What are the key characteristics of a person's happiness,

Happy people, they often have the following three characteristics:

1, recognize yourself

I am who I am, not anyone, but a unique existence in this world. Many people are unhappy because they always like to compare themselves with others, and the comparison is often people who are really better than themselves. Therefore, they often blame themselves and envy others.

It's not that you can't compare. It's just that we have to be clear that the object of comparison is not anyone, but the past self. Everyone's starting point and ability are different, so there is no comparability. Maybe what we have been trying to achieve all our lives is just the starting point of others, but so what? At least we have improved our lives and those of our families through our own efforts. Isn't this a happy thing?

Xiao Fang, a primary school classmate, has only a junior college level and a poor family. Her father was seriously ill for several years, but she didn't complain She still works hard every day. In order to take care of her father conveniently, she organized a primary school remedial class around her home, trying her best to prepare the children's remedial class and do homework after class. The charge is not high and the result is obvious. Parents trust her ability and say that they will send their children there for consultation every time. In this way, through their own practical efforts, the remedial classes are getting bigger and bigger, which solves the problem of father's medical expenses. At the same time, when recruiting teachers for remedial classes, I met my current husband, gained love, and the days are getting better and better. This is her happiness. Throughout her life, Xiao Fang knows how to recognize her own abilities. Without a high degree and a good family background, she will do whatever she wants and know how to be content. This is precisely the direction to happiness.

Step 2 focus on your work

Focus is simply to do one thing at a time and do it with your heart.

Seeing that classmate A took the teacher qualification exam, you go to register for the teacher qualification exam. Seeing that classmate B is taking the CPA exam, you feel unwilling to lag behind and signed up. Before the exam, you look through the unfinished textbooks and CPA books that have just been opened, and finally go to the examination room to be the denominator. As the saying goes, you can't get fat in one bite. It's good to work hard and make progress, but everything should be done step by step. If you just concentrate on preparing textbooks for a period of time, you may be waiting for the teacher qualification exam now, so it is important to concentrate on one person. Maybe some people can do many things successfully at the same time, but after all, we are the ordinary majority, so don't take any chances.

3. Change your mind.

The influence of mentality on a person can be said to be accompanied by a lifetime, and a good attitude can help us achieve many things.

I remember a saying that "how much suffering does a person have to hide before he can spend his life skillfully". It can be seen that no matter who you are, you will inevitably encounter some setbacks in your life. First of all, don't doubt, because this is the normal state of life. What we want to change is the mentality when we encounter difficulties and setbacks. If you feel sorry for yourself and live in fear all day, you will lose not only your love for life, but also your mental health and mental health. This is the reason why there are some anxiety and depression in today's society. Therefore, it is necessary to understand that a person's life cannot be perfect, and no matter what choice he makes, there will be gains and losses. What we are doing now is to weigh the pros and cons. If you want to know this clearly and face the reality frankly, there will be no obstacle. In addition, you should believe that every step you take is arranged by God and will definitely teach you something. So, from now on, adjust your mentality. There are more beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover and experience. Don't waste time on things that make you sad!