? Single businesswomen are frequently cheated of money and color.

A recent survey by reporters found that women entrepreneurs are also "vulnerable groups". Li Ming, director of the Mental Health Care Center of Shenzhen Health Care Association, told the reporter that in his psychological consultation, many female entrepreneurs confided to psychologists their distress of finding true love but being cheated repeatedly. Some typical cases are incredible, but they are thought-provoking.

The "general manager" has difficulty in cash flow.

Ms. Yan, a middle-aged single woman, is the owner of a hardware factory in Shenzhen. In 2009, she met Cai, general manager of a construction engineering company in Guangzhou. "Mr. Cai" claimed to be a fellow villager with Ms. Yan, asked about Ms. Yan's situation, and told her to come from Guangzhou with medicine and fruit when she caught a cold. "Mr. Cai" revealed to Ms. Yan that although she has a successful career, she has been divorced for many years and is eager for a warm home. Moved by his enthusiasm, Ms. Yan fell in love with her in-depth communication and agreed to the request of "Director Cai" to spend a "small life" with Ms. Yan in her villa in Shenzhen every weekend.

Happiness didn't last long. "Mr. Cai" told Ms. Yan that she had a project with an investment of tens of millions of yuan, and the capital turnover was difficult. Considering that she and Mr. Cai are about to get married, Ms. Yan extended a helping hand of 700,000. In the next two months, "Mr. Cai" took care of Ms. Yan in every way, but borrowed 1 10,000 yuan of "emergency working capital" from Ms. Yan under various excuses. 20 10 at the end of may, "manager Cai" suddenly disappeared. Ms. Yan called him to turn off his phone and went to Guangzhou to find his construction engineering company, only to find that this company did not exist at all.

Hire a "daughter" to cheat.

Since a man named "Who will spend the rest of my life with me" added "Yan Yan" (net name) as a friend on QQ, this "senior engineer" who claimed to be a Beijinger quickly broke into her real life from the illusory cyberspace. Yan Yan, a 40-year-old female boss of ore, has been living alone with her son since her husband died.

One day in June 2008, a stranger named "Who will accompany me all my life" wanted "Yanyan" to add him as a friend. This man introduced himself as Wang Qiang, a Beijinger, aged 39, divorced for many years, a senior engineer, who has projects in several cities in Guangdong and wants to find a lifelong partner. At first, "Yanyan" just chatted with him. Later, Wang Qiang asked "Yan Yan" why she often went offline. "Yan Yan" truthfully replied that her business was busy and she needed to travel frequently. Wang Qiang offered to exchange phones with Yan Yan. After several "telephone congee", Wang Qiang became familiar with "Yan Yan". Wang Qiang complained that two workers were killed in an accident at his construction site, and each of them had to pay 380,000 yuan. But his cash flow is difficult. Yan Yan felt abrupt and refused Wang Qiang's request to borrow money. A few days later, Wang Qiang said that he had collected all the money by himself.

Soon, Yan Yan, who had just returned from a business trip, got a call from Wang Qiang and asked her to go downstairs immediately. Yan Yan saw a tall man standing beside a brand-new Lexus. Wang Qiang said he took "Yan Yan" to Qingyuan for dinner. Along the way, Wang Qiang drove to a construction site and told Yan Yan that there was his project there. In an upscale community, Wang Qiang brought out a 6-year-old girl, said she was his daughter, and pointed to "Yan Yan" and said to the little girl, "Come, call' Mom'!" The little girl's cleverness touched "Yan Yan", and she accepted Wang Qiang in her heart.

Wang Qiang and "Yan Yan" are no longer strangers, and then they borrow money from her for various reasons, ranging from 120,000 to hundreds of thousands, and * * * borrowed 700,000 back and forth. In June 5438+10, Wang Qiang agreed to take "Yan Yan" back to her hometown for the New Year. Yan Yan suddenly couldn't get through to Wang Qiang. "Yan Yan" doesn't believe that she has worked hard in society for so many years. How can she not recognize a liar? However, when she reported the case to the police, she could only provide two clues: Wang Qiang's QQ number and the disabled person's mobile phone number. Five months later, the police arrested "Wang Qiang" in Guizhou-his real identity turned out to be a farmer in Guizhou with a fifth grade education. His Lexus car and house are rented, and even his "daughter" is paid for. Besides "Yan Yan", Wang Qiang also defrauded another woman of more than 200,000 yuan in the same way.

Nanny turned out to be the original husband.

Compared with Ms. Yan and "",the experience of Ms. Yao, the female boss of a clothing factory, is even more jaw-dropping. 1999, Ms. Yao met Cao at the investment promotion meeting. The two got along well and soon began to live together. Because Cao concealed the fact that he got married in his hometown from Ms. Yao, the two sides waited until Cao got the certificate needed for marriage in 2002 before officially "getting married". In 2004, Ms Yao gave birth to their son Xiao Wei. Cao introduced Liu Moujuan, a fellow villager, to the Yao family as a nanny.

One day in 2008, when Ms. Yao came home, she suddenly found her son Xiao Wei missing and her safe was ransacked. Even the huge amount of property in the bank was transferred away in a month. Ms. Yao called her husband Cao in a panic, and the other party's mobile phone was always turned off. Nanny Liu Moujuan also lost news with the father and son. Ms. Yao felt that things were not good and quickly reported the case to the police station. After being detected by the public security organs, Ms. Yao learned that she had been arrested by Cao for a long time. Nanny Liu Moujuan is actually Cao's original match. Cao and his wife not only absconded with money, but also kidnapped Ms. Yao's son born to Cao.

Expert: Strong women should walk into each other's lives.

Li Ming, director of the Mental Health Center of Shenzhen Health Care Association, said that career success cannot fill the gap in the emotional life of "strong women". As a woman, they also have sensitive, depressed, lonely and fragile hearts under the strong and decisive appearance. If female entrepreneurs encounter financial fraud, there must be the following reasons: First, they choose the wrong image in financial management; The second is to find * * * derailment; The third is to believe in rhetoric; Fourth, everything is for children; Fifth, overconfidence; Sixth, I am busy with work and can't recognize the real situation of men. To crack a man's malice, we must resolutely enter a man's life circle; Second, most men who borrow money from you soon after meeting are liars.

Li Ming explained that all women, including female entrepreneurs, were cheated because they didn't enter each other's life circle, but the other side came into my life from one direction: he visited my home, but I didn't know where the other side's home was; He knows my friends and colleagues, but there are always various reasons to refuse me to know the people around him. Therefore, women in love should pay attention to their parents, brothers and sisters, friends and fellow villagers, as well as business partners, and even go to his community to consult security guards and cleaners to get to know him.