What should women do if they encounter domestic violence?

In case of domestic violence, women should: try to let others see it; Take photos to save the certificate and seek medical treatment in time; Alarm; Leave the abuser.

1, try to let others see it.

When suffering from domestic violence, domestic abusers often choose to commit violence in a closed private space, and outsiders cannot understand the incident. Please try to escape to the place where monitoring probes may be installed. After that, you can find the property to retrieve the video in the elevator and keep it properly as the most direct and powerful accusation evidence. Complain or seek help from the domestic abuser or his own unit, neighborhood Committee and other units.

2. Take photos, keep a certificate, and seek medical treatment in time.

If you can still move after the domestic violence has just ended, please take pictures of your injury immediately. At the same time, you can also take some pictures of the scene fighting and the objects used by the other party to do harm. Go to the hospital for examination in time, and keep medical records and injury identification.

Step 3 call the police

Alarm can play a deterrent role to the perpetrators. You can ask the police station to make a record of the injury, and it is best to do the injury identification. If the injury reaches the level of minor injury or above, the perpetrator has constituted a criminal offence, and the police may be required to file a case for intentional injury. If the police do not file a case, you can also take a decision not to file a case to the procuratorate for supervision.

Even if the injury does not reach minor injuries, at least a domestic violence alarm record will be left at the police station, which will be useful for filing civil lawsuits such as divorce, tort damages and personal safety protection orders in the future.

Step 4 Leave the perpetrator

If you are married, you can apply for a writ of habeas corpus or file a divorce lawsuit with the court. Domestic violence is one of the illegal acts. When dividing property, the wrongdoer shall be divided or divided less. You must know the law, and the law will give the victims justice.

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Common causes of female domestic violence silence

1, mental independence

Some women, inexplicably afraid of losing their marriage or living alone, always feel that having a husband, even if he is only nominal or often violent to himself, is better than nothing.

2. Too much scruples

The lesser of the two evils, some domestic violence men are just emotional violence. But at other times, I will always care about my wife. However, if a woman dares to resist-the result is even more unimaginable. He will redouble his efforts and will not stop until he reaches his goal. Women just endure it, and when they get vent, they will automatically stop.

3. Worried about the spread of "dirty clothes".

In particular, some economically dependent women are unwilling to exchange their own peace for broken families. This makes some victims prefer to submit to humiliation and submit to it rather than resort to law. Without charges, the judiciary can only be indifferent.

4. Weak in nature

Natural weakness is one of the characteristics shared by many women. For example, in making friends and choosing a spouse, a considerable number of women prefer to choose tall and strong men who are stronger than themselves in order to gain a sense of security and exclude emotional, interest and economic factors. Coupled with the long-term consciousness indoctrination in the patriarchal society, some women have confused the concepts of "male chauvinism" and "violence", and even subconsciously tend to be abused.

Weakness leads women to succumb to domestic violence, to the intimidation, threats and arrogance of the perpetrators, and they dare not resist. Some women still have the marriage concept of "following the dog when they marry" and "choosing their own path", and treat the unfortunate domestic violence marriage with a negative and inert fatalistic attitude.

5. Excessive tolerance

Admittedly, forbearance and tolerance play an extremely important role in maintaining marriage. I often listen to my elders and bear it, and my life will pass. However, in marriage, tolerance is not a panacea for all diseases. Some women, even though their husbands "keep mistresses" and "keep mistresses" and frequently commit domestic violence against themselves, still submit to humiliation silently, which is "excessive tolerance". For women who endure domestic violence, strong endurance is precisely one of the fatal weaknesses.

Step 6 deceive oneself and others

Almost all abusers will regret it soon after the violence. At this time, he will admit his mistake, apologize and sweet talk with his wife. This rare warmth will make women have an illusion that this man loves me. He only hit me because he loved me too much and cared about me too much. He won't hit me again. So forgive and make up until the next time you are beaten. This cycle, over time, slowly numb, silently bear, lose the will and motivation to resist.