HR asked if you were single?

During the interview, HR asks some "special questions", which always makes people unprepared.

For example, when HR talks about whether you are single or not, how to answer skillfully without embarrassment?

This question is particularly important for girls, because many employers will regard it as a necessary part of the interview.

For example, 24-year-old Xiao He recently interviewed in a company and successfully entered the second interview stage. After the interview, HR asked her if she was single. Xiao He was shocked and didn't know how to answer.

If the answer is "single", companies may worry that being single will cause instability. If you answer "not single", you are afraid of a series of questions behind HR, such as: Are you married? Do you have children? Are you going to have a second child again? It's really a headache

Finally, Xiao He truthfully replied that she currently has a boyfriend. Then, HR asked Xiao He what their future plans were, and whether they planned to get married and have children. Xiao He, to be honest, didn't think so much, and everything went with the flow.

After listening to the answer, HR ended the interview without continuing to ask questions. In the end, Xiao He unfortunately missed his new job. Talking about the reason, she is still worried about "Are you single?" .

What is the relationship between "single" and interview?

This question is really important for enterprises and HR:

1, just graduated+single: relatively stable, no maternity leave and other factors in the short term, can work overtime;

2. Have a boyfriend (girlfriend)+unmarried: feelings may affect job stability;

3, newly married+childless: there may be pregnancy plans and maternity leave, which is not conducive to the orderly development of work;

4. Married and educated: the most stable, with certain economic pressure, and more able to obey the arrangement of superiors.

HR asks this question. First of all, I want to know if you have stability problems. For example, getting married and having children requires a long vacation, which is definitely a loss for the company.

Secondly, I want to clarify the attitude of job seekers towards work. This shows that job seekers are concerned about family or work. What is the job matching degree?

How to answer this question well?

If you are single, you can answer like this:

At present, I am single. I think it is most important to find a satisfactory job and make yourself financially independent.

At present, I am single. I plan to develop in this city in two to three years. I want to exercise myself first.

Currently single, I don't think about love now. I think only when my ability is improved and I become better can I talk about a more stable love. Now I just want to concentrate on my work.

If you are not single, you can answer this question:

I have a lover, and our relationship is very stable. We have some preliminary plans for the future and plan to get married in xx.

I am in love now, but I won't get married so soon. Now is the best time to work hard.

I am married, but I still want to focus on work at present, and I plan to have children with my love in XXX years.

In short, when answering this question, please answer truthfully, and don't lie. In fact, as long as you express your attitude towards work and have the ability to balance life and work.

The answer is three hours ago.