Are there many people who have worked hard in Shanghai for nearly 10 years and have achieved nothing so far?

Guide: Why have you achieved nothing at the age of 30? That's because you spend too much energy on bad things. Share a story I saw with my own eyes. Welcome to discuss and share in the comment area ~

I remember one graduation season, the company recruited a group of fresh college students in the university.

One of the girls is tall and beautiful, with good eloquence and ability, and gets along well with the vice president.

In this group of college students, most of them don't like this girl, especially the girl.

At that time, there was a rumor that she hooked up with the vice president in an attempt to get promoted.

Some people even said that once she came out of the vice president's office with a red face, it must be that two people had done something shameful.

Gossip between her and the vice president has become the most important topic for a group of colleagues to get together and chat privately.

Once I went out to chat with her, I couldn't help but nod to her: "Do you know that the company is now spreading an anecdote about you and the vice president? Do you want to avoid or clarify? "

She smiled and said to me, "Nothing. I'm not afraid of crooked shadows. I am really busy now and have no time to say these bad things. "

Later, she went her own way and ignored those gossips.

After contacting her, I found that she was really busy. She did a perfect job and worked very hard for her performance. PPT is as beautiful as a picture scroll, and the data is very informative.

After work, she either goes to an English cram school, takes an exam for a professional title, or goes to the gym. Every day, she lives a full life.

Those who like gossiping seem to be bored. Not only do their work badly, but they also like to get together and talk about other people's gossip and privacy when they have nothing to do.

It seems that they spend their idle and boring days on these things.

A year later, a dramatic scene happened.

The vice president is married, the bride is not her, and she has a new boyfriend. The scandal between her and the vice president was broken, and the rumour maker was slapped in the face.

Two months later, a more dramatic scene happened.

The company promoted the girl's position and became the boss of those gossips.

The reason for the promotion is also simple and rude, because her performance alone is twice that of those people combined.

At this time, those gossip people turned their guns and kissed her ass.

Some brought her special products from home, some gave her snacks from time to time, and some even betrayed their friends and told her who the previous rumors were.

I remember a sentence I heard before: stay away from people who are too idle.

I'm impressed.

If idle people happen to be at leisure, they will also like gossip, otherwise their world will be boring.

She knows this very well, and it doesn't make any sense to ignore these bad things and compete with these idle people.

You won a bunch of idlers. What achievements have you made?

There is a saying that a person's value depends on his opponent.

It's not that I don't want to fight with you, but that you are not worth fighting with me, and I despise fighting with you!

Through this incident, I really understand what the boss said: people who want to do great things will never be entangled in bad things.

The rotten thing is rotten because the more you care about it, the worse it is, so that you can rot with it and sink in forever.

Even if you win in the end, the time, manpower, material resources and financial resources you spent are gone forever, which is very worthless.

Writing here, it suddenly occurred to me that Han Xin was cheated and humiliated, which may be one of the reasons for Han Xin's great success.

In fact, successful people are not weak and incompetent, but because their time is precious.

Struggling with small things, I lost many opportunities to make money. They are just the best choices made after rational weighing.

Can people with a monthly income of 1 10,000 earn the same money every minute as those with a monthly income of 1 10,000?

Conclusion: Why have you achieved nothing at the age of 30? It's because you spend too much energy on bad things and more meaningful things, such as improving yourself, such as studying, such as fitness and so on.

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