Are people with low EQ and high IQ doomed to failure?

I read an article about people's EQ and IQ the other day, which said: People with high EQ and IQ are proud of the spring breeze; People with high IQ and low EQ have no talent; People with low IQ and high EQ help each other; People with low IQ and low EQ accomplish nothing. I have always really agreed with this concept. For a while, I always felt that I was the person with low emotional intelligence.

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Many years ago, when I left my company to work in Xinjiang, I was really lonely and sad because of my low emotional intelligence. At that time, I was working in the laboratory of a factory producing building ceramics. At that time, I was still holding a rare diploma for college graduation. Although it is not a corresponding major, on the whole, the staff in the whole laboratory at that time were not only diplomas, but also working ability.

It should be said that only I can take it down from the identification or testing of raw materials, the template making of ceramic printing and the color blending of blank glaze. Relevant leaders also know my ability, and even the leaders in charge of technology invited from Jiangxi with high salary every month 15000 also recognize my efforts and spirit of research. The master in charge of printing equipment invited from Guangzhou also pointed out that the printing screen I made is better and more durable than that bought from a well-known domestic screen company like Guangzhou Jinwang.

Not only in terms of technology, but also after the production is stopped every winter, I will participate in the accounting and sort out the year-end summary of the director of the ceramic factory. However, it has nothing to do with me when I promote ordinary employees to be leaders and when I get rich economic rewards.

Especially once, someone told me privately that the head office would hold a meeting of middle-level cadres and the leaders should consider promoting me to middle-level cadres. For people with high emotional intelligence, this is undoubtedly an opportunity. Through certain operations, they will immediately enter the middle level. But for me, apart from work, I don't know what to do, giving gifts to the leaders. I don't know what to send and how to send it. To show loyalty? Put in a good word? I couldn't kill myself, so I missed my chance without taking action.

For the above things, I want to work with me and get money without me, which all comes down to my low emotional intelligence. Therefore, in the case that I am unable to change the status quo and gain more appreciation, I decided to give up my job in a state-owned enterprise in order to better exert my fists and earn more benefits.

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The factory in Xinjiang introduced by my friend also produces building ceramics. Officially went to work in early 2005. At that time, I worked in a local ceramic factory with a monthly salary of about 600 yuan, and I often had to work overtime after eight hours. The salary offered by my new work unit is 3000 yuan, and my job is to make the printing screen needed in the production line.

At that time, 3,000 yuan was definitely a high salary. If you want to mix colors, 5000 to 10000 yuan is enough. But relatively speaking, making silk screen printing is a relatively independent job. Simple and easy to do. Considering that my emotional intelligence is not high, I choose this job that is easier to control by myself.

The company is a private enterprise run by Wenzhou people in Zhejiang Province, and is jointly invested by ten bosses. When I arrived at the unit, I found that the equipment in the factory was very backward, which was far from the equipment in my previous work unit. And someone told me that before me, the factory had hired experts in this field because there was no way to operate these broken machines.

But it didn't scare me. I think all equipment that makes the same product must have the same scientific principle. I listed the required materials and requirements to the relevant bosses in the factory, and soon figured out how to use these antique equipment. According to the boss's request, I formalized my work in advance.

In this way, my name soon spread to several other similar manufacturers, and the boss in the company stopped driving to other manufacturers to order the patterns needed in the production line because my work was progressing smoothly, just brought me various pictures and gave me a list of the varieties and quantities produced. The boss, the master in charge of printing equipment in the workshop and the master in color matching are all relaxed and happy because of the durability and stable quality of the template.

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With the growth of time, my work has become more and more skilled, and with the gradual accumulation on weekdays, my leisure time has increased. According to the initial agreement between the company and me, I only do my own work, and the rest has nothing to do with me. As long as the production line has a screen version according to the established model, I can move freely at any time, watch TV, go shopping, surf the Internet, sleep and do private work.

"Qiu, watching TV so early? Your salary is so high, and your work is really easy! " The chairman's wife came and sat next to me, with a little discomfort in her tone. I just smiled and said nothing.

"Qiu, there is something wrong with today's kiln. If you do well, help on the production line. "

"Qiu, your sweater is really beautiful. Help me knit one when you are free. "

In this way, everyone asked me to help in my spare time. I personally and the factory have never refused. I thought this low EQ self was being slowly accepted by ten bosses in the factory. I have met the requirements of every boss and family for several years.

This is one day after I officially started work for two months. Because of the hardness of water, the gas boiler in the factory exploded. At that time, such a boiler needed 300 thousand, while the explosive boiler only took more than a year. After the new boiler was installed, the chairman found me. "Qiu, it is obvious to all that you are very serious and responsible for your work, and your technology is good. Now that the new boiler has been installed, I think your work will be easier. Just help me add salt on time every day, do a water quality test, and add 100 yuan to you every month, okay? "

"One hundred dollars, what can I do?" I thought about it in my mind, but I promised him at once. As he said, I am idle. It is also a principle that I have always followed, convenient for others and convenient for myself.

"Qiu, why don't you also clean the office? I'll give you another 200 yuan every month. " The chairman found me again.

To tell the truth, cleaning the office is not a trivial matter. There are several large sample racks in the office of ten people. Cleaning these sample racks every day is a big project, and there are ten dormitory walkways outside. It takes a long time and energy to clean them.

But I accepted it!

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I worked in this factory for five years, and the efficiency of the factory ranked first among more than a dozen factories nearby at that time. The output is the highest, and the product quality is far ahead because of the small color difference.

Last year, I bought a computer. After buying the computer, I realized that the factory in the suburbs had not popularized the Internet. The factory has a special line, and it is impossible for me, a small migrant worker, to pull the special line anyway. After consulting with several bosses, I connected the network cable to the Internet in the office.

One day, the internet speed was too fast, and the chairman went to the office to find out the reason. He saw a network cable connected to my room and cut it from the middle with a click! I just found out that although I have paid so much labor, I have not been rewarded.

Not to mention the office that 800 yuan cleaned in other factories. I only took a boiler that burned for four years for 200 yuan a month 100 yuan. As for my work, the boss also forgot the master I hired before. They paid their own labor, thinking that I could finish the work in two or three hours every day, and so could another person. So when I put down the mop and gave up adding salt, the chairman and his wife always looked like they were going to fire me.

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After the new year, I went to another city, another manufacturer, with a salary of 5000. However, the original factory's screen boards made by the newly hired master are too colorful, not durable and in a mess, not to mention wasting more than 1000 yuan of materials every day. Master is too busy day and night to meet the needs of production. The bosses began to call me one after another and wanted to invite me back, but the new factory ushered in its first productive and effective year.

Pregnancy is really like pregnancy. The moon is full and the weight is enough. Even if this person's EQ is negative, it can't cover up his protruding belly. In the future, in this more efficiency-oriented society, if you are really talented, you are not afraid of not being satisfied. What you are afraid of is that you have no talent. On the other hand, I think emotional intelligence will become insignificant.