The first key person who affects your fate: spouse, the person you often sleep with, is that right?

Introduction: Women are very delicate and often can't dominate themselves, and the key to a woman's good life is the man she often sleeps with. The climate, soil and nutrients that make men women determine the direction and potential of women's growth.

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Sister Jiang in the office lost her parents and no brothers or sisters when she was a child. She was brought up by her grandmother alone and suffered a lot. She was considered unlucky when she was a child. If her grandmother doesn't love her, she doesn't know if she can grow up.

It was her husband who made Jiang Jie get rid of the "unlucky" mark in her heart. In order to beg her, her husband promised her to marry her grandmother and promised to devote himself wholeheartedly to the world.

1989, they have no children after marriage, and the husband is the only child in the family. The pressure and troubles from all sides made Sister Jiang feel guilty and sad. She really thinks her life is terrible, and she just wants not to drag her husband down, so she almost filed for divorce.

Jiang Jie's husband has been like a day for several years, not because he can't have children and ignores or rejects his wife, but because he is more considerate and concerned about his wife.

Cook dinner for her after work every day, accompany her to go out for a walk, take her out to play when you are free on weekends, and hug her when you sleep at night, especially in front of your parents. There must be no words that wronged her.

He always said, living in the present, children depend on fate, but husband and wife were repaired in their previous lives, and they should love each other and rely on each other in this life.

Nothing in life is perfect. Cherish the present, love your wife, and don't waste this life, which is the right way.

Jiang Jie felt that his best love for him was to give birth to a child for her husband, so he went everywhere for medical treatment, and God paid off his lover.

At the age of 33, they gave birth to a daughter and at the age of 35, they gave birth to a son. Every month, my husband takes care of the month.

From maternity to baby, from diet to rest, from every expression to parenting, he devoted himself to in-depth research and took meticulous care of his family, so that Sister Jiang rested at home for a whole year.

Sister Jiang came to work, and the whole person seemed to be completely transformed. She looks more radiant than before, with rosy skin and plump figure. Every time I talk about my husband, I am full of praise, and my pride and love are beyond words.

She said she was satisfied with her life, carefree and had children. She was loved and cared for by her grandmother when she was a child, and by her husband when she got married. Now she thinks she is the luckiest woman. What is more important to a woman than her man's love?

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People often say that a person's life is doomed.

There are many factors that can affect fate, but what is the key to the number one fate? You may not guess. The answer is: spouse, someone who often sleeps with you.

Women often say that fate is bad because they have found someone who can destroy her.

Similarly, half of those lucky women have found a pillow person who will inspire her.

The person next to a woman's pillow has a vital influence on her fate, because more than 50% of your achievements are in the hands of the person who sleeps next to you. Even if he does nothing, he can "hypnotize" you, influence you subtly, and even become the dominant force in your life.

Unmarried girls, like saplings in the nursery, are beautiful, tall and full of vitality.

Married, with a man all day, a man becomes a woman's climate, soil and nutrients, which determines the direction and potential of a woman's growth.

If a man has a bad temper, he is either tottering all day or indifferent, and a woman must be haggard and dull; If men are timid and worthless, women have to rely on themselves for everything and eventually become real women; If a man is cultured, caring and considerate, then a woman must be full of peach blossoms and enthusiasm.

Beauty is nourishing, and a good man makes a woman feel good, have a good mind and have a good mind.

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What kind of man a woman falls in love with often becomes what kind of person, and a man determines the fate of a woman's life.

Every woman wants to marry a good man, and a good man can give her a rich and stable life and a happy marriage.

The people who sleep next to you either consume you or destroy you, or inspire you and protect you.

Warren Buffett once said: I think the most important decision in life is who to marry, not any investment.

When a distant cousin got married, grandma came home and told us that the bride was from the city and the most beautiful daughter-in-law in the whole family was envious.

On my wedding day, I saw my face like a peach blossom, my skin like jelly, my long hair flowing, my eyebrows laughing like a spring breeze, and I have my own femininity and innocence.

However, after five or six years of marriage, when we meet at home during the New Year, it is simply surprising. She has short hair, capable but rough, and her skin is thin and dark, especially her eyes, which have long been out of circulation. It may be an endocrine disorder and there are many red and swollen bumps on her face.

Cousin can't help wondering how a few years have passed and she seems to be much older. At first glance, she looks like a country girl.

It turned out that after making some money in business, this cousin was ambitious, wanted to get rich quickly, ate, drank, whored and gambled everything, and owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts after his business failed.

But unlike those who have been poor together, his daughter-in-law advised him to find a job in a down-to-earth manner. He doesn't believe that he can't go home and then have an affair with a married man. The couple have conflicts every day, and they are often urged by debtors, so there is no peace at home.

A delicate and charming flower was planted in the harsh environment and barren land, and only withered was waiting for her.

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A woman's pillow determines her fate, and other people's opinions will affect people's cognition of themselves.

The people who have the greatest influence on us are parents in the first half of their lives and pillow people in the second half.

The person at the bedside is chosen by the woman herself, but the woman chooses a partner not only to choose a person, but also to choose a lifestyle.

From day to night, from night to day, day after day, year after year, his influence and expectation on you, and what he said to you are deeply imprinted in your subconscious mind, which ultimately determines the success or failure of your life.

When a woman's spouse chooses to marry a man and spend the rest of her life together, it must be because you are excellent in her mind. Otherwise, she knows that you are not good, how could she decide to spend her life with you?

Similarly, when a man decides to marry a woman, he must think that she is excellent, which will enable you to give full play to your abilities and help you succeed. Otherwise, how can you decide to spend your life with her?

So, when you were able to inspire each other, why have you changed now? First of all, because one of them has changed, so has the other!

But a woman, no matter how the man you sleep with changes, you should never leave his family, aim at family harmony and happiness, strengthen your life and life philosophy, pursue your inner dreams, and strive to put them into action and fulfill yourself.

Change yourself first and make yourself a positive person who knows how to appreciate and appreciate your spouse. Your tolerance and gratitude may turn your spouse into a person like you.

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What is a person's destiny is his own? Confucius said: Being kind to others will be rewarded. Is to do more good deeds and persist in being yourself.

Don't consume yourself in marriage, don't be held hostage by the other half, and strive to improve and cultivate yourself. Your blessings will get bigger and bigger, and your destiny will get better and better.

In short, the person sleeping next to you is the first key to your destiny.

Please remember: it is he who decides your happiness, and it is you who decides what he does!

Women, you must make them your help, not your resistance, strive to reach a consensus in life, support and restrain each other, and strive to manage marriage, so that you can become the master of that beautiful life and happiness!