Ode to Joy: How can a heartless Qiu Yingying become a winner in life?

The five girls living in Ode to Joy Community come from different families, with different life experiences and different temperament. Together, they grew from strangers to good sisters.

Of the five girls, I like Qiu Yingying. He is honest and a little reckless. I believe that in the eyes of many people, she is the most common one. She graduated from an unknown university, has no family background, is plain, and is very manic in Mao Mao.

But it is such a small earthworm that is closest to most of us in reality. A girl in a small city, struggling in the bustling Shanghai, stood firm by her own efforts and gained happiness.

Qiu Yingying represents a nobody at the bottom of society. I like her because I found some of my own shadows in her.

0 1 Stupid and naive, trying to love, but being betrayed and hurt.

Qiu Yingying is a silly and naive girl, and her simplicity is a bit excessive. After graduating from college, she was a rookie, as simple as a blank sheet of paper. She is simple, so she thinks that others and the world are as simple as her. She is careless and never defends people's hearts.

Like all girls, Qiu Yingying is looking forward to meeting a prince charming and starting a vigorous love.

Her first boyfriend is a colleague of the company, director Bai. She thought she met the only thrill, but in fact she was just a hideous man.

The strange bird once tested Bai's boss and saw the essence of this person in a test. Although Xiao Qu-Kong's practice is not appropriate, it is all for the best, but Qiu Yingying, who can't say clearly, is ungrateful at all. He also thinks that Xiao Qu Kong wants to poach the poacher.

Perhaps, the IQ of the woman in love is too low, so she quickly moved out of Ode to Joy and moved in with director Bai. However, the good times didn't last long, and I found that Director Bai was duplicitous and broke up in discord.

How many girls, like Qiu Yingying, fell madly in love with someone regardless of their parents' opposition and friends' advice, only to find that it was not others' fault, but their own choice, and regretted it, but they could not start over.

I hope every girl can keep a cool head when choosing the other half and look at the man in front of her with an objective and neutral position. No blind fantasy, no self-deception.

When life closes a door for you, it often opens another window for you.

Plato once said, if you love, please love deeply, if you don't, please leave. Meeting and parting is the most decent parting gesture.

However, Director Bai does not intend to stop there. He made things difficult for Qiu Yingying everywhere in his work and took personal revenge. In a rage, in front of all his colleagues, he told the bad behavior of Director Bai in detail. The two men completely torn their faces, and finally both were dismissed by the company.

It is said that love is frustrated and the workplace is proud. Qiu Yingying is facing the double blow of lovelorn love and unemployment. Sad, she can only attend job fairs and find a new job.

With an ordinary undergraduate degree, it is not easy to find a suitable job in Shanghai. Hit a wall again and again, only to see Director Bai successfully apply for a new job. In front of everyone, Qiu Yingying told the employer that Director Bai had made false accounts and got a slap in the face.

But fate sometimes turns around, which is subtle. The owner of an upscale coffee shop admired Qiu Yingying's hatred of evil and dared to reveal the truth, and decided to hire her.

Therefore, when life encounters setbacks and failures, don't give up easily, but move on with a brave and positive attitude. Maybe the new hope is around the next corner. When life closes a door for you, it often opens a window for you.

To grow up quickly in the workplace, don't rely on the help of others, you can only rely on yourself.

Qiu Yingying joined the coffee shop smoothly, but her career path was not smooth.

Although this is her second job, she is still a newcomer who knows nothing because of her completely different types of work. Without any basic knowledge of coffee, she can only learn from scratch.

Like all entry procedures, on the first day of work, the direct leader showed Qiu Yingying the company regulations and basic job responsibilities, and then colleagues introduced her to the basic classification of coffee and coffee machines. When Qiu Yingying wanted to ask a question, the other party simply said, "I'm busy." .

This is the workplace, everyone has their own work to do, no one can take the trouble to answer your questions and puzzles, and the answer to the questions can only be found by themselves.

Qiu Yingying needs to be familiar with all the knowledge related to coffee in three days. In order to remember the taste and characteristics of each coffee, she can only taste it cup by cup and work overtime. She also seized the opportunity to propose to her boss to open an online coffee shop and volunteered to take on the responsibility of managing the online shop alone.

Under the management and operation of Qiu Yingying, the performance of online shopping has soared, and she has been further appreciated and recognized by the leaders. I got a year-end bonus because of my excellent work.

There is always a reward for hard work, and the boss will see it in his eyes. As a person in the workplace, instead of constantly complaining about low wages, it is better to improve their working ability and speak with strength and performance.

Everyone who gets along well in the workplace used to be a white boy in the workplace. Who didn't grow up all the way? People still have to rely on themselves after all.

Meeting is always beautiful, but only after running-in and baptism can feelings be more resilient and firm.

People are divided into groups, and what kind of people you are will naturally attract, and so will love. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

Qiu Yingying, who devoted herself to her work, not only shined brilliantly in her post, but also met love at work.

Qiu Yingying's second boyfriend, Qin Ying, is a programmer in a well-known IT company. He is calm and a little shy. He bought a house and a car in Shanghai by his own efforts. The two hit it off and their relationship developed smoothly. However, at a party, Qin Ying learned that Qiu Yingying was not a virgin, turned away in disgust, broke up with Qiu Yingying, and soon got engaged to someone else.

From the TV series, in real life, some people have encountered the same problem in love, and everyone gives different answers. Qin Ying decided to break up with Qiu Yingying just because she was not a virgin, which was too hasty and arbitrary.

Come to think of it, no one can guarantee that you can successfully enter the marriage hall only once in your life. Often before meeting the right person, everyone has had a failed love experience.

In the love affair with director Bai, I was infatuated with only one person all my life, but I paid the wrong reward. She is also a victim of feelings, so she can't be judged to be an unruly and out-of-line girl.

Qin Ying discovered Qiu Yingying's kindness only after his engagement. Qiu Yingying is kind-hearted, untalented and considerate of others everywhere. And his so-called fiancee tried her best to get benefits from him, and brought a large group of relatives to Qin Ying's home to ask for her name to be added to the real estate license.

On the one hand, she is a rude fiancee; on the other hand, she is a kind and simple Qiu Yingying. Qin Ying regretted it and took the initiative to find Qiu Yingying to get back together. It's just troublesome. They were beaten up on a date. Qin Ying protected Qiu Yingying, and both of them were injured and admitted to the hospital.

After this incident, two people who almost missed each other saw each other's sincerity and were able to renew their friendship.

The beginning of every relationship is always beautiful and romantic, so that's why the poet said, "Life is just like seeing it for the first time". Everyone wants to keep fresh and lock in the moment of heartache, but we have to face the problems in our feelings.

In fact, every question is a test and an opportunity to draw closer to each other's hearts. The so-called soul mate is not a lifetime of not quarreling, but crying, quarreling, quarreling, or choosing to be together.

Marriage is not the grave of love, but the continuation and sublimation of love.

When I was young, I always thought that marriage and love were between two people. When people reach middle age, they have to admit that marriage is between two families.

In marriage, there is not only the relationship between husband and wife, parents and children, but also the most difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Qin Ying's mother looked down on Qiu Yingying from the beginning, thinking that she was a girl with moral and moral problems. Until her parents met to discuss the marriage, she was still prejudiced against Qiu Yingying.

This seems to have planted a time bomb for the chapter of married life. Fortunately, after marriage, Qin Ying's parents will stay in their hometown and will not live with Qiu Yingying and Qin Ying.

In fact, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should get along like ordinary friends, not too distant or too close, respect and understand each other, and don't expect too much from each other, so as to live in harmony.

At the end of the plot, Qiu Yingying not only tied the knot with Qin Ying, but also was promoted to the manager of a coffee shop, which can be said to be the double pride of love and career.

What did Qiu Yingying grow up on? I think she relies on the simplicity and momentum in her bones. Because of simplicity, I have been hurt; Because of simplicity, I got a job opportunity and appreciation; Also because of simplicity, I captured my lover's heart.

An ordinary girl in a small town has finally gained a foothold in the vast Shanghai. Along the way, she had bitterness and tears, but also had good sisters who never gave up, had emotional betrayal and separation, and finally gained a happy life.