Why do most parents prefer to let their children go to three books rather than let their children learn a skill?

Tell the truth, you can learn skills at any time, but not necessarily when you go to an undergraduate course.

Undergraduate courses and skills are only cultivated in different directions, but they are all for future development.

Undergraduate course is a major, which is far more difficult than ordinary skills.

General skills, such as car repair, computer repair, TV, refrigerator, mobile phone electrician and so on, are mostly crash courses, which can be learned in a few months, and you can learn as needed without a diploma. Can undergraduate students study on demand?

Learning skills doesn't have to be a college entrance examination. The college entrance examination is the dream of many people.

Although the enrollment is now expanded, less than 60% of them can go to high school, and the remaining 40% can learn skills.

Society needs all kinds of talents, both skilled talents and high-tech talents, rather than cultivating a single talent.

Who doesn't want their children to go to college? This is also the reason why most parents would rather attend three books. For those who have attended three books and can get a master's degree, but have never attended a university (not attending three books), it is more difficult for you to get a master's degree than heaven.

What the subject said is about taking three universities and going to vocational high schools, right? ! If the hypothesis is true, there are many factors that lead to this situation.

1. The mode of cultivating talents by relying on universities has a long history and is deeply rooted in people's hearts. This is also recognized by the public as the road to success. In people's eyes, this is "learning to be an excellent official", that is, to be the number one scholar, carp yue longmen.

Vocational education is a "new thing". Due to the weak industrial base and backward industrial level in China, the training mechanism for skilled workers is not perfect, or the training level is not high. Therefore, most of the trained technical personnel are engaged in basic rough machining. Because the technical content is not high, this kind of work is done well even without going to vocational high school.

Moreover, this kind of work is far from the leisure of "a cup of tea and a newspaper a day" in people's minds, and it is not an ideal job for people. The deep-rooted inertia thinking over the years has made people disapprove of vocational education.

2. Social talent selection preference is at work. Under the current talent selection mechanism, three universities can apply for the civil service recruitment examination and career establishment, while vocational education should be unqualified. This invisible "discrimination" also makes parents and students stay away from learning skills in vocational high schools.

In fact, vocational education and learning skills are more forced by reality when they are cold. After all, parents and students should first consider whether they can learn the skills to make a living, whether they are admitted to three universities or learn a skill. If the talent selection mechanism in our society allows people with skills and knowledge to have equal opportunities for competition, if the technology learned in vocational high schools is high-tech, if …… I believe parents and students will not be disgusted with learning skills.

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This is a question of ideas. Three mixed degrees are also undergraduate, and you can still take the civil service exam. No matter whether you pass the exam or not, you must be qualified to take the exam. Unfortunately, most students failed in the exam, and few fought back, but parents didn't think so. In fact, in the long run, learning a popular technology in vocational and technical colleges may be unprofitable and hard at the beginning after graduation, but after a certain period of tempering, you will either become the technical backbone of the unit or do it yourself. These majors include cooking, automobile maintenance, mold design and so on!

This question is very realistic. You can study it carefully before writing a paper. To put it simply, there are two reasons: 1. Compared with the mature vocational education system abroad, China's vocational education started late, the quality of education and teaching is not high, the strength and quality of teachers are generally low, and their social status is not high, which is bound to be recognized by parents and society. 2, the reality of employment. Reality does not allow parents to risk their children's future. At present, the job market is dominated by academic qualifications, and three of them are undergraduates. However, without an undergraduate degree, it is difficult to find a job and the basic threshold cannot be reached.

Why do most parents prefer to let their children go to three books rather than let their children learn a skill?

Since ancient times, people think that they want their children to succeed and live a happy life. College entrance examination is the fairest and quickest way to select talents, and it is also the most convenient way for farmers' children to turn over. Therefore, if everything is lost, parents should give their children a better education.

Every year, the number of people who can be admitted to key universities in the college entrance examination is limited, and many students have poor test scores and can only barely attend three colleges and universities. However, the fees of the three colleges and universities are quite high, and the annual tuition is more than 10 thousand yuan, which is astronomical for ordinary peasant families. Many families can't afford four years' tuition. So, will they let their children give up their studies? Of course not. Even if it is a loan, they will let their children continue their studies instead of letting them learn a skill.

Why on earth is this? Personally, I think it is mainly due to the following reasons:

First, education is becoming more and more important. In modern society, the requirements for education are getting higher and higher. Many enterprises require a bachelor's degree, which makes college students less and less competitive in finding jobs. Being admitted to three colleges and universities can also be regarded as the improvement of children's academic qualifications and more job opportunities.

Although the three universities are worse than key universities, as long as they study hard, study professional knowledge hard, communicate with teachers more, and want to learn from seniors and expand their contacts. After four years of hard work, I believe I can find a good job after graduation.

Second: you can take an examination of public institutions or public posts. At present, when recruiting public institutions and public posts, the minimum education is undergraduate education, and there are few posts assigned to junior college students. Many people want to apply for the work of public institutions since childhood, thinking that public institutions are jobs of iron rice bowls and jobs that many people envy. Now in the countryside, if you work in a public institution, it is also very embarrassing.

Many people want to take an undergraduate course because they want to take an examination of public institutions, that is, to mix an undergraduate course. During their college years, they also muddled along and spent four years in college. Just to get a bachelor's degree in the end, and go directly to the institution after getting a bachelor's degree. Most of these people have backgrounds, just to get a bachelor's degree and work in the system.

Third: learning skills is not the top priority. You can learn skills at any time, but a bachelor's degree is not necessary. If you miss this undergraduate opportunity, it's hard to say whether there will be another opportunity in the future. Therefore, we must seize the opportunity of this undergraduate course to improve our academic qualifications.

Learning skills do not distinguish between time periods. You can learn skills as long as you have time. Ten years ago, if you had a skill, you could find a job that everyone envied. At present, learning skills are not as popular as before. Skills alone are not enough. You must have a degree to find a good job.

In a word: education is becoming more and more important now. Without a bachelor's degree, it is difficult to find a good job. A bachelor's degree is a stepping stone to finding a job. To find a decent job, you must have a bachelor's degree, and some jobs even have a bachelor's degree. Skills are not as popular as they were then, so most parents would rather let their children read three books than learn one skill.

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Every parent has his own ideas. I think if I can, I still have to take three exams, so that I don't have to suffer from academic qualifications when I come out to find a job in the future. I was a junior college student at that time. I worked in a public institution for several years after graduation. For various reasons, I left my job and then went out to look for a job. I have browsed a lot on the recruitment website, all of which require a bachelor's degree and then have work experience. I submitted a lot of resumes, and they all sank into the sea. I'm depressed. From graduation to now, I am used to laziness and have no work experience. It's too difficult to find a job, especially this year's epidemic. It's not easy, so I think it's better to go to three books if I have the ability. Of course, if you have connections at home, you can still go to a junior college. You can arrange a job as soon as you leave school. Education is not that important, but an undergraduate course is still worse than a post 100 yuan. I have a deep understanding. Parents have the foresight to try their best to send their children to a good school.

With the increasingly fierce employment competition, it will become more and more common for college students to find jobs. For children, having a professional skill is far more useful than several diplomas. It is most practical to say that a scholar is the best in his major. Many parents always think that children can honor their ancestors even if they have only three college diplomas, which is foolish thinking. With the development of social manufacturing industry, China is becoming a manufacturing power and even a powerful country in the world, and the gap of professional and technical talents is still very large. Therefore, having a diploma from a famous university is not as good as having a professional skill to serve the society, which will be recognized by many parents.

Parents would rather let their children go to three books than learn a skill. This phenomenon is caused by social reality and vanity.

The first is employment. I have worked in enterprises (central enterprises) within the system and know the employment system of these enterprises. These enterprises have a standard when recruiting personnel: bachelor degree or above. This recruitment standard keeps the children who "learn a skill" out of the door, because they usually graduate from higher vocational colleges or vocational and technical schools, not undergraduate degrees. And three books, although the undergraduate course is the worst, are still undergraduate courses. Even if enterprises are recruited into the system because of expanding the scope of recruitment, there are still great differences in the definition of identity: undergraduates are cadres and can be promoted if they perform well, while graduates from higher vocational colleges and vocational and technical schools are not cadres and cannot be promoted in principle. Except for special circumstances, most of them are lifelong workers.

The popular civil service examination in today's society also requires a bachelor's degree or above, and those without this degree are still rejected.

Secondly, from the perspective of a person's growth and development. At present, in China's education system, children with three degrees can continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination and take exams later, but children who graduate from higher vocational colleges and vocational and technical schools do not have this opportunity.

Finally, parents' vanity and face-saving thoughts are at work. I think other people's children are in college and have a bright future. My children are studying in higher vocational colleges and vocational and technical schools, and I feel very humiliated and inferior.

The above reasons have caused the situation of "reading three books without learning one skill".

Want to know what skills children learn? What skills are worth learning now? Even if you have skills to learn, who can settle down and spend decades polishing their skills in the era of quick money? Besides, if you learn this skill well, can you guarantee that you will need it for a long time?

A, turning, milling, grinding, planing, forging these craftsman skills? Regardless of whether these skills can be learned well, where can they be used even if they are learned? Working as a worker on the construction site, many of them are temporary workers. Although sometimes the salary is ok, what about their social status? You want to go to a state-owned enterprise. Sorry, you can't get in without a degree, or are you a worker's child? So will you learn these craftsman skills?

Second, computer hardware skills? These are really not skill bars, and the computer city has long been flooded. Computer software skills? You really need to go to an undergraduate course and at least learn some theoretical knowledge, so that you can go further. Besides, software engineers need a degree in the future, and you have to teach yourself an undergraduate course.

Third, many manufacturing industries in society are mechanized now. What are the skills? Building a car? Architectural furniture? It's really hard to find people who need skills except a few who need to make them by hand.

Life is short, undergraduate life is also an experience, and a person is incomplete without college experience.

Without education, so far, you have been declared out of a decent job, and your marriage and fertility will be affected.

To sum up, you will know why people should read three books instead of learning skills.

Why? You have to admit that students who study three books in college and learn one skill are not the same in the future!

What is the difference? Going to three universities has the possibility of "career", while learning a skill can only make a living, thus losing political future.

According to the tradition of China people, we have always believed in the thoughts and beliefs of "everything is inferior, only reading is high" and "glorifying ancestors"! The so-called "one person gets the word, chickens and dogs ascend to heaven"! So as to seek and realize their political ambitions.

Influenced by such a big environment, coupled with the current realistic requirements, without a minimum undergraduate degree, a person's future and destiny will indeed change in reality.

Without a bachelor's degree, you will miss the civil service examination, which is almost certain. Even ordinary enterprises and institutions are not qualified to apply for the exam. What's more, even a slightly famous individual company will make people stay away from it.

This is indeed the case. Don't talk about entering the national unit. At present, some ordinary companies require job seekers to provide college education or above, otherwise job seekers can't pass this first threshold.

Seeking truth from facts, it is not easy to get into college. I have been studying for ten years, starting from a three-year-old child in Mao Mao and going to college. I don't know how many exams I have gone through and how much sleep I have lost before I can get the little red book!

After studying in the university, I have a broader mind and vision, and there is more room for personal expansion. For a job seeker, the greater the space for personal expansion, the more directions for choosing a job.

After the last three books, the career choice is still very broad, and almost everything is possible. As mentioned above, you can apply for almost any counterpart or non-counterpart civil servants and institutions. If there were no positions in government departments, there would be thousands of positions in various companies, large and small, because after going to college, the continuity of various occupations is comprehensive.

To learn a skill, there is little room for choice, and you can only choose a job in a limited and single space, which will make people feel very wronged.

Skills will change over time. Some skills will become completely useless in the future. For example, the former groom, that is, the driver of the carriage, is now transported by car, but if he can ride a horse, what else can he do besides having fun? In other words, skills will one day disappear with the development of science and technology.

It's not that learning a skill is not good, but that there is really little room for a person's unfinished job search direction and career choice.

If you have a haircut, you can only have a haircut. What can you do if you don't do it? Of course, he can choose to be a security guard, cleaning, site coolie and other occupations with low skill nature.

This is a comparative question! There will always be differences in society, and society also needs all kinds of skilled talents.

The future needs skilled talents, but with the progress of science and technology, the future needs compound technical talents!

Compared with high probability, as for how to choose, it's up to you! what do you think?