I am always worried that I and my husband will be bullied, and there is nowhere to reason.

In fact, this is not a particularly serious problem. Everyone's heart actually has many similarities. Some people are afraid of bugs, while others are afraid of night walking. It can be said that everyone has such and such fears, knowing that it's no big deal, but they just can't overcome it. You should know the subconscious. It always records what once impressed you, and then plays it in your mind like an image at a certain moment. You may be a little sensitive or you meet too many classmates, which makes your childhood mood too depressed! So it will have a greater impact on you in the future! But at that time, I was still young and didn't understand anything! Let bygones be bygones. Forgetting is not always easy. You need some patience. You also need to relax your mind, accept people around you, and forgive those ignorant children who bullied you in memory! Learn to adjust your emotions, enhance your endurance, and really get in touch with people around you, and you will find that they are not as fierce and indifferent as you think! Everyone has feelings, but they will only pay more feelings to the people they really associate with. If you always treat people with this attitude and dare not face it squarely, others will get farther and farther away from you! You should believe that if you associate with others with appreciation, others will feel your sincerity! I have never studied psychology! Maybe I walk more than you! I hope I can help you a little!