Who says you can't travel after having a baby? ? Love children and love yourself.

"When a woman becomes a mother, she must love herself if she loves her children."

As an older single young woman, I am addicted to my circle of friends every day, looking at other people's children, each one is cuter than the other, and it is simply adorable!

But one day, the mothers who accidentally sneaked into the community found that behind every lovely doll, there was a helpless treasure mother. There will always be a treasure mother posting for help:

"Do you want to travel when you have a child?"

"How to take the children out to play, is it very troublesome?"

"Have you ever taken a child to travel?"

But the replies under the post are actually blocked. There is a question: "When you are a mother, why is your heart so wild?" "With children, I think about the entertainment of young people."

It seems that after becoming a mother, we will bid farewell to our inner "self" and our life will revolve around our children.

When you are eager to take this step, the originally happy family suddenly becomes your enemy: you are all mothers, but your heart can't stop? Stay here.

In fact, children are not a stumbling block to travel. In 2020, traveling with children is the right way to be a mother.

When the baby was born, you said to travel. People around you say that the child is too young, and you hesitate for the child.

When your child goes to school, you say to travel, and people around you say that your child has no time to make up lessons. For the sake of your child, you hesitate.

Children are adults, but you are old.

Wasted a beautiful time, wasted a beautiful scenery and longing, and wasted the most beautiful smile in the camera. Your enthusiasm for traveling is exhausted day by day in the voices of people around you.

In fact, taking your baby out for a trip is not only for treating yourself, but also for children.

For example, in Sun Li, the whole family goes out in groups at least twice a year, and it is even more often that they only take their children without their father Deng Chao.

Although the child is young, he has been punching cards all over the world ~

Cherrie Ying took 5-year-old Jasper to ski, and Hu Xinger took his/kloc-0-year-old baby to the island for a holiday. I envy skr people.

Sun Li said, "Many people said it was useless to take their children out for a trip. He didn't remember. In fact, he doesn't need to remember specific things. Many things don't need you to say. His eyes saw it. In fact, he learned. This is particularly good for his psychological mapping, and this influence is endless. "

I quite agree with her. Babies often go out for a walk, and their adaptability to the environment will be stronger; Playing in the fresh world can also enhance your natural creativity; After many "firsts", you may become braver.

Children, although a "sweet burden", should not be a step to stop you from pursuing beauty, but a catalyst.

Take your children with you, and you will find that your world is still vast, which can bring you a different travel experience from your children.

If two people's premarital travel is a test of true love, family travel with a baby is a machine to make good memories.

So, how can you travel without your beloved baby?

Taking care of children is not only a test of their feelings, but also an exercise for novice parents.

Enjoy the little surprise on the trip. In a strange environment, the friction and interesting things that two people face together are sweet and happy memories in the future.

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Travel is not necessarily a colorful modern city, but holding hands with your lover and children and strolling on the beach, woodland and grassland.

I have to say that parent-child travel is really an accelerator for emotional warming!

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Many fathers usually think that taking care of children in life is very troublesome and trivial, and that it is a mother's business.

When traveling, it is not easy to understand my mother's difficulties when I really go out and participate.

"Mom may care more about children and let them have the courage to face dangers and challenges. This is the responsibility of dad."

Take the children out for a walk. During the journey, you will share the responsibility of taking care of the baby, strengthen the affection between the child and the father, and bring love to the child's growth.

For many people, traveling means getting on the bus to sleep, getting off the bus to take pictures, going home to ask questions and shaking your head. Now I'm going to take my baby on a trip. Are you still going to do this?

The real parent-child tour is not blindly following the trend, but listening to the inner voice.

What kind of world do you want your children to see?

When he was young, you wanted him to know that there were endless oceans, beaches and shells in the world that could fascinate him.

What kind of growth environment do you want to create for your children?

When he grows up, he knows that Kong Rong's pear making is more than a story. You can take him to learn about different national cultures. It turns out that there are not only the Great Wall, but also the Terracotta Warriors and the Mogao Grottoes.

I've seen many so-called parent-child tours. Parents wander from one scenic spot to the next, and children are depressed.

You might as well follow your children's footsteps, be patient and see the world through their eyes. Will you find that the scenery is so beautiful and there are so many interesting things?

The meaning of traveling is that you are laughing and he is making trouble.

2020 is almost over. Don't you take the baby to see the outside world?

In the new year, give children a gift, accompany each other on the journey and grow up with a smile.

Travel, gray duck has the peace of mind you want.