The Connotation and Extension of Man (Spirit)

The connotation and extension of human beings

1 How to know a person

Society is made up of people, and communication between people is inevitable. Then how to know each other has become a very realistic and important problem. According to the depth of communication with people, the cognitive process can be divided into three levels, namely, representation level, extension level and connotation level. When we meet strangers, our first concern is to collect more direct information from each other, such as face, figure, posture, language and movements. If you know something about medical knowledge, you can also use this information to infer each other's physical and mental health. Then, we can understand each other's extension through further contact. Extension refers to a person's talent and virtue. How to judge each other's talent or moral level? It's simple. If you are envious, even a little jealous, it means that the other person is more talented. Similarly, the more you trust or respect each other, the more virtuous they are. Finally, through repeated confirmation of both positive and negative aspects, we can see through each other's connotation. Connotation refers to personal feelings and interests.

2 the product of interaction between people and society

The product of social interaction refers to money, status and fame. In the process of knowing a person, it is easy to come into contact with these products, and even use them as a criterion to judge each other. Therefore, it is necessary for us to straighten out the relationship between human connotation and extension and the product of social interaction. Theoretically speaking, people with more connotations and extensions are more likely to get money, status and fame, and there is no causal contradiction between them. Seeking truth from facts, we must strictly experience the exercise of our student days in order to survive, stand on the ground and develop in society. Students' time is a crucial period for us to enrich our own connotation and extension. Although there were few opportunities for us to interact with society at that time, we all know that if we don't study, we will definitely be eliminated by society.

However, the glitz and noise, excitement and excitement of society often make us start to shake the formed concept of cause and effect. In fact, that is the abnormality of society, not our misjudgment. If you move with the society, the result can only be to give up the basics.

3 How to evaluate social interaction products

The people of China need money, need international status, and need to rebuild their old reputation. But to win these depends on the connotation and extension of China people. Facing the same experience, Jews and China people showed completely different positions on the issue of World War II reparations. Jews deeply remember the names of the victims and the battles related to them. The crimes of the Germans simply cannot escape their eyes. In front of the Jews, the Germans became frank and somewhat timid. They even thought the war was a disgrace. The Germans promised compensation and admitted their crimes, and the connotation and extension of the Germans grew. It seems that people in China seldom mention the names of those victims. Their death is so silent that they expect the living to get justice for them. However, all this was drowned by vanity. It seems that the Japanese have to tell the truth even if they get cheap. History is edited arbitrarily in their hands, because you can't tell China, and others can't tell. The connotation of China people and the extension of Japanese people have been lost.

Therefore, no matter when, we must base ourselves on our own connotation and extension, which is beneficial to ourselves and people. In fact, sticking to yourself is the process of improving others.

Which is more important, connotation or extension?

Connotation, of course. Although Forrest Gump is a movie, it gives us a great enlightenment that the connotation of human beings is more important than the extension. It can be said that this is the wisdom of Americans. By the way, Canadians also have this "weird" logic. A wealthy Canadian businessman came to Shenzhen, China to invest and build a company, and wanted a female secretary. After several rounds of competition, only three finalists were finally selected. The eccentric Canadian boss asked the last question: "If your mother came to see you from far away for the first time, what would you do if you were in the company at this time?" It should be pointed out that if you ask me for leave, I will never allow it. " The first applicant replied, "I will ask my mother to walk around the station and pick her up after work." The second place said, "I will ask my good friend to help me pick her up at the station first, and then pick her up after work." The third person said, "I'll ask you for leave first, and if you don't agree, I'll resign." As a result, the third candidate was selected.