Dear, fate can only turn itself in the end.

Dear brother:

I'm in the third trimester, so tired! However, I am more tired. I spent more than six years with you, trying to influence you and correct my father's wrong influence on your education in 18. I see that your mentality is getting better and better, and your ability is getting stronger and stronger, thinking that I am close to success. When you were secretly happy, mom, you punched me again, and you thumped again. When we don't have enough money in our pockets to support us to eat, live and find a job peacefully, and we don't have a better job, we should relax when we resign! After all, you are not young … it's time to take responsibility for your life!

I was angry yesterday, but today I tried to put it down. I don't want to blame you anymore. The negative energy of the previous 18 years was so strong that I sometimes suffered from it. I just need to keep setting an example for your life. Although, if you resign willfully, I will make you calm in the near future, but as long as I love you, I will not give up on you!

Again, on your way home from kindergarten, you always refuse to carry your schoolbag and walk by yourself. Three years older than you, I am used to carrying a schoolbag or carrying you like I love you. ....

It's still like when you bullied me and my sister when I was a child. When my sister sued my dad, I couldn't help but protect you when you were beaten. You are so young, I love you as if I were afraid of your pain …

It's still like when you came to me in the sixth grade, and your classmates deliberately embarrassed you. I fought him like a hen protecting a chicken, and finally I won with such courage! Then you got into trouble again. You had a fight with your classmates. The other side is weak, not your opponent. I'm very sorry about that. I bought sour plum powder to apologize to him for you. I'm not angry that the gift of apology was thrown far away. But when his brother in my class wanted to hit you, I chose to cover my faults. My bravery finally protected you again. Although, for this reason, I also got the biggest "humiliation" in my life, because your classmate's brother got good grades in our class, and the class teacher cried and told his grievances, which was particularly painful. I don't know what he said, but the teacher believed it anyway. I was abused and beaten by the teacher in front of the whole sixth grade students. I always remember the way she called me a "vicious girl". I couldn't lift my head in my seat and cried for too long. I was too young to know what I had done wrong. I don't mean to hurt anyone, but I won't allow others to hurt you. How evil am I? However, I will be beaten for any excuse … forget it, don't mention the sad past again, otherwise, I can't help but wipe my tears again. But I have no regrets! Come again, love me, and I will choose again!

In short, I want to tell you that my life is very happy now, and I want to copy it all to you! I sincerely hope that you will have a bright future and be taken care of by fate. But did fate care for you on 18? I blame myself for seeing you make your life miserable, but I can't help you.

When you came to me, you were less than 18 years old, and you were about to graduate from senior three. Not to mention what university your grades went to, at least it should be easier to find a job with a diploma! But in the last few months, you have reached the point where you can't get along. You are a car-scrapping person with a knife around your neck. You are always fighting, either with a teacher who is particularly good at expressing humiliation or with classmates in the gang circle! Like a lonely hero, like a lonely knight! In short, in this muddled world, if you don't escape, at some point you will be completely disappointed with the world and determined to live and die. I'm afraid your life and death are uncertain!

You can stay at home and farm from now on. I'm glad you came to see me. Home is his "main battlefield" Our father is particularly good at criticizing and denying education. On the basis of never praising, he will always ask you to strive for better! Therefore, 18 years of criticism and denial, you have 18 years of painful struggle! Although you love each other deeply, you hurt each other more than your enemies!

You and I both come from the lower class, from an ordinary peasant family. After graduating from college, I have confidence and will never return to the peasant class again. Coupled with the efforts of a good boyfriend, we believe that we can struggle and take root in this city! Now, we have realized our original ideal, and we have struggled to become a small middle class in the city! As for you, you haven't graduated from high school, so it's hard to find a decent and well-paid job. Although you have no promising career in these six years, you may return to the starting point every minute. I don't want you to have such a fate. I hope you can have everything for me.

I still remember that I actually just graduated from college and just had a place to live, but the salary was not high and I couldn't take you in for a long time, so I think you'd better find a job first! At that time, your life was terrible. You lost your eyes long ago and fell asleep in your room every day. He is even very passive and lazy when looking for a job, so I found your first job for you! As an assistant stationmaster in a courier company, the salary is more than 3000. Although I have accumulated experience and ability, I still feel that being tied to "department-level civil servants" is not my ideal life. You persisted for more than a year.

Over the past year or so, I changed my job, doing medicine sales, and changed my situation, with a monthly salary of nearly ten thousand yuan. I imagine crazily that education is the best investment. Can senior four go back to school? Will learning change fate? Later, you listened to my arrangement, learned aerobics, went back to repeat school, and trained hard. However, you were in a bad mood at that time, and your own heart was always quarreling. Although you studied hard, you lost more than a year and had a poor foundation. We finally missed the opportunity to go to college. I didn't force you to go to college or anything. By this time, I have understood a little. It seems that after graduating from school, you are still the one with a bad attitude. What can you do?

I haven't finished reading the book, but I still have to get back to the real topic and find a job. At that time, I also changed my job. I don't like the job of pharmaceutical sales, and I don't feel valuable. I don't want to do it for any money. I started my own business. I was pregnant for four months and opened two powder shops. Although it was hard, I earned money and was full of energy. Once again, I asked my friend to find you a job as an "engineer" in a property company. When I have time, I will let you experience and participate in my entrepreneurial process. At that time, you didn't understand my painstaking efforts at all, and you gave up after a few days. You are not interested in opening a profitable powder shop.

At that time, I didn't want to care about you who let me down too much. This time, you found a job yourself and went to a friend who works as a property manager in Suzhou. This is like self-exile. Obviously, you want to come back in a few months. It happens that my good friends Yan Jie and Viagra have opened a set meal shop and need people. Moreover, they are husband and wife, with strong ability and good personality! I want to introduce my best friend to you and let their personality and talent influence you! So, I recommend you to work again, because the investment is huge, they need both workers and partners in the future, and you are over 24 years old, you need a career that can let you see the future! So, you work hard!

However, your shortcomings in getting along with others are exposed. You are too dedicated, your colleagues are too slack, you are too capable and your colleagues are too ordinary. You really want the steamed stuffed bun shop to do a good job, but everyone's rhythm is not as good as yours. You have a gun temper. Start shooting. Everyone around you accidentally fell down! Everyone is not used to you. However, Yan Jie and Viagra are tolerant of you, just as they can accept the advantages and disadvantages of everyone in the store. They are generous to you, accept your shortcomings, and always value your advantages more in their eyes. Even if you fight with their partners and shop assistants, they will not abandon you and will not give up! You often learn from them silently and watch them encourage employees with a good attitude and solve problems with excellent ability. I am surprised to find that your heart is slowly approaching their thinking. They started from scratch and are now worth millions. The most important thing is that they have a millionaire mind!

I am glad that I finally bumped into you by mistake, as if I invited you into the broad road of life, because today's work was very hard, but you did follow the right person, because the light of excellent and moral people blew into your heart ... Now that you are leaving, I can only sigh. .....

Dear brother, the future is still long, and I can't grasp your life experience. No matter how hard I try, it's useless. Your fate always depends on yourself. But I still want to make demands and hopes for you. The details are as follows, please remember!

First: Please try to find a job. The first thing is to make a down payment, stay in this city and be closer to your sisters. Although other people's homes allow brothers and sisters to wander around, they don't have to be close to each other to maintain family ties. However, my family is different. We love each other deeply and need each other. We should be close, participate in each other, help each other, keep warm with each other, and take care of our elderly parents together.

Second: You must strive to be a better person and keep learning. Sister sister found a truth of life to share with you. People who ultimately change their destiny always keep learning and their lives keep rising. And what you personally want to improve, your personality, your model, your ability. As for character, you are always good, and there is light on your pure and kind head. Love you forever!

? April 9, 1965 438+06