My boyfriend often cries for poverty to me. If I don't give him money, he will ignore me and say that I don't love him. What should I do?

Everyone has his own values and views on different things.

For example, girls earn money to support their families, and boyfriends watch their children do housework at home. Some girls may think this is good, which is exactly what they want to live independently. But there are also some girls who think that their husbands are really useless and have to support themselves! These two values are not right or wrong, but everyone's education and experience are different.

But I think what you said is serious, because I think in your boyfriend's heart, you are just his ATM.

In today's society, even though we strongly advocate equality between men and women, there are still many people who feel that it must be a shame for a boy to rely on his wife or girlfriend to support him. Just like my boyfriend, he always thinks it is natural for him to give me money to spend, but on the other hand, he thinks it is a shameful thing. These have nothing to do with dignity, self-esteem and gender. They are just a common social form.

You are still a student and have no independent financial resources, but your boyfriend can't help you improve your financial situation and often asks you for money. You have made it very clear that if you don't give it to him, you will still try your best to threaten you. I think there are a lot of tricks in this. After all, a person can't even support himself, and it's natural for his girlfriend to give him money to spend, which will inevitably lead to some problems.

Such a boyfriend, I think, you need to consider whether to continue.