Is the matchmaking agency reliable? Is it reliable to spend money to find someone?

Matchmaking depends on your own judgment. The following information is for your reference.

Many "golden leftover women" are not bad in their own conditions, but in fact their comprehensive ability is not bad. So why is it so hard to find a partner? Because the criteria and requirements for mate selection are inaccurate. I said there was no eye contact, but the real reason was that the other person didn't meet your expectations, right? Never met the right person. As I get older, my anxiety is getting stronger and stronger. Many people will choose to find a partner through a matchmaking agency.

In fact, whether it's self-knowledge, friends' introduction or old classmates' renewal, it's just a channel for choosing a spouse, and so is blind date. This thing itself exists to promote marriage, and there is no problem. But there are indeed many matchmaking agencies that will seize women's age anxiety to defraud them of their fees.

So is the matchmaking reliable? Today, the Lord's answer will tell you that as long as you can keep a clear judgment, this channel is no problem. Looking for a partner, not only insist, but also polish your eyes.

1. First of all, the criteria for mate selection should be clear.

Standards such as "talent", "humor" and "filial piety" are actually very vague. What is "talented"? Some boys feel that they are particularly talented and easy to be teachers. You can't help showing off when you see anyone. Would you appreciate such a man? What is a filial mother-in-law boy? Everyone listens to his mother and is especially filial. Can you accept such a mother-child relationship? So, all this is meaningless.

Secondly, the standard should not be too double standard. For example, "I earn more than 5w a month and don't often work overtime"; Spoiling girls and being self-motivated are contradictory. A person's energy is so much. How can you expect the other party to make money, have good economic conditions, and not let others work overtime, and have plenty of time to accompany you? These indicators will make your mate selection process very difficult.

At this time, a girl said: Answer the Lord, I am different. I don't have so many rules. As long as I meet a man who makes me move, nothing matters. This sounds reasonable, but I want to tell you that you are looking for a partner to live with in the future. How can you not know what you want? What's wrong with feelings and eyes? They have the highest divorce rate. Can this relationship last?

2. Follow the principle of reciprocity.

You are comparing, men are comparing, and you want to find someone taller than yourself. Don't men think so? The result is that those who like it don't like it, and those who like it despise you. Therefore, on the index of equivalence, you can set a suitable standard for yourself according to your own external, economic conditions and personality hobbies. That is to say, list all the indicators you want, and then choose the two most important ones.

Sometimes, choice is more important than hard work. Many standards that you think are essential, such as being handsome, tall and cheating, are of little use to marriage. It is better to choose a suitable and comfortable partner from the beginning. What we have to do is to choose the one that suits us best among the excellent people, instead of trying and making mistakes in the wrong people and exhausting ourselves physically and mentally.

If marriage is a matching game, then the most important thing is to sort out what you need and what you can't accept, and then filter it.

3. Plan the future and enhance personal value.

Invest in yourself to make yourself valuable, do something that can increase your value, and invest in your future.

Remember, what kind of partner you are looking for, you must have the values that match that man. At the same time, don't limit your social circle, always contact people for the purpose of finding someone, but shield your circle and make more friends with different ideas and ages; New friends will bring new resources and opportunities.