Parents accompany their children to find jobs.

Parents accompany their children to find jobs.

Recently, a strange job-hunting phenomenon appeared at a job fair in Chongqing: some undergraduate graduates went to the job fair to apply for jobs accompanied by their parents. What surprised the recruiter even more was that a 2 1 year-old undergraduate kept silent after handing in his resume, and his father kept asking the person in charge of the company questions such as salary, environment and food. The dislocation and contrast between the indifference of job seekers and the enthusiasm of job seekers' parents reflect the failure of some families in their children's independent education.

Obviously, this kind of job-hunting behavior accompanied by parents is a sign that college students are not weaned. Although the child is immature, parents are also hard to blame for tracing the reasons why the child is difficult to "wean". As an experienced person, parents should say that they have relatively rich social experience and can provide some reference opinions for their children's job hunting, but this does not mean that parents should do everything for their children. From graduation to employment, college students mean the role change from students to social people. In this process, parents can accompany them as instructors and mentors, instead of doing everything in detail. Parents care about their children's education and work, from which we can understand and feel their care for their children. But the way parents arrange everything is not conducive to the growth and development of their children. When graduates go from campus to society, they often experience fierce social competition and challenges, and finding a job is the key first step for graduates to contact and perceive society. If parents protect their children who are about to enter the society like flowers in a greenhouse, it will not only be difficult to help them adapt to and meet the fierce social competition, but also be detrimental to cultivating and improving their social competitiveness.

Therefore, parents should put the cultivation of children's independent survival ability in a very important position, cultivate and instill children's independent consciousness in daily family education, and let children become the masters of their own lives. At the same time, parents should also "let go" of their growing children at an appropriate time. When children face a fork in the road in life, parents should strengthen communication with their children and listen to their inner thoughts. Whether it is to continue studying, graduate employment, self-employment, etc. It is a way for young people to pursue their dreams, and parents should give them full respect and support.

A qualified job seeker should not only meet the qualifications, professional skills, labor ability and other conditions, but also have independent ability, adaptability and communication ability, among which independent ability is the foundation. "Application with my son" exposed the lack of children's sense of independence. Parents do this, without saying anything, but it may ruin their children's prospective rice bowl. Even if they solve the immediate problems for their children, there is no guarantee that they will never encounter difficulties again. Parents may wish to adjust their mentality, change their concepts and "wean" their children in time. Children should also abandon dependence and take courage and confidence to go out to the society. Even if they fail, they can take it as an opportunity for self-improvement.

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