He Jiong has mentored so many artists, why is there no one to help him when something happens to him? What is the embarrassment of middle-aged people?

As the saying goes, "Etiquette is less important than affection." Gifts are a friendly gesture to enhance mutual relations. You can make it by hand or buy something more practical, but if it is too expensive and the economic status gap between the gift giver and the gift recipient is too large, the gift will deteriorate. His behavior of collecting large gifts from fans is not correct. No one wants to protect a friend who has done something wrong. This has nothing to do with his age. But there are indeed many unspeakable difficulties and embarrassments in middle age.

1. Embarrassing employment

Now, whether we are young people who have just graduated or those who already have some social experience, when we look for a job in the recruitment market, we will find that some companies are recruiting The age limit is under 28 years old, or under 30 years old, or under 35 years old, which is about these thresholds. There are also some jobs with low technical content, including cleaning, service and other jobs, where the age limit may be higher, under 50 or 55 years old. Therefore, when a middle-aged person has accumulated certain experience in an industry, but changes careers due to some reasons, it will be very difficult and embarrassing for him to want to work again.

2. Responsibility

The responsibilities of young people in life, in addition to taking care of themselves, are to develop their careers and do their jobs well every day. As we gradually enter middle age, we not only have to do our jobs well and take care of ourselves, but we also have to support our elderly parents and raise our young children. Work, personal life, spouse, parents, children. Various responsibilities need to be balanced and assumed.

3. Physical embarrassment

We now live at a faster pace and work at a faster pace. Even sitting in an office every day requires physical strength. From nine or ten in the morning to five or six in the afternoon, maybe eight or nine in the evening if you work overtime. Most companies have to work overtime, so they ask for age, mainly because older people have lower physical fitness. If you stay up late, the chance of sudden death is very high.