Master Hui Chao: Life is already very difficult. Why do you have to work hard?

There is no shame in living at the bottom of society. What is shameful is the weak thinking of "making it difficult for each other".

-Master Hui Chao

Master Wen/Hui Chao

1, all the pain in life is "made" by oneself.

There is pain when people are alive, and this pain comes from the embarrassment between people.

In Buddhism, it is because people have three poisons in their hearts that they are driven to pursue the wrong things and do the wrong things.

In life, people are influenced by wrong values, and the painful thing is that people have always been entangled, that is, greed, ignorance and three poisons.

Those who like to make things difficult for others often want to make up for it because they have been made difficult by society too much.

This phenomenon is very common in life.

For example, in a property community, when the owners have a bad attitude towards the security guards, if they are not given a little dignity, the security guards will have a bad attitude towards the delivery of the house, or even be deliberately embarrassed. ...

A man who was angry outside, because he was unable to retaliate against the person who made him angry, would beat and scold his wife and children, kick the cat and scold the dog, and smash everything when he got home. This is a typical coward.

Someone is suddenly scolded by the leader, and when he returns to the office, he will scold his subordinates. This is a sign of lack of tolerance, but many so-called leaders do it.

Lu Xun's "Gai Hua Ji" once said: "The brave are angry and draw their swords at the strong; Cowards are angry, but they draw their swords at the weak. "

When a weak person is oppressed, he tends to vent his anger on the weaker person.

In recent years, there have been many incidents of deliberately cutting children and students, attacking the weak and retaliating against society, which fully proves that the fearful people in Lu Xun's novels choose to escape from those who are stronger than themselves, slash at the weak, and vent their resentment and dissatisfaction with this society by hurting innocent lives.

Some vicious incidents that happened before also followed this logic.

If we don't treat the weak well, we always take it out on them and leave them the darkest things. In the end, no matter how firm your position is, everyone will be hurt.

Only cowards can enjoy the pleasure of bullying the weak.

This not only can't solve the problem, but also tries to resolve his own defects in an emotional transfer way, which is a manifestation of incompetence.

As the saying goes, "people in the upper class praise others, people in the middle class ignore others, and people in the lower class trample on others."

The reason why people at the bottom of society always trample on each other is to survive in the cracks. They are closed, narrow-minded, short-sighted, vengeful and scheming, and the result is to trample on each other.

When a person lives for a living and is exhausted all day, it often produces all kinds of despicable behaviors and dark psychology.

For example, they are always afraid that others will live better than themselves, and even they will secretly plot against you.

There is a famous "crab law": anyone who has fished crabs knows that there is a crab in the bamboo basket. You must remember to cover it, otherwise it will climb out. But if you catch a few more and put them in, you don't need to cover them. No matter how hard you struggle, the crabs can't climb out.

The reason is that when there are more than two crabs in the basket, each one is scrambling to climb to the exit.

But when one crab climbs to the mouth of the basket, the other crabs will catch it with pliers and finally drag it to the lower floor, and another crab will climb on it. In this cycle, no crab can succeed.

This is the mentality of many people in society now: if I am unhappy, then I want to see others unhappy; If I can't climb up, I will also hold others so that others can't climb up.

Today, we have entered a "mutually harmful society", which is the so-called "mutually assured destruction society". Take our food for example, it has reached the point of "food insecurity" in our lives.

Facts have proved that counterfeiters in the food field will eventually reap the consequences. For example, those who sell "chemical beef" are likely to eat poisonous rice; The producer of poisoned rice made a fortune, raise your glass, but drank fake wine made of industrial alcohol; Employees of fake wine companies use melamine to buy milk powder for their children; Lunch cooked with "chemical beef" is being served in the canteen of milk powder enterprises. ...

In fact, it is not shameful to live at the bottom of society. It is shameful to think of those weak people who are "mutually embarrassed".

These people are restless and wary of each other, for fear that others will get there first, which further aggravates their vulgarity.

This is the fate of many people, and it is also the fundamental reason why such people always look sad.

4. Life is already hard, so why struggle?

In a word, society is made up of different people, everyone is an indispensable part of this society, and we all play different roles in society. Although the reality is always cruel, the partners living at the bottom are inevitably doing humble work and being discriminated against and ignored. But being at the bottom of society does not prevent us from having a high mode of thinking.

I hope to help others with our positive attitude, because helping others means helping ourselves. The so-called: give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance; Help others get rich and take credit for yourself.

In such a "mutual aid society", everyone can gradually gather popularity, help each other, learn from each other, climb to the top of the ladder and become social leaders.

Helping others is helping yourself. If I have the right to choose my own life, I will definitely choose to be perfect for each other.

Confucius said, "The beauty of a gentleman as an adult is not the evil of an adult."

Buddha said: planting good causes leads to good results, and planting evil causes leads to bad results; All laws are empty, and cause and effect are not empty; Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil, not without reward. Report it immediately.