of the rich is always annoying, but it is much easier than that of the lower classes who have to try their best to survive.

But the rich are not born with money. What makes them better than most people in wealth? Opportunity, thinking or something else?

With such curiosity, I explored the views of a rich second generation in Chaoshan and the bosses of many companies on life, wealth accumulation, mate selection, interpersonal relationship and mate selection.

My parents were the first batch of employees of state-owned enterprises who went to sea after the reform and opening up, and started by selling TV sets.

At that time, my father resigned from state-owned enterprises and went to sea to raise money for turnover. Although his grandfather is an officer, he is not rich. The whole family pooled all their savings to buy things. Television is a scarce thing, which makes them dig the first bucket of gold.

From the above actions, we can at least see that their family has done two better things.

The first point: full of courage and strong action.

Reform and opening up is an opportunity, but at that time, the folk custom still focused on light industry and commerce, so it took courage to go to sea. And if you want to do it, you can do it immediately, which shows that the execution of the action is relatively strong.

The second point: family relations, unity, mutual assistance and mutual trust.

Doing business is risky and profitable. If you are not careful, you will lose the game. The family can come up with all the money to support it, which shows that the usual family relationship is well maintained. Family members are United and trust each other.

In Robert Toru Kiyosaki's book Poor Dad Rich Dad, it is very important that money can only generate money when it flows. Therefore, when they first got the first bucket of gold, they did not use it to satisfy material desires, but invested in the appreciation of wealth.

They began to expand their business lines, so they opened large supermarkets, underwear processing factories and bought land to do real estate business. Anyway, they never lost money.

With the expansion of small family assets, they began to help others in the family get social resources instead of being satisfied with the wealth of one family, so the uncle of the real estate director set foot in real estate, and the uncle of the trader set up a fund company, so he opened a property management company, an imported supermarket, a tea company and a gym. His grandmother bought many shops and storefronts, from funds to follow-up services.

Fat water does not flow to outsiders.

In the maintenance of interpersonal relationships: from his grandfather's generation, he paid great attention to maintaining the friendship between his comrades and the further continuation of this friendship in future generations. So in his generation, many young people are descendants of grandpa's comrades. And people with the same background start their own companies to do business, and they also support and help each other tacitly in their careers.

Small feelings among comrades are an important source of their contacts, and family contacts are a more important source. But the most important person to maintain family ties is the grandmother at home.

Grandma, who has never studied, sent two sons and a daughter to college. The wisdom of getting along with others is respected by everyone in the family.

I learned the details of grandma's life with curiosity.

[If! supportLists] 1。 ? [endif] Unity: Grandma asks the whole family to help each other, and others will go all out to help anyone who has something, so the family will not panic whenever something goes wrong. Knowing that there will be a complete family as a source of security. Family members often get together at grandma's house to exchange feelings, which is particularly harmonious.

In this atmosphere, everyone can support my father when he goes to sea.

2. Respect everyone. This respect is not only verbal, but also implemented in the attitude towards the cleaning staff. After cleaning, the cleaning staff will be respectfully invited to the dining table by grandma, and the whole family needs to wait for the cleaning staff to finish cleaning before eating the leftovers of the cleaning aunt.

Under such a tutor, this rich second generation is still respectful and polite to me from the heart.

Respect for others is the most important lesson he taught me.

[If! Support list ]2. ? Enough love. Grandma likes all the younger generations very much. He lost 6.5438+0.5 million last year. He just casually said something to her and was immediately filled in.

Because he knows that with support, the child has enough confidence to face failure, and he also grows into an optimistic person. Therefore, he has never failed in his eyes. Failure is experience.

Regarding the choice of spouse, his request is not to follow fate or feelings, but to make it clear that he is valuable and capable.

33 years old, I have been in love several times, but I have never chased girls since I was a child, because I don't need it! ! ! The truth of the matter is that there is never a shortage of talented girls around the rich or handsome guys.

And he will be a chicken thief, choose a girl he likes from the girls who chase him, and give the other party a chance to chase him.

When I asked him what kind of girl he liked? He blurted out calmly: beautiful and capable! ! ! For example, can help him deal with entertainment he doesn't like? Can you help him drive? Can help him develop new company business? Before that, I always thought that you can't have your cake and eat it. Beauty and ability are scarce resources, and you can't have both. However, it is overlooked that what ordinary people can't get is not a point worthy of entanglement for high-quality men. There are not a few girls who ask each other to meet such requirements.

Regarding thinking, many times his thinking is more positive.

I said it is difficult for ordinary people at the bottom to make money. He said that the CEO of his father's company is a college student from the countryside. In this era, as long as you work hard enough, it is not too difficult to make an annual salary of 300,000 to 400,000.

I said that good educational resources are getting harder and harder to obtain. In the end, whether he is useful or not depends on himself. He was admitted to Sun Yat-sen University without any cram school.

I said that it is irresponsible for boys in today's society to take the initiative to propose aa system. He said that it doesn't matter, at least they don't owe each other.

I said that my parents always like to complain, and he said that this shows that it is a good thing that they are demanding.

I said I had a lot of setbacks in the workplace. He said nothing. People are growing and getting better and better. You have to believe in your ability to change.

About money: He said that money should work for us, not be a slave to it. People who become slaves to money are doomed to get no money. This sentence sounds very philosophical, and it will probably take longer to really understand it.

About family education and getting along with family: I was taken to work in the company by my father since I was a child. What my family and I do most is to discuss how to make money and where to play together. The family relationship is very harmonious. Apart from frequent gatherings, a big family with difficulties will try their best to help each other, talk to each other, respect each other and even make polite suggestions. Give priority to encouraging education. His family will not blame him for anything, but will give him the greatest encouragement. Even if one of his companies fails, his mother will only comfort him, simply saying that he just has time to travel together.

About career: meeting every morning to arrange work, reading and studying in the afternoon, drinking tea with friends in the evening to talk about things and find projects. Never stop receiving new news, never stop growing, and let professional people do professional things. The company hired a professional manager, who only needs to know the situation to be a shopkeeper of cutting.

About time: except for getting along with family and children, all time is spent making money and working, and life skills are almost zero. Life depends entirely on nannies, and there is no entertainment time.

About personal status: I attach great importance to my health, pay attention to exercise, and will not stay up late because of work. There may be no pressure to survive, so he and his boss and friends around him are more relaxed.

About the choice of business: usually more restrained, more cooked than raw. Priority will be given to the assessment of risk and return, and the internet industry, which is light on assets and heavy on investment, is unwilling and afraid to touch it.

Making friends is very demanding. There can be many partners or partners, but few new friends and lack of trust in people.

He is very shrewd in talent selection and corporate governance. Even a boss friend who has been in business for many years refuses to let the other party work in his own company when he wants to give him a chance after bankruptcy, because he is worried that the other party will dig the poacher.

He said, in fact, you and I are no different, there is not much difference in diet, there is not much difference in obtaining information, and there is not much difference in family background.

Perhaps, when I was 18, I took the train for the first time and he traveled around the world since childhood. He and I won't be much different;

Perhaps, when I can't get the support of my family in everything I do, and his first bucket of gold is 800 thousand yuan from his family, I won't think he is much different from me;

Perhaps, when he is always optimistic about his future, and I am full of uncertainty about my future, I won't think he is much different from me;

However, when we are faced with the choice of life, I have no choice but to enter the workplace and become a gregarious animal. He can not only start a company, enter the workplace and study hard, but also continue his studies. His life is freer than mine. I admit it was really sour.

The gap between people is determined from birth, which is the reality of red fruit. Knowledge, resources and psychological strength are all factors that make this marathon easier or more difficult. But at the end of the article, I still want to say that even if our starting point is very low, please don't give up hope.