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A 70-year-old man writes a 19 page blind date guide to his granddaughter.

Source: Huashang Daily 20 13-06- 15 03:30

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Mr. Yuan, 70, described the criteria for choosing a spouse for his granddaughter.

Original title: 70-year-old grandfather wrote a 19 page "blind date guide" to his 2 1 year-old granddaughter (photo)

"When we first met, he was eloquent." "When we meet for the second time, ask him what he thinks of the dating program?" "Invite him to dinner, is it a bill or a bluff?" Do you often go to foot baths, bars, dance halls and nightclubs? ""Have you ever given alms to old people and disabled people begging in the street? "

..... As the saying goes, "The older a man is, the older a woman is." But finding the right person is not easy. 70-year-old Mr. Yuan wrote a 19-page blind date guide for his baby granddaughter, in order to find Mr. Right as soon as possible.

What do you think of this "guide"?

Grandpa said:

I don't want my granddaughter to get hurt when I write the "guide"

Mr. Yuan and his wife live near an Southwest Hutong. Because of family reasons, granddaughter Chunni (pseudonym) has been living with them since she was 8 months old. Chunni is 2 1 year old this year. After graduating from college, she became a kindergarten teacher.

One night in early June, the old couple watched a TV blind date program together. Mr. Yuan said: "Now the children's thoughts are very complicated, so I want to write a blind date guide for Chunni. Baby, I haven't talked about the object yet, so I have to give some advice ... "My wife agreed at once. A few nights later, Mr. Yuan put the 19 page Blind Date Guide in front of his granddaughter. "I read it to my baby three times and explained it while reading. She listened very carefully. "

Mr. Yuan explained: For example, "When we first met on a date, let him speak freely, and the rivers and lakes would be in chaos." Don't say anything when we meet for the first time. Whether he is bluffing or saying something, he will be exposed.

Another example is "filial piety to parents and grandparents?" Please give some examples. ""Is it filial to parents, so you can tell from a few examples whether it is fabricated or not, and you can see it on the spot. "

"Colleagues, classmates and friends eat, are you rushing to pay the bill or pretending to attack ..." Mr. Yuan told his granddaughter that he was the best person at this time. "If you don't even spend the money, don't look for him."

As for why we should ask each other about the understanding of the sentence "people don't make a windfall, horses don't eat weeds and don't get fat", Mr. Yuan said: "Everything is done little by little. No one can succeed in one step. We need to find practical people when we divide books. I won 5 million in the lottery, which has nothing to do with you. Don't even think about it. "

In addition, "I save myself three times a day." "Live a day, you have to be serious. You must remember what you did in the day at night. How promising can a person who does not often reflect? "

Granddaughter said:

It is too difficult to find people who meet the "guide"

"I think Grandpa's' Guide' can be used not only to find grandchildren, but also for unit recruitment." Chunni said with a smile that she carefully read what Grandpa wrote, and felt that many criteria were not only for finding a "son-in-law", but also for a person's personality, love and quality. "Dating recruitment, don't you want to find such a person?"

She thinks grandpa's requirements are particularly detailed and idealistic. She thinks it is too difficult to find all the qualified people, because who the other person really is can only be discovered slowly after contact. "Don't let people go to bars, but I don't think people who go to bars are necessarily bad people, right?" She said that although she didn't agree with some of the contents, she was still very moved after reading it as a whole, and she was glad to have a grandfather who loved her. She said that she would look for it according to the requirements in Grandpa's Guide, but she wouldn't be in a hurry to let the other person see it. "It's strange that when we meet for the second time, we will show others and show our swords. The requirements inside are a bit harsh, and I am afraid that people will be scared. " She said that when the time was right, she would show the manuscript to the other party. If he likes himself, he will have a sense of identity with the contents.

Peer said:

If you find someone you like, you may not care about the "guide"

Xiao Mu is 2 1 year-old, the same age as Chunni, and a junior at Northwest University. After reading the blind date guide, she said that Grandpa Yuan was really sweet. Any girl wants to find a person with good personal qualities, love and stable work. If she really meets something she likes, she may forget the rules. Xiaoding, 26, graduated from university for three years and worked in a private enterprise. She is single at present. After reading the Guide, he smiled and said, "I feel that I am quite suitable." He said that he had talked about a girlfriend before, and the reason for breaking up was "personality incompatibility." "Now, the people we are talking about are rushing to get married. Whether looking for a girlfriend or a boyfriend, we should ask what we should know in advance without delay. I think this' guide' is quite good. " He said that he wouldn't be surprised if any girl showed it to him, because it was written sincerely.

Subsequently, the reporter interviewed two mothers in their fifties. They all agree with Mr. Yuan's practice and the contents of the "guide". However, they also said that today's children have many ideas, falling in love and looking for an object mainly depends on the children themselves.

Community reporter intern Mu

Excerpts from the guide to blind date

Chunnier (pseudonym):

Hello, my lovely granddaughter!

You become an elegant girl in a snap of your fingers. As the saying goes, "when a man is older, a woman is older." In the future, when you meet relatives and friends to help you thread the needle, Grandpa will think twice and put forward the following suggestions for your reference.

We are old Henan, so we'd better find people from Henan.

Your college education, the other party's high school education or above is ideal.

Boys should be 22-26 years old.

Height 178cm- 180cm is just right.

The master of "changing one place with one shot" can't do it.

Regular facial features, good health and generally good looks. "Gao Fushuai" is hard to find, especially "rich brother" and handsome guy, who are often "playboys".

When we meet on the first date, let him "talk like a flow of words, and the rivers and lakes are chaotic." When we meet for the second time, we should hold him straight and give him a "bright sword". Ask him if he often watches TV? Have you seen the "blind date" programs broadcast by Hunan, Zhejiang, Jiangsu and other satellite TV stations after 1980s and 1990s? Please talk about your views on this program.

Let's talk about personal situation first. Of course, the more detailed and thorough, the better. For example, when colleagues, classmates or friends have dinner, do you grab the bill or "pretend to attack"? First, you mumble, "Oh, it's urgent, it's urgent!" " And shout "waiter, where is the bathroom"?

Suppose you get married in the future, colleagues, friends and classmates will give you "money", some from 200 yuan and some from 500 yuan, 1000 yuan. Then, when they get married, after you take out the original gift list, how will you return the gift to them?

Now many media are intensively promoting how to buy a house and a car, how to travel, how to eat, drink, and enjoy life ... What do you think of this public opinion orientation?

Smoking or drinking? Dump old k and build a wall?

How many girlfriends did we talk about before we met? How to break up in the end?

Do you often go to "foot baths, bars, dance halls, nightclubs …"? Have you ever had the experience of "Wenzhou Xiaomei, rubbing her back"?

Have you ever given alms to old people and disabled people begging in the street?

The old man fell on the road and you happened to pass by. Are you struggling to clear the crowd and rushing to help the old man without hesitation, or are you standing by?

Have you ever picked up "silver" since childhood? How much did you pick up? Is it for the teacher, the car owner or the police uncle?

Suppose you earn one yuan today, five cents to buy vegetarian buns, and five dollars to send you away. Meat buns are 20 cents each, and buying five is just enough to spend a dollar. Question: Are you a vegetarian or a meat eater? Why?

As the saying goes, "people are not rich unless they make a windfall, and horses are not fat if they don't eat weeds." What do you think of this sentence? Is this reasonable? Confucius said: I save three times a day. Is Kong Old Master Q right? Is this necessary?

Do you like reading? What famous Chinese and foreign books have you read? Who is the author?

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Tell the other party that you have made it clear to me, and I will identify and weigh the pros and cons. So we won't waste our precious time, hurt each other's feelings and spend unnecessary money for me! Do you think so?

Through dialogue and communication, if you are heartbroken and feel that you can try to get along with each other, then you should be open-minded, dare to shake your old self and dare to expose your scars. People often say that "gold is not enough, and no one is perfect."

Chunnier, dear my baby granddaughter ... Grandpa is too ignorant and ignorant to get to the point. If I'm wrong, we'll talk in our spare time, okay?

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